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16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Does this rudeness thi... · 0 replies · +1 points
The reason I am practically venting on this topic is that it is a valid point, and I do believe if there were less distractions in class we would actually get somewhere. It’s not every day you have 600+ people in a shared space getting a chance to say what they truly feel/know/don’t know, and getting various responses. The comment about loud black women was offensive in the sense that the language used to describe them was not necessary. Just saying they are loud would have been enough if that is what that person believes, but derogatory words did nothing but add unnecessary insult. And so my response to the question of rudeness is that everyone needs to knock it off, it really does not matter who said it and what the reaction was, just have respect enough for your classmates to check the rudeness. If you feel you cannot, for the life of you, without being rude, don’t say anything then. But I really doubt that this is the case as I do believe if someone you truly respected (e.g. your church pastor, you mom and/or dad, your interviewer for a job/internship, your boss, etc.) walked in your language/interactions with your peers would change as well, immediately. It’s a question about respect. Where there is none, rudeness festers.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Are Whites the Only Pe... · 0 replies · +1 points
The few minorities that make it tend to get cut in the first or second round, and you can tell the bachelor/bachelorette is uncomfortable. The discussions are usually very professional and never personal. In my family, whenever one minority made it in, we would bet each other how long s/he would stay on that show. The bets became redundant because we knew a minority would never make it past the second day. Another point of interest was that the bachelor and bachelorette have always been white themselves, as if there are no other singles in the United States of the Americas other than white people. It’s ridiculous and, I believe, on purpose. Disney Channel is more true to the demographic than some of these “more mature” channels that are in one mild way or another, rather racist. Note I did not say they are hateful racist; they are just that, racist. An interesting point someone made earlier is maybe the selections are restricted by the selections/preferences set forth by the bachelor and bachelorette ahead of time. In which case do we still call it selective racism or personal preference? It’s definitely something to think about.
Although I do not believe that things will change drastically any time soon, I do believe in minute progress even for it is better than none at all; although even that is not as great as immediately righting a wrong. There are white channels and black channels, and I think it is all rather ridiculous really; the discrimination goes both ways. Mix them! So at least the growing generations can see images of the diversified world in which we live. Times are always changing whether we choose to accept it or not, and so the best we can hope for is that we adapt adequately enough to make it as painless as possible.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Are Whites the Only Pe... · 0 replies · +1 points
The few minorities that make it tend to get cut in the first or second round, and you can tell the bachelor/bachelorette is uncomfortable. The discussions are usually very professional and never personal. In my family, whenever one minority made it in, we would bet each other how long s/he would stay on that show. The bets became redundant because we knew a minority would never make it past the second day. Another point of interest was that the bachelor and bachelorette have always been white themselves, as if there are no other singles in the United States of the Americas other than white people. It’s ridiculous and, I believe, on purpose. Disney Channel is more true to the demographic than some of these “more mature” channels that are in one mild way or another, rather racist. Note I did not say they are hateful racist; they are just that, racist. An interesting point someone made earlier is maybe the selections are restricted by the selections/preferences set forth by the bachelor and bachelorette ahead of time. In which case do we still call it selective racism or personal preference? It’s definitely something to think about.
