en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/1107711 Comments by samdick http://www.ronedmondson.com/2011/08/are-your-children-a-bridge-or-a-wedge-in-your-marriage.html#IDComment182795834 Bridge: relationships work when we let go of selfishness. As Heidi and I learn to "give up" our own agendas to include the very real needs of our two kids, we discover our capacity for grace and patience for each other increases too. Sat, 13 Aug 2011 16:26:56 +0000 http://www.ronedmondson.com/2011/08/are-your-children-a-bridge-or-a-wedge-in-your-marriage.html#IDComment182795834