en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/1476083 Comments by alandcope http://missjia.com/trey-songz-love-faces-video.html#IDComment128170857 I was saying the same and I was EXTREMELY happy that she was. she was tall and a nice size. just positive to see what could be considered your everyday girl get a lil love :) Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:22:09 +0000 http://missjia.com/trey-songz-love-faces-video.html#IDComment128170857 http://missjia.com/trey-songz-love-faces-video.html#IDComment128170632 clap clap mr. trey! not the usual... :) Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:20:33 +0000 http://missjia.com/trey-songz-love-faces-video.html#IDComment128170632 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/12/why-men-date-women-with-no-intentions-of-a-relationship/#IDComment114821038 this article just confirms somethings for me and is RIGHT ON TIME... and the comments (I sat and read them all) very nice and real encouraging. Fri, 10 Dec 2010 03:49:20 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/12/why-men-date-women-with-no-intentions-of-a-relationship/#IDComment114821038 http://missjia.com/celebriquote-kanye-west-nude-pic.html#IDComment107696196 thank you jia!!! *mineeyeshaveseenTHEglory~halla-lu halla-lu!!* :-) all smiles on my end... after that pic Thu, 4 Nov 2010 01:35:14 +0000 http://missjia.com/celebriquote-kanye-west-nude-pic.html#IDComment107696196 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/10/morehouse-university-seeks-to-affirm-the-illusion-that-black-males-are-not-gay/#IDComment104063575 RE-READ HIS STATEMENT: It was at the extent that the FIRST TIME I walked into the cafeteria at Morehouse, everybody dropped their spoons and all eyes were on me. I was thinking to myself, “I look like a boy. I don’t look like a girl. What is the problem?” But, I am different. I’m tall, I had twists in my hair, I had a little bit of makeup on, but I was dressed like a boy <--- jeans and a tee with make up and weave twists IS NOT MASCULINE. I can love and accept all people, but be thorough if nothing! Thu, 14 Oct 2010 22:45:58 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/10/morehouse-university-seeks-to-affirm-the-illusion-that-black-males-are-not-gay/#IDComment104063575 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/09/sexin-your-man-vs-fckin-your-man/#IDComment101570712 co-sign my friend. Thu, 30 Sep 2010 00:07:11 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/09/sexin-your-man-vs-fckin-your-man/#IDComment101570712 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/09/let-a-man-be-a-man/#IDComment101569549 Love is not a battlefield. I dont give a damn who sings that it is. <=== DEAD. lolol. Seriously though, if you do not have a good model of what a relationship is how will you know how to pick and choose your battles? Personally, I have been taking care of myself and making decisions for myself since I was 17. Now that I am 22 and have experienced somethings my current BF has not it becomes an internal conflict. Do I allow this man to make decisions that could have a negative affect on me? Should I trust his judgment over my own gut? Etc. Its a real conscious daily effort to pick and choose my battles. Wed, 29 Sep 2010 23:55:44 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/09/let-a-man-be-a-man/#IDComment101569549 http://missjia.com/nicki-minaj-effect.html#IDComment98460155 co sign. Mon, 13 Sep 2010 02:17:16 +0000 http://missjia.com/nicki-minaj-effect.html#IDComment98460155 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/09/can-a-relationship-survive-bad-sex/#IDComment97646412 this is so tricky because I face this very situation after two years of a rocky relationship. He's great at sex. Just never wants to do it. EVER. I have real carnal urges. he is the polar opposite. he prefers to cuddle. We are taking the time to try and build a better relationship and sex is important to me. He is really trying to keep up with my libido, after awhile he tends to get lax again and i hate asking for it so I end up mad. Have yet to decide what to really do. Wed, 8 Sep 2010 17:25:31 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/09/can-a-relationship-survive-bad-sex/#IDComment97646412 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/the-negative-perceptions-of-marriage/#IDComment95550608 Reality Check said it best: Marriage is a union of EVERYTHING between two people. And that statement just goes to show you that Women and Men are putting EVERYTHING in a GF/BF relationships. They are not saving ANYTHING for marriage. Marriage is not supposed to be temporary. Its forever. THE END! Fri, 27 Aug 2010 17:08:03 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/the-negative-perceptions-of-marriage/#IDComment95550608 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/the-negative-perceptions-of-marriage/#IDComment95550357 that's whats up. and you say call you......hmmm. lol. Your perspective is always refreshing, even when I don't always agree. but today you get a standing O. *clapclapbravo* Fri, 27 Aug 2010 17:05:58 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/the-negative-perceptions-of-marriage/#IDComment95550357 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/is-the-brazilian-blowout-and-keratin-treatment-good-for-black-hair/#IDComment95241383 that is ALOT of heat. I don't think its worth all that Thu, 26 Aug 2010 01:08:28 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/is-the-brazilian-blowout-and-keratin-treatment-good-for-black-hair/#IDComment95241383 http://missjia.com/2010/08/09/special-chris-brown/#IDComment92197553 agreed! guys that dance look real sexy and i just imagine them in bed... *handfansself* but I digress. :p Wed, 11 Aug 2010 13:23:35 +0000 http://missjia.com/2010/08/09/special-chris-brown/#IDComment92197553 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/how-to-have-great-make-up-sex/#IDComment91976350 if you do too much foreplay on a male-more specifically, fellatio- expect him to erupt after a few thrusts. been there done that, he made up for it :-p Tue, 10 Aug 2010 16:14:03 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/how-to-have-great-make-up-sex/#IDComment91976350 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/are-you-thick-or-just-fat-no-really/#IDComment91792477 I love how people assume your health status based on looks. Nonetheless, The read was encouraging. It fuels my desire to be comfortable in my skin. And maintain my health. Mon, 9 Aug 2010 18:29:22 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/are-you-thick-or-just-fat-no-really/#IDComment91792477 http://missjia.com/hot-sht-47.html#IDComment91214678 I really hate to think she put that on, looked in the mirror, and thought she was kosher. how can you be so disillusioned? SMH Fri, 6 Aug 2010 15:37:11 +0000 http://missjia.com/hot-sht-47.html#IDComment91214678 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/nobody-wants-an-ambitious-girl/#IDComment90828344 Remember we are ladies...let's act accordingly. <== I need a copy of that script because all this time I've been just me. Wed, 4 Aug 2010 18:14:08 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/nobody-wants-an-ambitious-girl/#IDComment90828344 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/nobody-wants-an-ambitious-girl/#IDComment90826667 it's interesting you say that because I swear my BF has said that on several occasions. but like NB said, relationships are about compromise and woman will make the compromise 9 times out of 10. And if we did try to put our foot down and "make" him compromise we'd be all types of controlling so-and-so's. It's a catch 22. Wed, 4 Aug 2010 18:02:09 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/nobody-wants-an-ambitious-girl/#IDComment90826667 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/interview-lyfe-jennings-on-s-e-x-marriage-crazy-baby-mamas/#IDComment90385257 oh lyfe...i think I fell in love...with his words. Such depth yet it has its imperfection so I can really appreciate his take on things. Mon, 2 Aug 2010 19:07:32 +0000 http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/interview-lyfe-jennings-on-s-e-x-marriage-crazy-baby-mamas/#IDComment90385257 http://missjia.com/marry-fck-kill-fancy-huh-edition.html#IDComment90371079 I'd marry Jamie (I like his freckles and how he treats his daughter) Screw Big boi (did anyone see Idle wild? that tongue action is on point) and...sorry Ne-Yo but I do not do glossy lip men. :-/ Mon, 2 Aug 2010 18:21:21 +0000 http://missjia.com/marry-fck-kill-fancy-huh-edition.html#IDComment90371079