So the question is how do I feel about walking into a party that is predominantly another race? Well there is a few things that go in my mind, the first being me judging what kind of party this is going to be. One thing I have learned since I first started going to parties was that it race usually sets the tone and type of party it will be. There may be stereotypes involved with certain ethnic groups, and from what I have seen there true. When I go to white parties there are just certain things that I have grown to expect. The first one being the type of music. I noticed that a lot of the white parties play music that is very upbeat and rave kind of music. Music that results in you dancing very out of control and crazy if you will. Lots of jumping up and down required. I also noticed that in the black parties there is more hip hop and rap music being played, which is the kind of music I like listening and dancing to. In the black parties there is a lot of guy and girl dancing front to back. Which happens to be one of my specialties.

The second difference I noticed in the parties are the way the females dance. In the white parties the ladies dance off beat. What I mean by off beat, is that the girls just kind of move their bodies. They do not move to the beat, they just straight up move. On the other hand the black parties have the ladies that can get down and cut a rug. The black girls be dropping it to the floor, getting low, hands on the hips type of dancing. This is what I enjoy, seeing the big booty black girls get down on the dance floor. There is also a type of dancing that you only see at the black parties, and that dancing is the dirty bumping and grinding that every guy enjoys. You do not see too much of that at white parties.

The third and final difference is the success rate of taking females home once the night is over. I have seen experienced this from both parties, but one race is more app to go home for a one-night stand than the other. White girls are more likely to have a one night stand because most of the time they are more drunk than black girls at parties. Black girls at parties just like to have a good time and dance a little, and when the end of the night comes they go home to their own house. I have yet to take a black girl home from a party, but white girls are different. It is very possible to bring a white girl home.

Those are the thoughts that go into my head when I walk into a party, and judge what type of party it is going to be based on the ethnicity of majority of the party.

I believe what keeps guys from asking whether or not the girl got pleasure out of the sex is fairly simple. I believe it simply comes down to how much effort the guy put in. If the guy just does not seem to care all that much, then why would he ask the female how sex was for her. Because 9 times out of 10 both men already know how the sex was for the ladies just by our efforts. I do think that ladies may not know how sex was for guys because more than likely guys will organism regardless, and get pleasure out of sex.

I think another reason why guys do not ask a female from a one nightstand how the sex was because it is so awkward. Asking, “how was the sex,” is just plain weird. One reason it is like that is because the girl is going to feel really strange about it because as a man you will have a pretty good idea whether the girl is enjoying herself during sex or not. I also think that the guy may not want to know how it was for the girl because it could affect your mojo. What if the guy did ask the girl, and she said it was horrible? The guy’s self esteem would be in jeopardy until he gets a female to say yes the sex was good.

From personal experience I only ask a girl who I am in a relationship with how was the sex, or a girl who I actually like and may want to have sex again with in the future. When you have a girlfriend, you care about how she feels and what she likes. So I ask her. When you’re in that relationship, there is no awkwardness at all. Each person is allowed to ask was I good? Depending on my mood is the only time I really ask. If I am in the mood to really tear something out, and I do. I’ll ask her how was it, but most of the time I know when she enjoys it. I can just tell.

As far as the one nightstand goes, I really could care less about how the girls opinion on it. My mind set when I girl back to my place or back to her spot, I just want to enjoy her a body a little bit then bust a nut. If she enjoyed it or not is her problem, I feel like girls should try and initiate what they want. I know from a guy perspective that when we want oral sex we try and get the girl to do it by putting their hand down there or something. If girls want guys to go down on them they should try and let us know, even though chances are good we will turn them down.

Why do I feel white guys only approach minority women when they are drunk is because that is what they truly want to experience. Everyone has heard the phrase, “A drunk mouth speaks a sober mind.” This relates to the white guys because they simply do not have the courage or the guts to approach minority females. The courage comes from the alcohol. In some cases white guys might even drink alcohol intentionally hoping that it will give them the heart to come up and speak to a women of the minority. In the question the girl mentioned that the white guys want minority women but cannot approach them sober. I honestly agree that the white guys do like them, and are curious as to what it would be like to be with one. The thing that holds them back is that the white guys are scared. You fear what you do not know. Minority women are something that the white dudes are curious able, but at the same time they are scared as to what the woman would do or say in reaction to the approach. This is where the drinks and alcoholic beverages come into place. The drinks make the white guys less likely to care about the possible negative responses they could receive from minority women.

I think that white guys get a little over confident when they consume alcohol. I have seen at parties white guys getting tough and want to start fights all the time. They get buck wild sometimes and really just need put back in their place or in some cases getting butt kicked. I have had a few experiences when white dudes drank too much alcohol. Me and my suite mates where coming back from a party somewhere and these two white dudes passed us on the streets. The white guys stopped us and asked, “Do you guys know how to rap?” I immediately looked at them with a twisted up and confused face; as to why they asked us if we rapped. Does that mean that all black guys know and are good at rapping. I really did not like the fact that he asked me this question. So we brush of the question and just say yes. One of my roommates is from Africa and is very proud of that, so he wears a Africa continent charm on his chain. So this same white guy, who has obviously been drinking heavy that night says to my roommate, “F*** Africa.” We was ready to kick his ass, but my initial reaction was that this guy is crazy and there is no way that he was serious. Then that is when his words really set in and I got mad as hell. Before we did anything to the kid he ran away down the street. The point of the story was that white guys get very bold when they drink. They fell like they can do anything to anybody, but in reality nobody is going for that.

