rebelcrunchmama
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14 years ago @ Learn As You Grow - Photo Friday · 1 reply · +1 points
15 years ago @ She's Mommafied! - DIY nursing tops · 0 replies · +1 points
15 years ago @ http://mrsmidatlantic.... - Dear Diary · 0 replies · +1 points
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15 years ago @ http://mrsmidatlantic.... - Detached and Unnatural · 2 replies · +2 points
My WHOLE parenting philosophy is called the "ME method". I do what feels right for ME, what works for ME, and makes ME an effective parent. I guess I'm what some would consider a fence straddler. But hey, I like it that way. And it works for us. And as such, I feel as though I'm in the fortunate position to be unable to judge anyone for their choices. I'm ridiculous excited about cloth diapering and breastfeeding, why? Because they save me money and I personally just LOVE them. But do I judge people when they don't? Nope. That's totally not my place. And I hope I never make people feel badly for making the decisions that they do. If someone has any guilt over something I say, I'd like to think it's their own guilt and not because of my superior attitude (cuz that's just not my style).
15 years ago @ http://www.crunchyvtmo... - Giveaway Lessons Learn... · 0 replies · +2 points
15 years ago @ http://www.crunchyvtmo... - I cook. I clean. Never... · 0 replies · +1 points
15 years ago @ http://www.crunchyvtmo... - I cook. I clean. Never... · 2 replies · +2 points
I try to spend time alone each day. Alone as in, with my computer. Sometimes things go by the wayside like the dishes from lunch. Sometimes clean diapers that need restuffing lie around on the love seat until it's time to wash diapers again. Sometimes it takes me a week to get the whole house vacuumed and dusted. As crazy as it makes me to have a "cluttered" house all day long, I deal with it because Madilyn (AKA "The DestrucTOR), likes her shit thrown all over the house. So there it stays until my husband comes home, always to a home-cooked meal ready to be put on the table. I am a clean freak, he is a neat freak and YES, there is a difference. He comes home and straightens up from my hectic day and he never says a word. I apologize profusely every day but he insists that my "job" is to be a good mom to the kids. My #1 duty consists of making sure Madilyn is not only learning age appropriate things, but playing outside, having a little bit of a social life, and making sure our 9yr old son does his homework (and does it well) when he gets home from school. Sure he likes to come home to a palace but let's face it: It's not always feasible. He comes home to genius kids, a hot wife (I try to at least put earrings and mascara on during the day), a warm meal and a warm, wet hole. What more could a man want?
Our routine (typically) looks something like this:
7:30: Wake Styles up for school
8:00 Madilyn wakes up
8:05 - 9: Breakfast (she takes FOR-EV-ERRRR to eat)
9:00 - 10:00: Mommy showers, gets dressed, does hair & Make-up while Madilyn destroys the bathroom
10:00 - Afternoon: Depends on the day. We like to go to story time at the library or for a walk in downtown Savannah or around the park. Some days we sit at home and play or dance. I try to have music on to keep her entertained because she likes to dance. Of course she has a snack during this time but never at the same time. (today is a little wacky because she had her vaccinations and is sleeping away the temper tantrum that ensued)
1:00-2:00: Lunch (once again, takes her FOR-EV-ERRRRRRR)
2:00-2:30: Play time (we like to color)
2:30 - whenever: nap time (this is usually her only nap but again, today is a little wacky)
3:45 - pick boys up from school (Styles & 2 of his friends)
4:15 - 5:00: Help Styles with homework and/or play around on computer while Madilyn has some free play time. (I think it's important for kids to play alone too)
5:00-6:00: dinner cooking
6:00-7:00: dinner eating
7:00-7:30: Bath time for both kids while the other parent cleans kitchen
7:30-8:00 Madilyn & Daddy watch "The Goodnight Show" together on Sprout
8:00: BEDTIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It does vary but we try to stick to it as much as we can. I've struggled with feeling like I'm not making a contribution in life since becoming a stay at home mom. I like having my "own" money to fuel my Anthropologie shopping habits. I have worked since I was legally old enough to and was a single mom for 5 years before my hubby and I got married. It's been a difficult transition for me but I try to realize that I am doing the best thing I can for my kids and my family...while I lustfully browse through the latest Anthropologie catalog. I am fortunate that my husband makes (just) enough for me to stay home with our kids and still live comfortably. And I am SUPER blessed that he is a hands-on dad who is willing to come home and help me straighten up the messes from the day and bathe the baby or clean the kitchen.
Welcome to Stay-at-Home-Momdom. You're going to rock it. You don't strike me as the type of mom who is going to go nuts with boredom.
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15 years ago @ Baby Gator's Den - Girlfriends & Babies · 1 reply · +1 points
Despite the fact that you're a gator fan, I'm really excited to "know" you too :)
OH, and War Eagle!
15 years ago @ http://www.crunchyvtmo... - Awkward Facebook Excha... · 1 reply · +2 points
15 years ago @ http://www.crunchyvtmo... - Post-It Note Tuesday · 1 reply · +2 points