blunderbusst

blunderbusst

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842 comments posted · 3 followers · following 23

158 weeks ago @ The Toast - An Open Thread, and Se... · 1 reply · +7 points

Literally almost added "For CleverManka and her Folder of Many GIFs," so YOU are perfect.

158 weeks ago @ The Toast - An Open Thread, and Se... · 3 replies · +17 points

Keep trying to read comments. End up shaking head and repeating "I can't I can't I can't" while holding back tears. Will take a moment to write instead of spectate...

THANK YOU, TOAST and TOASTIES:
- For confirming for me that someone I love had been sexually assaulted, and teaching me how to support her afterwards.
- For introducing me to transgender writers and commenters, unwittingly preparing me for an entire year to gracefully and lovingly applaud my dad in coming out as trans.
- For pointing me toward Captain Awkward, who taught me all about boundaries and emotional caretaking and how to look out for myself.
- For showing me how to be the kind of feminist I wanted to be.
- For the laughs.
- For the friends.
- For holding up a mirror and saying "you are strong and beautiful and silly and perfect just the way you are."

<3

158 weeks ago @ The Toast - Little Ones: Five Cart... · 0 replies · +25 points

150% of each, by my rough estimation.

159 weeks ago @ The Toast - Dear Businesslady: Adv... · 0 replies · +31 points

*begrudging weepy clapping*

(For reals, though, CJ is my role model. I love her so much, and now you even more than I did 5 minutes ago.)

159 weeks ago @ The Toast - Dear Businesslady: Adv... · 3 replies · +72 points

YOU PUT A PICTURE OF POST-BARTLETT CJ AT THE TOP OF THIS POST

I'm crying before I even start reading THANKS A LOT, Businesslady.

160 weeks ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +11 points

Well that article went right to my ovaries, thanks.

160 weeks ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +3 points

I am just @jenscaffidi at IG (just like twitter) and am open to all follows! Apparently my feed is mostly pie (I'm 21 pies into a 40th birthday year #40piesfor40years THING), experimental noise music, and dogs. Which is an accurate representation of my makeup. Anyway.

160 weeks ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +6 points

THIS IS AN EXCELLENT DOG! I have no advice to offer other than yeah, I always get stuck with giant dogs, and the only way I've found to cope is to, basically, give up.

Good thing they are cute.

161 weeks ago @ The Toast - The Toast Looks Back: ... · 0 replies · +5 points

PERFECTION

161 weeks ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +13 points

[to self:] don't click don't click don't click SHIT