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		<title>gdp's Comments</title>
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		<description>Comments by freeplaylife</description>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : Looking To Rent:</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4933#IDComment191826421</link>
<description>ah, perspective.  it makes everything so much clearer! </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 10 Sep 2011 07:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : Backroad Learning.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4937#IDComment191826237</link>
<description>I have the same reaction to this time of year.  Finally, we can go to&lt;br /&gt;all the places we&amp;#039;ve avoided all summer! ;) </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 10 Sep 2011 07:44:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : Backroad Learning.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4937#IDComment191826061</link>
<description>uh...bullshit.  I like your way much better.  :) Carry on! </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 10 Sep 2011 07:43:05 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : Riding on the Current of Grief.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4708#IDComment175014772</link>
<description>I&amp;#039;m so sorry. My daughter was stillborn because they had to induce the labor when she was so premature. It&amp;#039;s just so suddenly traumatic. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In some ways a year is long, but in others it&amp;#039;s just the blink of an eye. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope you have supportive friends and family to help you through. If not, you can always email me :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Xoxoxo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sent from my iPhone </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 03:05:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : Not So Deep Thoughts.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4726#IDComment174612221</link>
<description>I&amp;#039;d hate to have to live out something this personal in front of the&lt;br /&gt;world :/  It&amp;#039;s hard enough as it is! </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 23:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : Not So Deep Thoughts.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4726#IDComment174610715</link>
<description>I totally need the Enrique special! </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 23:44:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : Sexucation.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4667#IDComment172852565</link>
<description>I got the &amp;#039;this is sex. Don&amp;#039;t do it until you&amp;#039;re married&amp;#039; version. Short and sweet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sent from my iPhone </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 00:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Lesson Of The Moody Teenager.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4652#IDComment171293026</link>
<description>I&amp;#039;m glad you&amp;#039;re the kind of aunt you are to him :) </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 9 Jul 2011 00:15:04 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4652#IDComment171293026</guid>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Lesson Of The Moody Teenager.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4652#IDComment171292814</link>
<description>ah, mama.  :(  that sounds like a sad story.  But you never know what&lt;br /&gt;will come of it, or the far reaching effects.  Loving other people is&lt;br /&gt;never a dead end. </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 9 Jul 2011 00:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4652#IDComment171292814</guid>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Golden Rule of Parenting.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4632#IDComment170878371</link>
<description>I always associated a particular sound and action to anything hurtful.&lt;br /&gt; Like, if my young child had fallen and hurt themselves I would shake&lt;br /&gt;my hand and go \&quot;Oooowie!\&quot; with emphasis.  Then give hugs and kisses&lt;br /&gt;liberally.  The next time they&amp;#039;d fall or get hurt I&amp;#039;d do the same&lt;br /&gt;thing with my hand and voice.  It doesn&amp;#039;t take long for them to&lt;br /&gt;associate the hurt feeling to the sound and action.  I could use this&lt;br /&gt;proactively if they were going for something that would hurt them, and&lt;br /&gt;make the sound while they were focused on the thing in question.&lt;br /&gt;Mostly, this helped.  But sometimes not.  And kids are hardwired to&lt;br /&gt;explore!  Toddlers are exhausting, man. </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 8 Jul 2011 01:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Golden Rule of Parenting.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4632#IDComment170877155</link>
<description>aint no shame in being a beyotch.  Obviously, lol.  Here we all are!  :) </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 8 Jul 2011 00:57:04 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4632#IDComment170877155</guid>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Emotional Lives of Children.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4596#IDComment170876909</link>
<description>wow.  you are GOOD at this!  Go you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Parenting should be an event at the X games, I swear.  It&amp;#039;s intense!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember, while you are parenting an intense child (not sure what her&lt;br /&gt;younger sister is like!), you need to make sure to treat yourself just&lt;br /&gt;as carefully and respectfully.  Be good to yourself too, Mama, and&lt;br /&gt;reenergize yourself so you have lots to give your girls. </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 8 Jul 2011 00:56:03 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4596#IDComment170876909</guid>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Golden Rule of Parenting.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4632#IDComment170757030</link>
<description>I should form a \&quot;sexy beyotches\&quot; club.  Glad to know I&amp;#039;m in such good&lt;br /&gt;company!!!  ;) </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 7 Jul 2011 19:32:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Golden Rule of Parenting.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4632#IDComment170750870</link>
<description>you sexy beyotch! </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 7 Jul 2011 19:13:05 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Golden Rule of Parenting.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4632#IDComment170745874</link>
<description>I only have those examples because I&amp;#039;m guilty as charged!  That&amp;#039;s why&lt;br /&gt;I said &amp;#039;beyotch&amp;#039; instead of &amp;#039;bitch&amp;#039;...it sounds a little kinder, don&amp;#039;t&lt;br /&gt;you think?  Like, instead of being controlling beyotches, let&amp;#039;s go for&lt;br /&gt;sexy beyotches instead!  ;) </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 7 Jul 2011 18:57:04 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Golden Rule of Parenting.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4632#IDComment170745337</link>
<description>yay!  I had no idea you were writing an ebook!  Let me know when it&amp;#039;s&lt;br /&gt;here so I can read it! </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 7 Jul 2011 18:55:04 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Emotional Lives of Children.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4596#IDComment170745057</link>
<description>ha!  I&amp;#039;ll forgive your typos if you forgive mine! </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 7 Jul 2011 18:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Emotional Lives of Children.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4596#IDComment170745055</link>
<description>explosive anger and violence towards a sibling is intense, and can&lt;br /&gt;really trigger emotional responses.  with a speech delay and her age,&lt;br /&gt;words aren&amp;#039;t going to really help the situation.  However, more love&lt;br /&gt;and attention is always a step in the right direction.  Is there a way&lt;br /&gt;you can engage with her more when she isn&amp;#039;t angry or violent, and&lt;br /&gt;learn some signals for when she&amp;#039;s about to blow and redirect or divert&lt;br /&gt;it with some one on one? </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 7 Jul 2011 18:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>freeplaylife.com : The Emotional Lives of Children.</title>
<link>http://freeplaylife.com/?p=4596#IDComment169511698</link>
<description>This was a really great example. I&amp;#039;m also in the middle of the same switch with my kids.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sent from my iPhone </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 4 Jul 2011 05:15:34 +0000</pubDate>
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