I admire those who pick family over their careers. You would definitely be one of them. I could always find compromise but I was never the type to give up on one thing or the other. However, being that your family is in Belgium and you don't know when you'll see them next.. I'm sure that it's a good move. You necessarily will have a plan too! This blog :) keep it updated and see how your life progresses from being in the unknown and how things fall into place :)