I just read your post from yesterday, and am really glad you are feeling better now! It's really no one's job to tell another parent that he or she is a failure in parenting. Who does that?? Is that person a perfect parent everyday I wonder... We all have our good and bad parenting days, and we have to support each other because having kids is not always easy. Your kids seem wonderful, fun, and creative, and to me you seem to be a truly wonderful and present mom. Go you!