I was in the middle of reading 2.5 when I realized i needed to go back to the first post to fully get it.

I just think you needed to go ahead and break STFU down like you did, lest we forget black women giving head is taboo...even tho just like SH*T, it happens.

Great post. Tried to follow you on twitter, got my feelings hurt. LOL!

It does make things hard when staying with someone can affect your livelihood/goals, especially when after everything is all said and done you feel like you didn't know anything about the person to begin with.
"Back then, men kept their outside activities (legal or illegal) separate from their family and wives."
That's the same way I knew it to be. Keeping it hidden until it's discovered them being mad at the reaction boggles my mind. You didn't tell me what you were into, but got mad at me because you got caught up in it and I started thinking about what I wanted my life to be?!
Sounds like you made a good decision from the way things played out.