en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/1012090 Comments by inkognegro http://onesmartblackman.blogspot.com/2011/08/1nce-again.html#IDComment185527828 Great Post, and many valuable Tidbits...BUT I would go easy on the shock and awe Media Take out Version of your relationship with your friends... Oft times in the Free fall of an recent breakup we tend to lose perspective of just what went wrong (as in the part we played in the relationship's demise) Linking together a few Venting sessions can solidify a meme of Blame avoidance that will not bode well for addressing what you may need to be a better partner. Mon, 22 Aug 2011 16:26:49 +0000 http://onesmartblackman.blogspot.com/2011/08/1nce-again.html#IDComment185527828 http://www.mypolaropposite.com/2010/07/08/become-the-change-you-wish-to-see-or-why-i-need-to-lose-40-lbs/#IDComment85761882 Yes. I was here. I was entertained. not EXACTLY sure how i feel beyond that. but it aint FOR me to feel is it. its to enjoy. so I did. And I wish you well. Fri, 9 Jul 2010 09:15:55 +0000 http://www.mypolaropposite.com/2010/07/08/become-the-change-you-wish-to-see-or-why-i-need-to-lose-40-lbs/#IDComment85761882 http://www.womanist-musings.com/2010/06/i-wont-hide-my-motherhood.html#IDComment78363175 This is powerful. I think it is vital that woman Seize the power to define themselves. It appears that in a rush to capture a definition of equality with men some women have decided that the traditional roles must be shunned. This appears to be discriminatory and exclusionary. The goal should be to claim equality independent of your roles. I think. Thu, 3 Jun 2010 13:21:52 +0000 http://www.womanist-musings.com/2010/06/i-wont-hide-my-motherhood.html#IDComment78363175