Although I do not believe that things will change drastically any time soon, I do believe in minute progress even for it is better than none at all; although even that is not as great as immediately righting a wrong. There are white channels and black channels, and I think it is all rather ridiculous really; the discrimination goes both ways. Mix them! So at least the growing generations can see images of the diversified world in which we live. Times are always changing whether we choose to accept it or not, and so the best we can hope for is that we adapt adequately enough to make it as painless as possible.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - The World is Full of S... · 1 reply · +1 points
I also think people need to keep in mind that people rarely ever isolate themselves so much that they do not travel places. It’s like we have this ludicrous idea that no one was moving anywhere except the few expeditions noted in history. History only covers but a handful of people. Imagine people 1,000 years from now making comments about those of us who will never be noted in history past a few generations, being surprised we did some of the things we did or moved around the world the way we do. In fact, I’ll say, compare the way the youth of the ‘60s dressed to how we dress now. It has only been 50years and our generation can’t believe our parents used to dress that way, it’s shocking! But that was their culture of that time. So if seven guys decided they wanted to move further down the continent of Africa, as far as they did, what makes it so shocking? If you can have PSU students (your own friends perhaps) that can wake up one day and decide to drive down to California just because State College is too cold, why to the seven men have to have excessively special reasons to move further south. Putting people in small boxes that make it easier for you personally to not have to imagine great ideas is a very dangerous thing because then when someone comes along that knows more about what you pretend to understand, it won’t look very good for you. I’d rather people ask questions because they do not know, than make comments and pretend to know.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Negroes of the World P... · 0 replies · +1 points
The N-word seems to come with condition. Personally I do not use it despite the “free ticket” I have to say it just because my complexion matches that of an African-American because I do believe it carries a heavy weight with it. Despite the saying “sticks and stones may break my bones…” words to cut, and unlike sticks and stones, they can get into the very heart of a man. This is not to scare you into never inquiring on the subject of how to “correctly” address someone, rather it is to illustrate to you how deep this stuff runs. Understand the circles in which you reside or find yourself and you will not have many problems. I could hate all white people or whatever you identify yourself as because you colonized my country and made my people suffer and we had to bleed for our freedom, but what good would that do. I prefer, instead to immerse myself in the American/Australian/European culture to better understand how each group thinks, and why it thinks the way it does. But I don’t stop there I ask questions. A quick assessment of the individuals in your environment will keep you from asking the wrong people certain question or wording questions some kind of way. It’s all in trial and error, the more you try the better you get the more you learn. So keep at it. Don’t give up. Ask questions. Understand that just as United State citizens are different from Australian citizens are different from the British, Irish, Scottish and Germans, my skin complexion does not mean I automatically belong to a particular group.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Voters and Their "Sens... · 0 replies · +1 points
Sure they attend these townhall meetings for a more personal debate environment, but very little seems to be accomplished as these meetings as minds have already been made up before they ever arrive. There is definitely something about telling someone he/she needs help and how they should fix it that rubs most people the wrong way. No one wants to be told what to do rather they want to tell you what should be done. But what baffles me is when clearly the people have no clue how to fix the problem and yet attack the very government they have elected to work for them for coming up with the solutions to problems placed at their dinner tables. Or maybe people just generally love to complain, or it could be as simple as “the more we talk, the more democratic we are.” Sometimes there is more power in thoughtful silence when one is quick to think and slow to speak than loud unguided madness and unnecessary defensiveness.
The Obama administration is doing the job they were elected to do and I get the sense that some people have yet to realize the election is over. I do believe in a people’s right to question their government, but let these questions have some sort of reasoning or at least logical order to back them up. There is nothing more dangerous that a child in an adult body reeking havoc in adult business. Conservatives need to listen more and hear less, whilst Liberals need to be more open minded to what they consider “closed minded” and less critical of those that do not think they way they do. Both sides are, to one degree or another, guilty of short-sightedness and judgment. Yes, conservatives are the obvious scapegoat, but then again for a scapegoat to exist a judge has to be in place and this is where closed-minded liberals come bearing bondage in freedom packaging.
Based on the past elections, it seems emotion governed the population as well as the candidates more than common sense. Everyone, myself included, would always prefer someone who agreed with us, but then again how would we grow and expand if there was never anyone come with opposing ideas that make us evaluate why we believe what we believe. The United States needs as self-check moment to figure out what it really needs and it needs to let the people it has elected to govern do the job they were elected to do by those that chose them and accommodate those that do not necessarily think as they do.
1Based on the Random House Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2010.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Avatar and the White M... · 0 replies · +1 points
And so, back to my inquiries; I asked what made this movie such a “must see” when everything in me said you will only be wasting your money. I heard all kinds of explanations from it cost monetary figures I can’t wrap my mind around to how advanced the technology was that made that 3-D characters move almost life like to it is in 3-D and I will feel as though I were there. Nothing, absolutely nothing could make me budge; I just wasn’t sold.
It was then at this point I decided to look within myself and figure out what turned me off about this movie. It was then I realized it was because I already knew where this movie was going and how it ended before I ever left my comfy room to go watch in the cinema. It had the makings of a cross between George of the Jungle and Planet of the Apes. The hero was decided before the movie began, the only question then was what he would have to go through to get there; either he would already be brilliant with all the equipment he needed making computers out of tree bark, or he would be an ignorant but passionate adventure seeker looking for his path in life and all the native would realize the prophecy of a “savior” was to come through this man, or my least favorite: he would learn what took a native years to train and understand in less than a fortnight; translation: 5 movie minutes, and all this just when all hope is lost. Yup, of this I was certain. The hero decided = movie over before it ever began. Personally I think it is an utter insult to our intelligence making a movie so base, that cost so much money and yet severely lacking in mystery without anything mildly thought provoking.
