thank you! you get it! you get it! YOU GET IT! The people who offer the most negative feedback respond most harshly to the fact notion that they have to change some aspect of how they currently behave to accomodate a man. My point is, I found the man that made me *want* to do just that. I found a man who supports my strong black womanhood, and is SO suportive, I can still be vulnerable and loved AS A WOMAN without feeling like I'm bowing down to male superiority. He IS a gift from God and a blessing and a joy in my life. He provides for me and my/our children and is everything i have ever wanted. My peace is his peace, and WE compromise to grow what we have, even if that means i have to shut up, and let him take the lead as the man and the head of my household.

I find it funny that there are people who have lead a life so unexamined that they cannot think of a time when its best to keep their mouths shut. There were many other words in this post, but if they think all I'm saying is "stfu and suck a dick" then they.will.never.get.it. . . OR get like me :)