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11 years ago @ http://trinidadexpress... - My Heart is Broken | T... · 0 replies · +1 points
Sticking to the assumption that the child was alive all through the journey to grandpa's job ( who forgot he was in the vehicle)!and lets say the child was still alive when the car was parked, what about passers by near where car was parked. Didn't any members of the public see a child sitting alone unattended in a car park?
I live in Uk and one day i pulled up in a neighbourhood to visit a friend, a car pulled up one the opposite side z, and i believe a man got out with a child, i can't remember if there was a mother there as well. My car was parked in a more convenient position which was more suited to that famly with a young child. Before i knew it the man and possibly a female occupant left the car, with bags etc. whilst i was getting my own stuff out my car, i got out only to realize that the child was left in the car by himself. I waited to see if anyone was going to come back for the child. I hadn't seen which house the driver went into. Somi got outnof the car quickly greeted my friend and said to her, i was concerned about a child who was left in a car unattended . I dropped my shopping in her house and went back and stood up waiting to see if anyone would. After a while, (could have beeen 5 mims or less a man eventually returned. I didn't accuse him right away, the first thinf i said to him was , would it be easier if i moved my car so he can get my parking space, so it will be easier for him to have easy access to bring the child into the house from car to building seeing it appeared the man had some bags as well. He said it was alright, but i insisted. When he refused i relised that he didn't plsn on staying for a prolonged period. That was when i told hime off, Firstly that it wasn't safe and thate the child could become ill being left in a car with windows rolled up, and secondly that his chold could be snatched. I saud to him never do that agin. The guy was quite casual about the incident, whilst i was worked up about it, he was relaxed etc. for the next hour it bothered me how casual he was , but i however felt so troubled and uncomfortable about i just witnessed.. What i'm saying is even just a few minutes tinan adukt would seem eternity to a child. This child in question was sleeping in his car seat , but could have woken up. If the person did not return within a reasonable period and would have phoned the police.
Would i have attempted to get the child out of the car? That's another question, if i had , the cctv camera would have shown me trying to open the car and i would have probably been procecuted. Who knows?
Again i ask the question in this scenario where the child actually die?Did passersby see the child and thought ' mind my own business'? The child may have aspyxiated, etc.
The story is very sad, so many questions. We live in such a fast paced world, with so many distractions, gadgets vying for our attention. The people making accusations against the grandad, are some of the same people that perhaps drive whilst talking/ texting on their cell phones. Possibly endangering themselves and other drivers/pedestrians.
Some of the bloggers here possibly drive recklessly jumping red lights, so they could reach their destination faster. Driving in excess of the speed limit etc etc.
I believe the grandad is still in shock and will have tolive with the consequences of his actions/inactions.
It's not an uncommon occurance in places like America. It still happens frequently enough, sad to to say.
I still say grand pa couldn't have een just distracted, chances are he is early stages of an illness. Having said that everything is always in hindsight.
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Well where is the fun now. Thing is that even if you have strict parents, they could have gone out still anyway. Any which way you put it, it sadly seems that apart from people obviously needing to drive at the designated driving limit, and ensuring that they drive sober, Sad to say these girls were doomed to die.
Many Many more young children such as these will continue to die unless people with ignorant attitudes feel like they have to drive fast to impress the young ladies or just because they are driving a fancy car, that people have tuh see what 'D' car could do.
And with most young girls having the long time saying, 'GAS Brains' , for those who forget this ole time saying,' liking people who have nice car an' want tuh drive in it.') , Unfortunately this will continue to happen.
I bet if any young girl now are given a choice a lift to 'D' club in a fast shiny car as opposed to a slower old car with probably an older safer driver, I'm sure each time young people will choose the former. It's just the way young people on the whole think. Nothing new there.
All this talk of losing control of a vehicle, is just because the driver was driving too fast, most likely under the influence of alcohol. These drivers if they survive should be arrested and jailed for manslaughter at the very least. That's what it will take for irresponsible drivers to stop playing the ape when the driver is trying to impress the young ladies out there.
I could just imagine the 'bawling' that will take place at this funeral of these beautiful, promising students. They have left behind I'm sure, very loving parents/guardians, other siblings, cousins, friends, teachers, grandparents.
The list is endless, parents having to bury their children is no joke, it's a very gut wrenching experience which no one will want to experience , however unfortunately, seconds after the accident, passersby, would have viewed the accident and continued, on their own wreckless journey, stupid;y saying to themselves, 'That cyah happen tuh meh, like that man cyah drive ah what! :( So very sad, NO LESSONS WOULD BE LEARNT, WHICH IS WHAT IS GOING TO BE EVEN MORE UNFORTUNATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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On that day ,provided they survive the c section she'll need 6 qualified intensive care nurses and a doctor at each bed space, 6 resuscitaires and the list goes on and on. Also doctors who can successfully intubated babies below 30 week preferably at the first attempt.. They should be delivered into plastic a bag each feet first, up to the neck keeping them warm. it they manage to be able to breathe on their own then fine, even so they will tire easily and will need respiratory support, hourly observations etc etc..I can go on and on since this is what I do everyday. If planned well it can be a joy if not.......... I believe the skill is there but the caring side , not so sure.!