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14 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Perfect Woman: An ... · 1 reply · +9 points

"Lesson learned on my part about trying to engage in conversation."

Ditto.

It won't happen again.

14 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Perfect Woman: An ... · 0 replies · +2 points

"I thought you were being playful with your question, so I answered likewise. My mistake."

Ditto.

14 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Perfect Woman: An ... · 3 replies · +5 points

Oh WHOA, I thought this was in fun and games, hence my laughter.

I think it's relevant because we're discussin "perfect partners" and a lot of people have physical characteristics on their wish lists.

I think my answer was pretty similar to hers?!?! So right now I'm pretty confused at why your response to me sounds so hostile. But maybe I missed something.

14 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Perfect Woman: An ... · 1 reply · +5 points

Perfect for me is a man I can completely submit to, because [my kink runs deep]. *giggles*

14 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Perfect Woman: An ... · 14 replies · +4 points

For the same reason boys include an hour glass frame in their idea of perfect. Stop plain Dr. J. lol.

14 years ago @ Single Black Male - The Perfect Woman: An ... · 0 replies · +5 points

This. Ish. Right. Here.

Just met 'im.

Prolly just leavin 'im too.

But really, arrogance on 1 trillion. iCaint. And then they find out you have some accomplishments of your own (from out in the world) and come back like "why you aint tell me you...." Ummm because I aint know we were in an accomplishment pizzin contest boy.

SIGH.

14 years ago @ WordPress blog at up4d... - I Wanna be Your…Mist... · 1 reply · +2 points

I'm aiming for modern day concubine. He aint gotta be filthy rich, but wealthy enough to maintain all of us is ideal.

14 years ago @ Single Black Male - Why Black Women Should... · 0 replies · +1 points

I've never "really" done it (tried to talk to/date), outside of a very short lived attempt at it with a friend. That doesn't count... like one time and/or vacation sex. (I mean, that's what I heard)

Anyway. I've never had interest. I mean ZERO interest. Too much love for black men, have great fathers in my life, know many good black men, need somebody who "gets" me due to shared history, and onnn and onnn and onnnnnnnnn. (I got a million reasons to love a black man, and obligation aint one. Well... maybe... nevermind.)

Ahem.

However.

I am now interested.

Possibly.

Maybe.

Yep.

My recent post On Slacking & Blocking Your Own Progress

14 years ago @ Single Black Male - Why Success and True L... · 0 replies · +1 points

I agree, i coulda just cosigned you before I commented lol.

14 years ago @ Single Black Male - Why Success and True L... · 1 reply · +5 points

This was a fawkingly awesome post. Probably my favorite from you Dr. J.
It's hard to comment on this.... I could probably write a post about the other side... like what happens when you marry that person you loved in your teens BEFORE you go away to school and grow... especially if they don't grow in similar ways right next to you?
The assumption is, because you're already married, there's no choice to make. (I would also have said this, believed this.) But in reality, there is always a choice. And it's not always YOU who gets to make the choice, either.
I am still a very strong proponent of choosing love and partnership early- before career choices are solidified. I think our generation waits entirely too long. I think growing _together_ is highly underated. The challenge, both in your scenario and mine, is making sure folks grow together so that one person isn't feeling like their only connection is the one y'all had before you amassed your newfound characteristics. Well, that, and the fact that not everyone is as committed to growth as we might be. If we could make it past that bumpy part where the old us turns into the new us? It could be beautiful.

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