Our writer makes a good point. Hollywood, catch up with the times and keep up with the people, or did you forget we all bleed the same color blood
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Racism Looks Pretty Mi... · 0 replies · +1 points
I love how the United States stepped in and covered this issue. Europe has long had serious issues with racism in general that are allowed to go unchecked, and then they are dumfounded by the behavior in the stands. Was it less atrocious when one individual was doing it to someone else? I do not believe so. Hate has one face, and so there is no excuse. Protect the players, chasten the coaches. FIFA do your job or what use are you? It’s like an enabling parent that has a delinquent child that is always getting arrested and yet they tell you s/he is a good boy/girl. No s/he’s not, that child needs correction because something is just not being done.
I also think individual nations need to pay attention and correct their own people’s behavior. So far there are no consequences to delinquent behavior like this. Silence says “I agree.” I admire those soccer players that are stepping up and speaking up and out about the racism they are experiencing and imploring all others who see the wrong in it all to act and rectify the situation so soccer becomes a fun sport that billions enjoy. Fear of what is happening outside should not sip its way inside the stadium. Mob mentalities like this need to be addressed. People caught on camera need to be disciplined which will require more than just a slap on the wrist. Players that become demi-gods feeding off of another’s torment that has nothing to do with the game need to be dismissed there should be no space for such as these.
If fear stemming from immigration was the true issue I would say learn more about the people you fear for odds are you know nothing at all about why you are afraid, you just are because so-and-so can make a good argument. But being that there aren’t even that many black Europeans in Europe, where is all this coming from?
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - I Guess It Pays to Lea... · 0 replies · +1 points
I am trying to imagine myself in that situation as a passenger and what I would have thought. Being that I myself am not aware of “teffilin” I would have paid attention what he was doing. I do not believe I would have alerted any attendants of it because you have to control your own fears and potential hysteria or you, as the hostess was, become the nuisance. Now everyone was delayed in getting where they needed to go because someone was praying and the air hostess freaked out.
I see the next step to all this craziness being religion being banned from public places because people do not take the time of day to actually process effectively what they are looking at. Emotions should be controlled by a person not the person be controlled by the emotions, because that is when the dumbest decisions are usually made because all ability to think logically goes out the window. People need to control their fears! Not everyone different from you is out to get you! Imagine how on edge this world will be if everyone reacted in this way where a whole plane had to land for a prayer. Really, though?
I also see Christians in some twisted illogical way being blamed for this. Although Muslims are the rebel group of the day Christians are the fall back scapegoats when everyone other than a Muslim is a target. It is amazing how change can be affected by a handful of people and yet most people do not think they can make a difference to right a wrong. Leave the Muslims watch the terrorists. Stop scapegoating the Christians and direct your comments to those that offend you. This grouping of people unjustly needs to end while we all some semblance of sense left in us. This is how dictators and opportunists rise.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - The Enlightened "West"... · 0 replies · +1 points
If any law is to be made it should be one that permits women to choose how they dress, allowing them an equal to opportunity to accept or reject the wearing of the hijab or any other religiously inclined article of clothing. France, historically, has always been inclined against religion and more toward what they call “enlightenment” as was even obvious with the French Revolution. I do understand to some degree, when in Rome do as the Romans do, but that should be in maintaining the traditions and cultures of a land (showing respect to the ways of the country that has taken you in). Because in the same breath, some immigrants try to then recreate a country that has always been or has been for hundreds of years into what they want it to be when they could find just what where they left. As an immigrant has some respect for those that take you in because when you first found out about that nation it was as it is so unless your life is endangered leave well alone. But those nations that do take in immigrants need to at least cater to some variant of their needs as they are a part of you now and it would be very selfish to ask someone to forget who they are for you own perverse lust for superiority.
The law should not pass, it is not ethical. I’m surprised it even came up. But then again the answer is always in between two extremes: let the women choose, and the let the law protect that choice fervently. Don’t fine someone $1000 dollars because they don’t want you to see their faces; what of masquerades that are so fancied by the west as a part of culture or embracing history. Think of it as a year round masquerade that means more to someone than having fun for a night but a personal decision. The women have agreed to unveil themselves for identification is security is the issues but regulations as to how these women are to be treated as they are “identified” should be set to avoid human rights violations by the law that has a way to isolating people