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12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Key to a Happy and... · 0 replies · +2 points

Okay I guess i needed to clarify what i meant by womanizers.

I'm using the term in the general sense that men like, look, flirt and are tempted by women whether they are in a committed relationship or not and the guys that don't are gay because they do the same but its in reference to other men.

Don't deduce the fact that a man who's with one woman is gay ... That makes absolutely no sense. But don't think that just because he's in a relationship/marriage that he doesn't have a wandering eye. That's simply what i'm saying. I'm not using Webster's ... Sorry

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Truth About New Yo... · 0 replies · 0 points

I was waiting for the brothas to drop knowledge

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Truth About New Yo... · 0 replies · +1 points

Mmmmmmhhhh.

+10

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Key to a Happy and... · 1 reply · +1 points

2.) I'm not thinking about that study. I haven't mentioned it once.

3.) That isn't surprising. Monogamy itself is a struggle for men. Some hide/supress it better than others. Don't think u've found a unicorn.

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Key to a Happy and... · 0 replies · +2 points

LOL at your name tho. I digs it.

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Key to a Happy and... · 1 reply · +1 points

If you've followed my comments, you might be a bit o_O at how they vary.

First, as a man ... I defend men instinctively (not justify). So, my immediate reaction isn't to side with the women of today and judge/condemn/demean men's frame of thought, despite it's susceptibility to be flawed, but I am here to explain why we are where we are today and maybe hope to give some understanding. The more you understand, the better you may be able to correct our actions or mindset. Equip yourself.

Secondly, as a man that loves women. I love women. Period. Whatever that means to you, it is what it is. Sue me.

Third of all, my Idea of what I want my marriage to look like is FARRR different from the reality of it that I see everyday. My views on marriage in general are pretty cynical/realistic, but I plan to have an optimistic marriage despite all of the factors that may impede that process.

Fourth, fellas though that like may have boosted your self-esteem today ... It won't get you any extra p*ssy tonight. I'm just sayin. I see you tho. Lol.

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Key to a Happy and... · 5 replies · 0 points

@Kat
That was a joke ... Sorry u didn't find it funny -___-

@Mina
Yes men are womanizers... Men like woman and the ones that don't are obviously gay. What men do with their womanizing ways is where in lies the rub.
And i didn't say all women become complacent. And no one hurt me :-)

But honestly how can one thing so positive about marriage when the positivity in marriage is marred with divorce. My Idea of what I want my marriage to look like is FARRR different from the reality of it that I see everyday. My views on marriage in general are pretty cynical/realistic, but I plan to have an optimistic marriage despite all of the factors that impede that process.

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Key to a Happy and... · 3 replies · +1 points

Kat,

Hush!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re-read the last 2 paragraphs in case u missed it. I don't necessarily agree with the idea of a non-monogamous marriage, but i do understand the study and the struggle behind it.

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Key to a Happy and... · 0 replies · +2 points

LOL

12 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Key to a Happy and... · 1 reply · +1 points

I resent that word "coddling".

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