Mr SoBo
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - Pedicures, Happy Endin... · 0 replies · +9 points
Mr. SoBo
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - Pedicures, Happy Endin... · 6 replies · +3 points
Again, no shade. It just is what it is.
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - Pedicures, Happy Endin... · 1 reply · +2 points
If a man is paying for sex in 2014, he one of two things:
1) Hopeless
2) Or lazy as hell.
Chase? Its 2014. Women have long traded in their flats for 4 inch heels. They ain't running. So if a man is still out here chasin', he's clearly determined to catch his own shadow.
"Obtaining sex is already easy, but making sex even easier, convenient, and getting it from a experienced source- you won’t hear me object to that".
1) Experience does not equate to good.
2) Exactly how much more easier does it have to be than it is right now?
These are the vagina times. Our women have proudly taken charge of their sexuality (many measuring their independence by what they do with the honey pot), and thus have changed the dating landscape. More than enough of them (not all) are out here literally making it rain. Yes, even the highly attractive ones as well. Why? Confidence is a currency all women accept.
Not only is sex easier to obtain, it is practically same day/overnight/two day delivery. In other words, you'll likely spend more time waiting in line at the DMV than you would waiting to sleep with someone you just met. **Meaning when you consider the time you actively interact with this person(via phone & in person) prior to sleeping with him/her and not the amount of days that pass in between that time, you will realize how little of your own time you have invested in such an endeavor.
Reaching into your pockets for dates or illegal solicitation? Such an unnecessary expenditure that is. Yoda. There is absolutely NO need, unless one's sense of manhood stubbornly rests on adhering to dating rituals of yesteryear, or he has a fetish for the dangers and/or monetary transaction of soliciting sex from strangers.
Whatever the case is, to each his own. No condemnation here. Some men enjoy the dating experience, and enjoy paying for those experiences (People still date though??). However, unless there is some fetish involved, it is quite perplexing why a man in THESE TIMES would feel the need to tap his wallets in order to tap that a$$.
Mr. SoBo
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - Is Cheating a Sign of ... · 0 replies · +4 points
Cheating is a purely selfish act. More accurately, cheating is a series of purely selfish choices and actions with the ultimate destination being the bedroom. There is no mistaking that.
Mr. SoBo
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - Is Cheating a Sign of ... · 0 replies · +7 points
However, cheating goes beyond just the physical contact. It begins the very moment the individual makes his/herself available to another albeit, mentally, emotionally, conversationally, etc. The actual sex is the very last phase of that cheating process.
The infidelity began the instant the person was receptive to the amorous advancements of the other.
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - Can You Be Satisfied F... · 0 replies · +3 points
Men are not having consistent, ongoing, casual sex with themselves. Clearly there are many, MANY women who have no qualms about engaging in such relations and repeatedly. Considering that the following phrases, "I'm just doin' me right now", "I'm just enjoying life", or "I'm just having fun right now", are phrases common among those women goes to show their conscious acceptance of such relations. Perhaps there is a sense of independence from 'taking control of their sexuality'. I do not know.
At the end of the day, there is no mistaken these types of women enjoy it just as much as men...that is until they(women) begin to feel realize they are being used. At which point they will either demand a committed relationship or curtail the arrangement altogether. And in many cases will usually rinse, wash and repeat the entire process with the next guy.
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - What's Up With Guys Wo... · 0 replies · +1 points
Generally speaking of course.
Its easier to avoid taking personal responsibility it seems. A strange approach to life to say the least.
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - What's Up With Guys Wo... · 0 replies · +2 points
Bottom line:
If the head goes in, you must count him.
End of discussion.
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - What's Up With Guys Wo... · 0 replies · +2 points
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10 years ago @ Single Black Male - Why Men Hate Dates: Th... · 0 replies · +6 points
At the same time, I understand everyone has their time to learn. Still though, for the fathers out there, hopefully you abandon the fairy tale ritual teachings and provide your son's some real life common sense dating advice.
No brainer tip #1
Have confidence and be unapologetic about your line of questioning.
No brainer tip #2
For the first date, do NOT seek out entertainment (i.e movies, play, lounge, etc). Instead do something free or inexpensive that allows you to converse and get to know one another. A cup of coffee, bowl of ice cream or a walk through the park with a fairly inexpensive meal along the way. Your objective is to identify if there is a mutual interest, declare your intentions as well identify what her intentions are (assuming you didn't spend any time at all before hand on the telephone sorting this out).
Its not rocket science. Its 2014 gents. Stop tip toeing around women.
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