gdp's Comments

inprogress : I Built A Wall. And It Lied.

Mon, 18 Jun 2012 18:35:07 +0000

We all have those 'walls' no matter how 'disfunctional' or 'perfect' our backgrounds appear to be. They all need to fall (like Jericho) and it often requires God using His people (in some seemingly impossible situations) to facilitate it. I was reminded again of an old Sara Groves song with these lyrics if you'd like to read them too : http://www.saragroves.com/lyrics/pastthewishing/h... Thanks for the timely reminder, (and expressing it so well too =). D-

inprogress : My Book...It's On Now!

Thu, 7 Jun 2012 18:44:50 +0000

"I did not because I was afraid. I was afraid of failing. I was afraid of not failing." I will be praying for the process to be completed (including the discovery and elimination of the source of your 'fear'). D-

inprogress : The Writing Struggle

Thu, 2 Feb 2012 06:09:15 +0000

To clarify what I said before, it should have been: "keeping the secret" (by withholding the truth) will no more 'SAVE' her now (emotionally/spiritually?) than it would have then (literally - per Danny's 'threat' to keep you quiet and 'his' to do with as he wished). I'm sorry if I confused the issue. I usually take more time before responding, but hope it is received as intended - to help, not hurt. I somehow missed this post (obviously a week ago now) before, but maybe that's a good thing, since few will probably come back to read this but you (and I'll understand if you want to edit it out). Love to you all, D-

inprogress : The Writing Struggle

Wed, 1 Feb 2012 19:47:50 +0000

The impression I got re-reading your excerpt is that 'keeping the secret' will no more 'kill' her now as it would have then. Isn't that the real lie? It may even be the vehicle to bring her LIFE instead, but I do understand your concern. I have been, am, and will continue to pray for you, especially about this. D-

inprogress : What Are Your 3 P's?

Thu, 1 Dec 2011 20:36:42 +0000

Passion: faithfulness in everything with everyone Matt 25:23 Purpose: to be more like Jesus Rom 8:29-30 Plan: Listen to & Obey Him Prov 16:9 & Isa 30:21-22 God has His ways of showing us that life gets 'simpler' (not necessarily easier =) the longer you live it ! Thanks for asking the question and getting my attention back to the answers! D-

inprogress : Guilty Pleasures

Mon, 21 Nov 2011 19:24:54 +0000

My guilty pleasure is about anything dark chocolate, including my homemade fudge sauce. At least I've found a way to make it with xylitol (natural lower calorie sugar substitute), though Nick doesn't like the texture as much. But with Dreyer's Slow Churned No Sugar Added ice cream, it's almost guilt-free (if only saved for weekends =)! Did someone 'near & dear' make the Oreo cake for you? 'Looks like you had a great time! We just finished up our celebrations with Nick's 5th (combined) party last night -)!!! D-

inprogress : Fulfilled

Thu, 25 Aug 2011 18:22:47 +0000

Unity

inprogress : What would you tell a teen?

Thu, 11 Aug 2011 18:25:11 +0000

Well, if your kids are caught up on their reading here now, I read this devotional today that really confirmed and embellished the verse I mentioned yesterday: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/crosswalk-de... I think they're making good progress toward fulfilling it, by the way =). D-

inprogress : What would you tell a teen?

Wed, 10 Aug 2011 18:01:46 +0000

I think the Holy Spirit (via Paul) summed it up better than I ever could: " Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity. " 1 Tim. 4:12 It's not 'easy', but the inner peace it brings is worth any challenge it will ever present. D-

inprogress : The hard questions...

Wed, 27 Jul 2011 18:42:31 +0000

Life is too short to pretend...especially when eternal relationships are at stake. D-

inprogress : I'm Sorry.

Tue, 26 Jul 2011 19:05:19 +0000

'Glad I have an 'inside informant' (your father-in-law - since we minister with him regularly now =). Your 'online silence' speaks very loudly too! No need is insignificant, especially with your health history, but that's true for us all no matter how healthy we may seem (or think we are). There are realities that we all want to deny at times (there's a good post and comments about 'denial' on Michelle's 'Consider Jesus' blog) but the Word speaks of life's uncertainies that we not only need to accept but seriously consider often to live our lives 'circumspectly'. I'm listening to a message by David Platt (wrote the book, Radical) that deals powerfully with that as it relates to the tornadoes this past spring (http://www.brookhills.org/media/series/tornadoes-and-the-trustworthiness-of-god/). I think we all have to recognize (and admit) our weaknesses (needs) for His power to be made perfect through them (and sometimes that 'power' comes through other people). Good insights from 'Kota too =)! Thanks for sharing, D-

