lifecoachtisha

lifecoachtisha

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11 years ago @ Single Black Male - Double Standards in Re... · 0 replies · +2 points

"I've gone without sex specific to one woman for months,sometimes years. But, I did not go without sex". Is that because you felt she was worth more (meaning exploring who she was and what she stood for) before bringing sex into the equation? How did that work out for you (rhetorical). I'm not sure if i'm confusing the two sentences { unless we're in a committed relationship} maybe the next sentence was not meant to support the initial thought. For some reason this just jumped out at me (no rhyme or reason, I just chose to comment here) but the entire post was overall thought provoking as well as the comments section. Although the overall post was about the double standards, I took away this. I'm totally against this 90 day rule thing when thinking about a committed relationship (I know, im selfish) because I'd hate to get to know a man, love his character, qualities and he passes the deal beakers mark...to find out we aren't sexually compatible. THE KID loooooooves to be sex'ed up :) Speaking from personal experience, loving a man who couldn't satisfy me...is no bueno. So I suppose my inquiry is more of a how do you wait on someone for 90 days and then walk away if the sex is bad? More so, why get into a relationship without knowing if the compatibility is there in the first place? Not picking on you WIM, I just wonder about these things and you brought it up (or at least that's how I interpreted you statement)

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - Do men respect abstine... · 0 replies · +2 points

"Of course, the risk there is that a man might tie it down JUST to get in the jeans but that's another issue". Now isn't that the truth....

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - Three Relationship Top... · 0 replies · +2 points

At least someone respects the battle scars! You been on it Mr. SD *ctfu*

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - Three Relationship Top... · 0 replies · +5 points

@social media blackout - Tris, I've been labeled as a "suspected" cheater due to the fact that I dont accept friend request on facebook from suitors (truth be told, serious or otherwise) dudes favorite sayings are: You must have a lot to hide. {FOH} I just dont have a need for facebook validation if it was ever to become serious. No, the fact that I dont tweet has me allegedly suspicious as well. If this is what social media entails...Im best to stay in the lane im already in for real for real! Lol

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - Hip Hop Is for Lovers:... · 0 replies · +1 points

Oh Mr. Larry! I loooooooove it. I said that in rhetoric, but I do appreciate your reply. I guess what I failed to type was I bet it would be a problem for yeezy if some man referred to his mother in this manner (I know its not what I wrote, but its definitely what I was thinking) I only assume it would be a whole other ball game for Donda West to be referred to as someones bad b*tch. We could ALL go in circles about theory, but in practice it most often doesnt equate to whats good for the goose...yadda yadda yah!

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - A Rational Fan's View ... · 0 replies · +1 points

Oh, Ya'll goin' hard in the paint on this post...I clicked, I learned!!! @hold up grasshopper >_< Sports is where it's at...

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - Hip Hop Is for Lovers:... · 0 replies · 0 points

*Round of applause* for this link

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - Hip Hop Is for Lovers:... · 2 replies · +3 points

Im a walking contridiction (still, at my age) I tend to see the balance in things. Too much of anything is never good for me, same as not enough. In my younger years, being a bad b*tch was a compliment...today not so much. Simply because there are so many more things I AM or will BECOME. This was a great read. I can clearly rationalize it from both angles. It's music...so I dont seek a deeper understanding of any artists creativity. Outside of that (meaning creativity) I suppose my mentality just doesn't allow me to judge anothers morals or values when it comes to the usage. Personally, I wish a Ninja [Ninjette] would refer to me directy as a b*tch! Indirectly, whatever floats ya boat kiddo...what I DON'T know surely won't hurt me. What I most appreciated about the post was the correlation the writer made about Mr. Wests usage (excuse me, lack there of) towards his mother. Granted his mother is not just any woman, but if he wouldn't reference her in this manner why is it okay to reference "any" woman this way. I guess this too surfaces as a thin line between love and hate...at least for me it does. The comments section is always Awesome!!!

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - What's Your Name, What... · 0 replies · +1 points

#TeamCancer

11 years ago @ Single Black Male - 8 Things We Blow Money... · 0 replies · +14 points

Wondering when folks will start "blowing money fast" on investment portfolios...