You always have a way of getting it "just right". I am an adoptee in reunion for over 20 years! My adoptive parents were supportive until my birth family became known by name. I remember sitting at a triad support group (back in the 90s) and the then wise psychologist said to my parents, "you are now (supportive), but will you be when she (birth mom) becomes real". Sure enough, my mom, especially struggled to make room for more family. I often feel like we are caught in a land of in between. I'm glad God reminds me I am His always and to keep building bridges. Thanks for all you do. I hope we can meet some day. Cheri