inprogress : One Thing

Sat, 9 Jul 2011 18:01:54 +0000

I've been thinking alot about your first question and my response above. I felt maybe it needed a little clarification. Any wrong can be forgiven for sure! The relational problem comes when there's a pattern of lying so that the person may not even be aware they are doing it, or worse yet, have even come to the place of believing their own lies ={. Until they're willing to see, admit their need, and be accountable for stopping, ignoring it is really just enablement that prolongs emotional abuse and helps no one. That doesn't mean there isn't deep care and concern, just that there can't be a close relationship based on trust until the source issues are addressed.

inprogress : One Thing

Thu, 7 Jul 2011 18:27:03 +0000

What is the one thing that can potentially break your trust in a friendship? Lying What is the one thing you value most in friendships? Honesty & Humility Would you be your own best friend? I sure hope so. Why or why not? See questions 1 & 2 above

inprogress : The Differences...

Thu, 30 Jun 2011 18:23:31 +0000

So how do they say, 'oil'? In Texas (if I remember right) it was 'awl'. I'd be surprised if 'Oregon' was right too (or is it us who say it wrong =)! D-

inprogress : Big Announcement

Sun, 29 May 2011 23:13:12 +0000

Well, I was expecting an announcement at TRF this weekend, but did I miss it? Will they be the last to know =}? 'Sounds like most who know you at all (including us) already do know. I've enjoyed Pete's lessons online everytime I've listened, so do believe that's a good place for you to be. I was expecially impressed with their leadership set up ('lay' elders as well as paid staff). Kass said you'll be campus pastor(s), so I assume it's a video feed for the lessons (not Brent speaking =)? I'll be interested in hearing more here and online. Blessings to you all, D- P.S. I'd like my bike back if you don't want to lug it across country =}.

inprogress : Soon And Very Soon...

Tue, 24 May 2011 18:20:18 +0000

Well, you really know how to prolong the suspense, (sort of like the video - I did see and use it on facebook too =). I won't 'spill the beans', but your daughter isn't quite as secretive (we didn't even ask), so we know what's happening 'soon and very soon'. 'Nuf said ('just wanted to help build the suspense a bit more =). D-

inprogress : I Wonder What I Would've Become...

Mon, 9 May 2011 18:38:23 +0000

So, why the PAST tense (i.e. "would've)? Aren't you still His child - growing, being affirmed & encouraged as you sense His calling toward all He is gifting and providing for you to become? Personally, I don't remember my parents being all that encouraging (except maybe in my acedemics). Rather it was when, through my Dad's spiritual instruction & example, I too came to know God's favor, affirmation, & 'equipping' that I stepped 'out of the boat' into His plans for me (and He's not finished with me yet - not till I take my last breath!). D-

inprogress : Would You Rather...

Tue, 26 Apr 2011 18:54:48 +0000

I believe, until we 'go back' to learn from (and when possible 'make right' ) past failures, we can't be changed in the PRESENT. If we persistently refuse that kind of self-evaluation, why should we expect the future to be any different or better?

inprogress : Surround Yourself

Thu, 14 Apr 2011 18:40:48 +0000

I couldn't agree more! I heard a couple of great radio broadcasts the other day affirming just that (what you wrote) and more, revealing that the real relationship behind all those others (with His kids) is God Himself choosing to reveal His love through us to one another. For anyone with the time to listen the broadcasts are here: http://www.livingontheedge.org/home/broadcasts/on... under the titles, "Ancient Paths to Intimacy with God - Getting Hugs From an Invisible God, parts 1 & 2". It's well worth the time and effort to listen, I believe. Thanks for affirming it also. D-

inprogress : The Dig

Sat, 5 Mar 2011 01:21:23 +0000

I'm hoping the foundation has been secured and laid already in some areas, but there are always other 'projects' God has for me that require that re-laying (sometimes blasting and chiseling required) the foundation from the ground up. I just pray I'm faithful to my part (waiting, submitting, or participating) in whatever stage of construction He designs =). I have a post along those lines here (for you or anyone else interested): http://lazrus2.wordpress.com/2011/02/02/bridge-bu... Good thoughts. Thanks for sharing! D-