jenfullmoon
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4 years ago @ Mark Watches - Mark Watches 'Veronica... · 0 replies · +5 points
Yes, because it's noir and nobody can be happy. If you look up interviews, that's what he said.
I don't agree with it either. But it's noir.
8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: How ... · 0 replies · +19 points
8 years ago @ Mark Watches - Mark Watches 'Hamilton' · 0 replies · +5 points
8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I... · 0 replies · +6 points
8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I... · 0 replies · +14 points
I have sympathy for you here because dating in one of the major kinky hippie towns when you aren't into BDSM can be ah, difficult. Especially if you are into monogamy and aren't just say, into having her get her freak on with someone else who likes that too instead of insisting that you be her kind of kink (worked for me). But when I was in this position, the fellow I was dating was actually nice to me about it, and it puts me off that she may not be doing that.
However, if she wants things out of you that you are just not okay at all trying, then you're better off breaking it off than trying to stomach it and hit her if it hurts your soul. And I think it's okay to not be super comfortable with the sexy abuse she wants--there can be issues in life if you hit someone even in kinky "fun" and then the relationship goes bad or something.
Overall, I just want to say don't do anything you're deep down not okay with just to get laid/keep a girl. If she's not the right fit for you or you aren't for her, don't push it.
8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How To Approach Women ... · 0 replies · +16 points
Doctor, if you see this comment I'd love to see a corresponding piece to this talking about how a woman should handle a situation like this one.
8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How To Approach Women ... · 0 replies · +11 points
8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: My B... · 0 replies · +5 points
8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: My B... · 0 replies · +11 points
Another thing to note about this is that since women usually make less than men, it's more likely actually harder for the woman to be the lone working one and also be the one supporting two people...while doing all the chores herself.
9 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is I... · 0 replies · +1 points