dixieredmond

dixieredmond

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387 weeks ago @ http://yeahgoodtimes.b... - Midnight adventures in... · 0 replies · +1 points

Oh, Jill. Snicker. I know a boy who needs a "barf bucket" of his very own in his room with a towel underneath to avoid moments like this. We have one and one of my kids drew hearts all over it. White paint bucket from Home Depot plus Sharpies = The Love Bucket. Hope he feels better, soon!

387 weeks ago @ http://thinkingautismg... - Privilege Is Not A Gam... · 0 replies · +1 points

I love this post.

"Because under what circumstances really do I not want to learn? Suspect circumstances, times when I feel threatened, but why? New knowledge is not, has never been, will never be, my enemy. I have to remind myself of this, because at times, it is not obvious."

YES. Thank you for writing this. Lots to consider.

389 weeks ago @ http://thinkingautismg... - Labels, Light, and Love · 0 replies · +1 points

I loved this post when I first read it on your site. I'm glad to read it here, too.

391 weeks ago @ http://yeahgoodtimes.b... - \"Are you okay?\" · 1 reply · +3 points

Jill, I do that, too. ;-) I get it. I remember reading in Temple Grandin's books that "she asked her mother the same questions over and over to hear the pleasure of the same reply". Oh boy! That was such a great thing to read. It's like catching playing catch, right? But verbally. When you play pass you pretty much know what is going to happen. Same thing.

393 weeks ago @ http://yeahgoodtimes.b... - Bubble wrap: The scour... · 0 replies · +1 points

I like popping bubble in bubble wrap. I get the appeal. But sneaking up behind you? Aw, mom!

399 weeks ago @ http://thinkingautismg... - Why Wouldn\'t Autism P... · 0 replies · +1 points

Yes. The need for support is the common thread, although the kinds of support needed are different, I guess.

399 weeks ago @ http://www.confessions... - In His Own Words · 1 reply · +1 points

Oh, how awesome. I love reading these ups and downs and hearing about growth. Wonderful!

399 weeks ago @ http://thinkingautismg... - Why Wouldn\'t Autism P... · 0 replies · +1 points

Yes.

399 weeks ago @ http://thinkingautismg... - Why Wouldn\'t Autism P... · 3 replies · +1 points

Very interesting discussion above. I feel like I've been IN this conversation before...

There are lots of reasons those parents might have been shaking their heads at that hearing at that time. It is reasonable that some might want to say this person's testimony is not accurate to what I see in my child. Or that this person's testimony does not reflect my views. And they have the right to do so. I've seen some rhetoric by some self-advocates that that mock the challenges that some parents face. I checked out the NPR link and words like these make you question whether this self-advocate (Carley) could understand what my son's needs are:

Carley: "On the other extreme is "somebody who might have to wear adult diapers and maybe a head-restraining device. This is very hard for us to swallow," he says."

That pisses me off big time. Carley should remember that autistics can read and hear what he says.

But discussions like this have caused me to rethink everything I say around my son. My son understood much much more than I thought he could years ago. He can quote exact statements that people have said from the time he was 3 until now. Most of the quotes are not about him or autism, but just about life at that time.

I decided it doesn't harm me to assume that he understands everything I say. And so I only speak the words I hope he understands.

407 weeks ago @ http://yeahgoodtimes.b... - Let\'s play a guessing... · 0 replies · +1 points

#3. What is wrong with you, woman???? You can't MIX pasta.