younggodlywomen
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8 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - Her Husband Repents of... · 0 replies · +1 points
"it is beneficial to our earthly selves to repent to the Lord for our sins in order to bring closure* and peace although we know that our salvation is not hanging by the thread of each iniquity"
I am stating exactly what you state, read the original Romans posts Lori wrote to see where I thought there was contradiction. You do not understand my point and most commenters didn't but Lori and Ken did- I was pointing out the importance of his repentence and contrasting it with another post.
*My original comment had this word misspelled.
8 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - Her Husband Repents of... · 7 replies · +1 points
8 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - His Face is Kissed a T... · 0 replies · +1 points
8 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - Sex, Romance, Lies and... · 2 replies · +1 points
I doubt that groupies who get a chance to go back stage and sleep with their favorite famous rock star are worried about if they will get massages and have an orgasm, they are quickly turned on by the man and will willingly have sex instantly with him. That was my point. Of course we all love getting massages and when our husbands do dishes or help with the kids but these things are not slowly warming up a woman for sex, they are just nice things that women appreciate.
8 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - Sex, Romance, Lies and... · 7 replies · +1 points
This is definitely a good point. Women don't fantasize about their husbands doing dishes and rocking babies, if so, books like fifty shades of grey would not have taken the world by storm.
This notion is spearheaded by men who fell for the feminist lie as well. I imagine 200 years ago when women freely gave sex to their husbands, it was their brawn and lingering sweat and dirt on them that turned their wives on. If a man grabbed the baby and put him down, that would have been appreciated in a massive way but it does not add to the wife's desire. I would go as far as to say that it might make the man look emastulated in a woman's eyes if he did these things too terribly much. A man is sexy, and that will never change, therefore manly things are sexy to women and that also will never change.
" a woman is a crock pot and a man a microwave "
I respectfully disagree with this. It contradicts your other assertion. An adulteress will be naked in five minutes, she doesn't need the man to rub her shoulders and light candles first. Most affairs happen with men who are careless and passive and it is a sexy contrast compared to their husbands who are subservient and smothering.
The truth is women do not understand their own desires at all and men have bought into the notion that doing chores and rubbing feet will get them sex because they are desperate for sex now that women can shamelessly deny their husbands and that is what they are told from childhood on up.
I do not know the answer for men and I do not claim to but I do know that women respond in a sexual way to masculinity, not femininity and women's desires are quickly awakened, same as men. Affairs are our best proof of this as you say, affairs happen in minutes.
8 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - Introduction to Create... · 0 replies · +1 points
8 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - A Greater Way to Appro... · 1 reply · +1 points
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9 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - Do You Love Your Husba... · 1 reply · +1 points
"they ALL say they are a better mother and this should NOT be! The only way you make your husband into an idol is if you expect him to meet all your needs, give you purpose and fulfill you, instead of finding these things in the Lord"
I respect you so much, your wisdom shines through in what you must see as simply answering or agreeing with someone. I can't tell you enough how much you encourage me. It is in your one on one sound advice and answering of comments that most can be learned. You are a very special lady to me and many others, I'm certain.
9 years ago @ http://lorialexander.b... - Do You Love Your Husba... · 1 reply · +1 points