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137 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: How ... · 0 replies · +4 points

Aw, hon. :( You have my sympathies.

IANADoctor, but might you have treatment-resistant depression? Depression is a nasty beast and makes it so.effing.hard to even try to seek help in the first place; working up the ability to do so and have it not work is just awful.

I think you're incredibly strong, because you've kept trying after several attempts haven't gotten results. If I hadn't gotten incredibly lucky with my therapist, I don't think I would have tried a different one, much less several. It was hard enough to even get the motivation to consider seeing someone at all.

Have your different therapists tried different methods with you, or have they generally done the same approach in just slightly different ways? "Talk" therapy is widely known, but there's also Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (popular, but perhaps not as widely known), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and more.

There are also some non-medication treatments that might be worth looking into (assuming you haven't already, of course). From the Mayo Clinic ( http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/dep... ):

Electroconvulsive therapy (ECT). During ECT, electric currents are passed through the brain, intentionally triggering a brief seizure. ECT seems to cause changes in brain chemistry that can quickly reverse symptoms of certain mental illnesses. Although many people are leery of ECT and its potential side effects (such as confusion or amnesia), it can offer immediate relief of even severe depression when other treatments don't work.
Transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS). TMS uses magnetic fields to stimulate nerve cells in the brain to improve symptoms of depression. A large electromagnetic coil is placed against your scalp near your forehead. The electromagnet creates electric currents that stimulate nerve cells in the region of your brain involved in mood control and depression.
Vagus nerve stimulation (VNS). VNS stimulates the vagus nerve with electrical impulses. This treatment uses a device implanted in your chest that's connected by a wire to a nerve in your neck (vagus nerve). Electrical signals from the implant travel along the vagus nerve to the mood centers of the brain, which may improve depression symptoms.

The Electroconvulsive Therapy is NOT at all like what they did back in the 1950s at asylums. It's on a much lower level and isn't painful at all. I know someone who has treatment-resistant depression and says that ECT has been amazingly beneficial and literally life-changing. It not only improved her depression in itself, but it also has made her therapy MUCH more effective.

140 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Discover Your Style · 0 replies · +2 points

I KNOW! That was so awful. I kept thinking about this exchange http://duchovnys.tumblr.com/post/136865565628 which just made it sadder. :'(

140 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Discover Your Style · 1 reply · +5 points

Well, you won't get argument from me, there. But I think that basically every rule or expectation that is applied differently depending on gender stems from that (women == lesser). These kinds of things are complicated -- has the original intent faded enough to not really apply anymore, or is it still important context to be mindful of? Should hat rules be the same regardless of gender and if so, what path would that take (men keeping their hats on more or women keeping theirs on less?)?

I mean, I dig what you're saying. It's kind of like a woman deliberately choosing to change her last name when she marries today. How much is HER choice versus societal expectations? Does her choice impact other women around her and in the future? Isn't it (ironically) patronizing to think she didn't REALLY freely choose to change it because of cultural context? Tons and tons of nuance and shades of grey with very little black or white.

140 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Discover Your Style · 5 replies · +10 points

And suspenders/braces can easily become a signature look. I know I can't be the only chick out there who loooooooooves suspenders.

And three piece suits. Or suits with waistcoats. With suspenders. Basically, I live for Raul Esparza as ADA Barba on L&O:SVU, is what I'm saying. http://images6.fanpop.com/image/photos/38100000/B...

(God I love Barba! I thought no one could ever top Cabot, but I was wrong).

140 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Discover Your Style · 10 replies · +5 points

I'm pretty sure the rule that says women keep their hats on stems more from the fact they're part of a woman's outfit, style-wise, more than a man's hat is (traditionally, etcetc). They often are part of the hair style itself and have to be "arranged" or actually affixed (hi, hat pins!), while men's hats just rest on top of the head. Kinda like the difference between wearing Vans slip-ons and 14 eye Doc Martens (no cheater zipper on the inside). Even if a woman is wearing a dude style hat, ladies rules carry over. I'd argue that women still will choose their hairstyle around what the hat is and they're still more decorative than functional, so the spirit of the rule applies.

But everyone has to follow the same rules for casual hats like baseball caps or toques http://emilypost.com/advice/hats-off-hat-etiquett...

(I wouldn't MIND much if men's dressy/fashion hats were treated more like women's hats, and as long as it's not getting in the way or blocking people's view, I don't care much. And I'd be just as annoyed if a woman was wearing a big hat that blocked my view, heh hehe).

140 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Discover Your Style · 0 replies · +9 points

Yes yes yes! I did that with bold lip colors, because I reeeeeeallly wanted to wear them but felt SO self-conscious.
Maybe most relevant to this article is that I set out wanting to wear bright reds. And I do wear them occasionally, but tweaking the colors to ones that just seem more ... ME -- fuchsias and fuchsia-reds (like Vivid Rose and Pop of Cherry here http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fOiEzX59beU/UbAQNhAcJ1I... or Milani's Flamingo Pose here http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8244/8505697377_046... ) -- makes them FEEL like a part of my look instead of imitating someone else.

141 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Nerd Role Models: Capt... · 1 reply · +16 points

Cool fact: Almost 1/3 of 19th century cowboys were black.

141 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Nerd Role Models: Capt... · 0 replies · +12 points

Social History (or History From the Bottom - Up) has been fighting against the traditional GWM (Great White Men, or History From the Top - Down) for several decades and has definitely made headway.

Primary sources for Social History, focusing on women, people of color, lgbt, the poor, etc. are around but not as accessible as they should be. Census tracts, probate records, city directories, church newsletters, union or professional organization newspapers, letters, pamphlets/leaflets/fliers, etc.

I LOVE this stuff, if you can't tell.

141 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Nerd Role Models: Capt... · 0 replies · +9 points

"Awww, lookit the little lady! She thinks she's people! How cute!"

141 weeks ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Nerd Role Models: Capt... · 1 reply · +6 points

Nooooooope. http://www.forbes.com/2006/02/11/money-subsitutes...

Mining company scrip wasn’t banned until the 1950s.


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