gdp's Comments

Toy With Me : When Stupid People Try To Have Sex

Fri, 11 Feb 2011 13:20:56 +0000

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-or...

Toy With Me : Vinny And The Roast Beef Curtains

Mon, 7 Feb 2011 12:55:16 +0000

there are as many rules about when to use commas as there are when not to use them. if a comma can be eliminated without a loss of clarity then is it necessary? might be something to bring up with old ernie hemmingway...

Toy With Me : When Stupid People Try To Have Sex

Fri, 4 Feb 2011 12:44:30 +0000

i believe that story is a hoax. i cannot find any original source. also, there is no arndale, ok, or Alpara County, ok. still makes for an entertaining story!

Toy With Me : A Collection Of Semen Based Recipes

Fri, 4 Feb 2011 12:33:18 +0000

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex...

Toy With Me : Lets Talk About Our Periods, OK?

Fri, 28 Jan 2011 12:44:05 +0000

i wonder if the tampon keeps things TOO dry? and the body ends up trying to divert fluids to the area to compensate, causing cramps? put it this way: i'd rather sit with a non-porous cup in my mouth than sit there sucking on a tampon. the latter seems much less comfortable.

Toy With Me : Lets Talk About Our Periods, OK?

Thu, 27 Jan 2011 19:47:54 +0000

interesting observation, blithe

Toy With Me : Lets Talk About Our Periods, OK?

Thu, 27 Jan 2011 19:47:16 +0000

interesting that so many folks have found it helps reduce cramping... i wonder why?

Toy With Me : Lets Talk About Our Periods, OK?

Thu, 27 Jan 2011 19:46:26 +0000

oooh. a diva cup MOD!

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Fri, 15 Oct 2010 17:28:06 +0000

don, your comment has given me, at least, a heartfelt and bluntly honest reminder of the things i have to be thankful for. on the bright side, at least you no longer have cancer.

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 17:46:31 +0000

as it would for a lot of folks. and it should! the issue at hand is similar to that facing medical marijuana: you can't patent a plant. there's no money in the intellectual property. i think the ED drugs do help immensely when the problem is exactly counteracted by their effect. in other words, man has desire, has strong libido, just can't develop/maintain an erection physically. i would actually like to get my hands on a pill for testing purposes, so i can compare the two approaches.

Toy With Me : Why I Want A Threesome With My Wife

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 13:52:32 +0000

it's a good point. however, it seems to me that your ability to get off by having someone of the same sex stimulate you would be directly proportional to your degree of homosexuality. i can't say that i have had the experience of actually playing this out, but i just don't see me having the same fun being jerked off or getting a bj from a man--regardless of his familiarity and level of experience with the equipment. ;) who knows, though?

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 11:49:51 +0000

i think you're definitely on to something with "relaxing and letting go." personally i feel the era in which we find ourselves today is one in which it is VERY HARD not to feel anxiety. i said as much in my earlier comment, but i called it "worry." the fact is, there is more uncertainty today than that of only a few years ago. that creeps into every aspect of someone's life. for someone predisposed to being anxious, this can be a HUGE IMPEDIMENT to being able to relax and let go. what i DO think is that men, in general, are pretty good at using sex as a tool to ESCAPE or TREAT that anxiety, whereas women (again, generally) have to attack and subdue the anxiety FIRST to carve out enough feelings of security to allow her to drop her defenses and fully give herself up to Eros.

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 11:40:18 +0000

"how convenient it would be to produce a pill that could be popped and then suddenly women would be "up for it"? " are you saying that this WOULDN'T be a good idea? i mean, speaking idealistically and assuming we have a "perfect pill" that had no negative side effects? there ARE men out there who do MORE than their fair share of chores/housework/caretaking, and for whatever reason their wives/gfs/sos are totally disinterested. some of those wives don't give a shit, but others are really quite troubled and feel terrible anxiety and guilt because of it. either way it's an issue that deserves attention because of the way it stands in the way of intimacy, of any sort.

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 11:34:41 +0000

i kind of disagree about the hard on being the end-all for guys. during some of my research into drugs/supplements i came across a lot of testimonials from men who were on pharmaceutical ED drugs (such as viagra). yes, they had an increased ability to achieve an erection BUT there were quite a few that expressed no change in their libido/sex drive/desire. so they had stiffies but no impetus to do anything with them. some of the herbal remedies DID have a positive effect on inducing amorous thoughts/feelings/urges, above and beyond what the "drugs" were capable of. the current pharmaceutical remedies seem to be a bit unrefined, solving principally a mechanical/hydraulic problem (which is surely a problem, but not the only one).

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 11:28:09 +0000

well that's a definite vote in the PRO column

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 11:27:52 +0000

epic camel toe!

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Wed, 13 Oct 2010 15:56:14 +0000

well, on the topic of "what criteria define a sexual disorder," i think we first need a new metric: EXPECTED sexual activity/satisfaction vs. ACTUAL sexual activity/satisfaction. the reason why you can't just go by "how many times a week... more = better, less = worse" paradigm to define dysfunction is that it just doesn't work. first of all, you also have to include "satisfaction" because there are PLENTY of scenarios in which people are having a lot of sex, and they're not really getting off while they're doing it. (especially for women i think, because guys can be a pretty selfish and narcissistic bunch.) you know, mundane, man-on-top, woman-on-the-bottom, get-it-over-with-quick sex. not that there's anything WRONG with that per se, but if that's ALL you've got with your partner, and neither of you says or does anything to change it, then your satisfaction level is probably going to suffer. on to expectations... do nuns suffer from "hypoactive sexual desire disorder?" if they were married, and the EXPECTATION was that they would desire their husbands, and they were celibate, then yes, something is out of whack. But that's not the case. the expected level of sexual activity/satisfaction is zero. the fact that they're not having orgasms and getting off is insufficient to warrant a "disorder."

Toy With Me : Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

Wed, 13 Oct 2010 15:21:36 +0000

i don't consider "frequency" issues to be the same as "frigidity." and my opinion is the only (other) one that matters! ;)

Toy With Me : The Story Of A Failed Orgy

Tue, 12 Oct 2010 16:19:03 +0000

wow, that's pretty bad. all of the awkwardness, and none of the fun! i think we should have a TWM "get-together." we know each other, but we don't have to see each other all the time. perfect! having had group sex, specifically threesomes, on my mind for the last two weeks, i have come to a singular conclusion: worry is the enemy of sexual freedom/energy/actualization any time you have worry,* you're cutting into your good time. the more worry, the more impossible it becomes to really let go and enjoy yourself, and that really is the point, isn't it? worry creeps into your brain and distracts you, makes you think you're failing, makes you think you're not good enough, that you're lousy, that everything is wrong, and broken, and ruined. worry is utterly unsexy. sounds like you guys spent the evening worrying about which one of you was going to make the first move, and how the rest of you would back out as gracefully as possible! ken * i'm not talking about "fake worry" like "oh no we're fucking in the bushes what if someone stumbles across us." that shit actually HELPS. ;)

Toy With Me : Why I Want A Threesome With My Wife

Fri, 8 Oct 2010 14:04:58 +0000

for the record, i paid no attention whatsoever to the order of the letters. lol