en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/12166241 Comments by selkiesecrets http://the-toast.net/2015/06/29/the-politics-of-ugly-food/#IDComment981647802 Marshmallow fondant is the answer. It tastes much better than the standard variety. It's also not as classy, but who cares? Mon, 29 Jun 2015 20:40:54 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/06/29/the-politics-of-ugly-food/#IDComment981647802 http://the-toast.net/2015/06/09/five-common-health-myths-debunked-and-then-gently-caressed/#IDComment977063035 Both. Definitely both. Tue, 9 Jun 2015 19:49:46 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/06/09/five-common-health-myths-debunked-and-then-gently-caressed/#IDComment977063035 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/28/the-best-youtube-is-medieval-music-youtube/#IDComment974488093 ....can't we? Thu, 28 May 2015 18:45:35 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/28/the-best-youtube-is-medieval-music-youtube/#IDComment974488093 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/28/if-vin-diesel-were-your-boyfriend/#IDComment974486077 I play multiple tabletop games with my husband, and often our kids play as well. We are a family of nerds. Thu, 28 May 2015 18:32:23 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/28/if-vin-diesel-were-your-boyfriend/#IDComment974486077 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/27/things-i-wish-i-could-say-interracial-family-edition/#IDComment974300538 My first husband was Filipino, and his mother was very quick to inform me that if we had children, they would look like him, not me. I never really knew how to take that.. But we ended up not breeding anyhow, so it's a moot point. Just seemed like such an odd thing to say. Wed, 27 May 2015 21:03:06 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/27/things-i-wish-i-could-say-interracial-family-edition/#IDComment974300538 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/21/crush-cakes-drake/#IDComment972962509 Oh I guess I should be fawning about Drake too.... I just love cake, okay? Thu, 21 May 2015 21:56:15 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/21/crush-cakes-drake/#IDComment972962509 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/21/crush-cakes-drake/#IDComment972962358 Did you use salted butter, then? Thu, 21 May 2015 21:55:21 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/05/21/crush-cakes-drake/#IDComment972962358 http://the-toast.net/2016/04/20/paintings-of-sappho-in-order-of-how-bummed-out-she-looks/#IDComment964621658 That is breathtaking.. Both of them, really. I'm always so blown away by ancient artists! The sculptures always look like they're alive. Thu, 16 Apr 2015 20:25:55 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2016/04/20/paintings-of-sappho-in-order-of-how-bummed-out-she-looks/#IDComment964621658 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/14/things-ive-learned-about-heterosexual-female-desire-from-decades-of-reading/#IDComment964153191 Mmm, actually I have quite a thing for Marvel's version of Loki, who combines the trickster/brainy with the eyes, floppy hair and such. Tue, 14 Apr 2015 23:09:34 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/14/things-ive-learned-about-heterosexual-female-desire-from-decades-of-reading/#IDComment964153191 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/14/things-ive-learned-about-heterosexual-female-desire-from-decades-of-reading/#IDComment964066825 I'm horrified to realize I know exactly which rat they were referring to. I think his name was Justin. Tue, 14 Apr 2015 14:50:49 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/14/things-ive-learned-about-heterosexual-female-desire-from-decades-of-reading/#IDComment964066825 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/14/things-ive-learned-about-heterosexual-female-desire-from-decades-of-reading/#IDComment964066084 Nah, mine was Jareth from Labrinth. Bowie in tight pants triggered my sexual awakening. I blame Michelle Phieffer for my bisexual awakening. Blame? Thank. Thank is the word.. Tue, 14 Apr 2015 14:46:11 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/14/things-ive-learned-about-heterosexual-female-desire-from-decades-of-reading/#IDComment964066084 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/09/a-mothers-suicide-attempt-guilty-burden-of-statistics/#IDComment963064331 Thank you for this. Thu, 9 Apr 2015 23:05:48 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/09/a-mothers-suicide-attempt-guilty-burden-of-statistics/#IDComment963064331 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/03/my-real-time-response-to-learning-what-the-rock-eats-every-day/#IDComment961706012 I suspect he is actualy a selkie man. That explains the fish. And the sexiness. Fri, 3 Apr 2015 15:33:41 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/04/03/my-real-time-response-to-learning-what-the-rock-eats-every-day/#IDComment961706012 http://the-toast.net/2015/03/24/a-life-in-my-mothers-clothes/#IDComment959525048 I miss my mom. Thank you for this. Tue, 24 Mar 2015 23:13:28 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/03/24/a-life-in-my-mothers-clothes/#IDComment959525048 http://the-toast.net/2015/03/19/trapped-in-the-stairwell-my-birth-story/#IDComment958313520 I had my first naturally, and the second was induced.. I ended up getting an epidural. The difference between the two deliveries was surreal! The first time I was incoherent, and only vaguely aware of people in the room as I labored, nude, for hours, collapsing into an only semi-conscious heap in between contractions. The second time.. (Being induced is awful to begin with) the contractions came on so hard and so fast I had no time to put my mind in that faraway place where I could handle it, so I guiltily accepted the offer of the epidural. Oh. My. God. I was able to have a conversation with the midwife and my husband AS I GAVE BIRTH! Night and day, I tell you. Modern medicine is a marvel! No regrets! Thu, 19 Mar 2015 18:10:00 +0000 http://the-toast.net/2015/03/19/trapped-in-the-stairwell-my-birth-story/#IDComment958313520