Becca! I'm so sorry you're sick <3 All this stuff is stressing you out and maybe you just need to let go of some things. Like for your anniversary, you're stressing over the money aspect and where to go so why not just do something small this year (like you and Jason can go out to a movie, dinner, and then spend a night at a B&B or a hotel while someone watches the kids)? Then this summer or for your next anniversary you guys can plan a trip and put money aside for it

So I'm glad you're not pregnant if you're glad you're not pregnant. You both seem like great parents and if you were to have another child I think it would easily be well loved and taken care of.

Sorry if my comment posted twice or three times. I didn't think it went through. I kept getting timeout errors from intense debate.