That's most ignorant thing a woman could say. But u are from the island and foolishly some of the woman there believe it is acceptable for a man to beat his woman. And that is pitiful! A man is a man and that makes him stronger than a woman. A real man walks away from a woman unless he must strike her to save his life. I hope you don't have any daughters. They get heated at their man, he whoops their ass and you tell them "those are just speed knots, they will go away in a day, now go work things out with your man". Ridiculous!