en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/1411328 Comments by kitadiva http://www.womanist-musings.com/2011/11/it-seems-that-dutch-are-not-as-tolerant.html#IDComment221906151 Afrikanners. That is what the Dutch are called in Africa. The history that they have in Africa is violent and they show that they too are a violent and abusive group - trust me when I say that the we are a polite and kind country toward everyone is a farce. That they have a tradition that goes further and make a mockery of black folks and get upset about the interruption of this mockery is not a surprise to me. If you get a chance to look up that history. Mon, 14 Nov 2011 17:04:51 +0000 http://www.womanist-musings.com/2011/11/it-seems-that-dutch-are-not-as-tolerant.html#IDComment221906151 http://thinkprettysmart.typepad.com/think-pretty-smart/2011/08/something-is-out-there.html#IDComment184640537 1. Person who married someone and the situation is so bad s/he stays away from home as much as possible. Get divorced, get some peace. Of course this is after they have exhausted everything else - counseling, blah, blah. 2. Someone who was unemployed for a year and a half but just got a job and bill collectors are after them. Write them a cease and desist letter for the constant calling. Start bankruptcy proceedings as soon as possible 3. Person started college, went for two years, got an internship that turned into a full-time gig. Five years later, they have lots of financial responsibilities (mortgage, child) and have reached a place in their career where they can't advance without a degree. Finish that education, do so online. Get a support team together to help with the child when getting assignment/ study time is critical. Check out and apply for any and all money before FASA. Start actively paying off debts. Doing/did this myself currently without kids but know and help a couple of folks who are doing so with them kids in tow. It is hard, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Fri, 19 Aug 2011 16:31:04 +0000 http://thinkprettysmart.typepad.com/think-pretty-smart/2011/08/something-is-out-there.html#IDComment184640537