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7 years ago @ The Toast - Thank You, Toast. · 3 replies · +77 points

You gave me my first freelance "Yes."

Thank you forever.

8 years ago @ The Toast - Stores: A Butch Storie... · 8 replies · +94 points


8 years ago @ The Toast - Madame Clairevoyant: H... · 1 reply · +12 points

As a Cancer/Leo cusper, I guess I can say that I'm not going to be doing anything in March.

8 years ago @ The Toast - Reasons Ryan Atwood Fr... · 1 reply · +70 points

27. Mainly expresses feelings by clenching and unclenching a very defined jawline

8 years ago @ The Toast - Presidents Day Open Th... · 0 replies · +13 points

This is great. Family is great. Good for your kiddo, too!

8 years ago @ The Toast - "Heterosexuality? Neve... · 1 reply · +88 points

Alternately, "Heterosexuality? Why?"

8 years ago @ The Toast - Drug References That H... · 0 replies · +22 points

I think he's trying to be poetic about the sky and drugs but really, the fault with this confusion lies with him and his terrible lyrics.

8 years ago @ The Toast - Drug References That H... · 0 replies · +63 points


8 years ago @ The Toast - Some Unorganized Mixed... · 0 replies · +12 points

You must be going through such an interesting phase of your life; I'm sorry we live in a society that makes you feel burdened by such a journey. I'm a woman married to a woman, and I am not "The Lesbian Girl." I'm a human being with thoughts and interests and dreams and desires.

Fear not, for not all lesbians or queer people have had the same experiences. It may seem that way on the surface - sort of the way stereotypes are made to function, unfortunately - but everyone is different, just as you've gotten to this point in your life through your own unique experiences.

You get to define you. No one else, not even your partner. You get to choose what you want to be called, and it's on the rest of us to respect that. It's not your burden.

I wish you the very best, and I hope you find people and places who don't make you compromise yourself for their comfort.

8 years ago @ The Toast - If Mary-Louise Parker ... · 0 replies · +9 points

I'm so flattered. You're even my favorite color!