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9 years ago @ Another Point Of View - Hoes Aren't Winning, Y... · 1 reply · +3 points

I agree that finding a mate is not a competition. Nor should it be treated like one.

Women of substance aren't concerned with the nonsense or even the whispers about not having a man.

They're primary focus is on ensure they are doing all they can to fulfill God's purpose for their life and when it's time, the right man will cross their path. Note that I didn't say fall in their lap. Men will cross their path and when they find one that meets their needs they will continue on in stride...never missing a beat.

9 years ago @ Another Point Of View - Please Do Not Use Chur... · 1 reply · +2 points

I agree that a church service is not an ideal date. However, I believe church sponsored events are totally viable options for a first date, depending on what the event is.

Like you stated, the primary objective of the first is to get to know someone better and that's done through talking and communicating with one another. Therefore, the ideal first date would provide the couple with ample opportunities to do just that.

9 years ago @ Another Point Of View - Is The Friend Zone "Re... · 1 reply · +2 points

I find it interesting that the friend zone is always associated with sexual relationships.

I'll admit that I used to think the same thing, but I no longer do.

The friend zone has less to do with sex and more to do with investing.

When we aren't willing to invest ourselves in other people or are unable to determine if someone is worth us investing in, we place them at a distance. We limit our interactions and our investments in them.

Once we make a decision regarding a person's role in our lives, then they no longer dwell in the friend zone.

9 years ago @ Another Point Of View - Relationships Come And... · 0 replies · +1 points

I'm with you. I don't get it either.

9 years ago @ Another Point Of View - Relationships Come And... · 2 replies · +2 points

I agree with you. When a relationship is over, it should be over.

I understand that some people like to keep the door crack...just in case, but if both people aren't planning to do that, it's likely a bad idea.

I honestly don't know why some people take things to such extremes. If I had to guess or make an assumption, I'd say it likely has something to do with them not truly loving themselves, knowing their own value and appreciating time alone and to themselves.

9 years ago @ Callista's Ramblings - Datevitation Coupon Book · 0 replies · +1 points

Wow! That is a really cool and unique gift idea!

Thank you so much for sharing.
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9 years ago @ WordPress blog at up4d... - MenChat 9: Stalking, R... · 0 replies · +1 points

LOL! Thanks Q! Yeah I think this episode became and instant CLASSIC the moment I posted. Like you said, it was HILARIOUS!

Thank you so much for listening and so glad that you enjoyed it man!

9 years ago @ WordPress blog at up4d... - 5 Ways To Overcome Tru... · 0 replies · +1 points

Thank you for reading. I pray that what Telisha shared will be beneficial to you. Stay Blessed!

10 years ago @ WordPress blog at up4d... - Celibacy is a Lifestyl... · 0 replies · +1 points

Thank you Dominique! I'm so glad you enjoyed it!!!

10 years ago @ WordPress blog at up4d... - Women Must Stop Acting... · 0 replies · +1 points

Hey! Thank you so much for stopping by and reading this piece by Nia.

I'll admit that I know very little about Rosie the Riveter. Thanks a lot for share your insight about her with us. That was very beneficial. I also appreciate your sharing your thoughts. Thank you!

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