I believe that girls do not like to talk about being on their period because it is something that no one really wants to hear. I mean we are all in college and that is something that a college student should be able to handle. I would hope by this age all of us young men should have had some experience with talking about or hearing or dealing with women on their period talking about it. I know for me I grew up without any siblings, but I had three female cousins, and a ton of aunts. So I kind of got familiar with being around the touchy subject.

I would not call myself the most mature guy around, but I do believe that being mature is a key part in being able to be around females talking about being on their period. I also believe that females do not want to talk about that because it is not very lady like. At a young age women are taught what is lady like and what is not lady like. Talking about periods is definitely not on the lady like list. I also believe a big reason why chicks will not admit it is because of guys might make fun of them or something. This is pretty sad because any dude who makes fun of a girl for being on her period is silly as hell.

I think that as a dude gets older he should be able to be in the presence of girls talking about that or discussing it because eventually he is going to get a girlfriend and have to deal with that. I think that girls would be more comfortable with that topic if they think guys would not be so creeped out by that. Thinking about the comparison of girls who raised their hand saying that they were on their period to guys who said they masturbated over spring break was something to take into thought. How is it that guys would be more app to admitting that they masturbated with is normal, but girls will not admit to being on their period with is apart of nature.

That is a interesting thing because I think if it were the other way around, guys would admit that they were on their periods. But I do not think girls would admit masturbating. My overall feelings on the subject is that girls need to get more comfortable with talking about that. A woman's period is nature so there is no reason why a female should feel weird about talking about it. A women should be cool calm and comfortable with their monthly gift, even if they may not want them exactly.

How has the fear affected me? I believe that death really has affected me, but it does change the way I think about things. The thought of death makes me realize that there really is not a lot of time for stupid things in your life. And that stupid people should not be in your life at all. Death has made me think about my loved ones and family members in a different light. It has made me realize that my family members, especially the older ones, will not live forever. Everyone has there time. And I think, maybe I should start and try to prepare for something to happen to one of them. Even though when the actual day comes, there is no right way to act, but I can try to believe that their in a better place now.

Death has not really affected me in terms of how I live. I try to live right, and be an honest person. I am torn between rather I choose to live that way because I believe there is a reward in heaven or because that is just the person I am. It could be a little of both. I am happy that I am that way, and that mother instilled those characteristics in me. I am grateful, and I would not want to be any other way. The thought of death is a little scary. I believe it is scary for the simple fact that people fear the unknown, but at the same time death could be enjoyable. Death could lead us to a happier better life, which is all everyone wants anyways. When I look at other people who have lost grandparents and parents, I have such a high level of respect for them, because it takes strength and perseverance to get over something like that. Well I do not think a person can ever get over something like that, you just got to keep pushing and living. And I think that is a big part of dealing with death. You have to keep living, you can not keep be caught up in grieving. Because that could lead to a slip in your health, and you do not want that.

When my aunt passed, I was 14 and that was really like the first person to ever die that was close to me. So it was a little difficult to accept and deal with. She was my favorite aunt and my god mom. And my family took it really tough because that was the first death in our immediate family. Now that I am 21, my aunt does not cross my mind all that often, but when she does cross my mind I miss her. I remember all the good times we had, one of my favorite was when we used to ride around in the car and she would play here favorite singer, Luther Vandross. So everytime I here him, I think of my aunt and just smile.

If there I found out that there was no God, it would change my life probably more than I realize it would. I mean I am a Christian. I would not say a very big one, but none the least I am one. I believe that God put us on earth for a reason, and to work for him. In my life I give credit to God for just about everything. Anything good that comes my way, I give thanks to Christ. If I found out he was not real, I would lose my mind.

One of the first thoughts to pop into my head would be that the world as we know it, is damned. Everyone I know is damned. And the hardest pill to swallow is that I am damned. There is no hope for humanity. It is crazy how people may not believe in God, but when the nation faces tragedy they call upon God. On TV you will see the president talking about, “In God we trust.” We'll who do we put that trust in now? Everyone would be lost. I would have to say one of the best things about God is that he is always there, and that He will never forsake you. Which means you can call on him anytime. Because he is always there. So without Him being there, people lose that peace of mind. For the first time humans will be feeling helpless.

But I would feel lost. I just realized that a lot of things I live by, and try to do in my life are motivated by God. I try to be honest all the time and do what I would have others do to me. I mean without God, do not know if morals would even exist. Then I think no. I guess after a while people will still believe in things like karma. So maybe the world would not be completely doomed.

I also believe over time that people will redirect their faith. I mean I think that people will find other things to live by and worship. I do not really have any idea of what they may try to put their faith in but anything is possible. But my overall thoughts are that, the world will be lost without Him. Who is there to guide us. Teach us. Develop us. No one. No one can do for us like God can. The world is going to turn itself upside down before it gets better. And it is going to be upside down for a long time.

How does the fact that I am rich effect how I walk through the world? I believe that just because we are students here at Penn State does not mean we are rich. However, it may mean that we are more privileged than others who have never thought about going to college. I mean I know people who attend this university and are the farthest thing from rich. People who came from nothing, but what sets them apart of other less fortunate people is that they work hard. One of my roommates did not really have anything when I first meet him freshman year. He worked his way through school. He had a job at the commons and earned the money he needed.

As far as myself goes I do not consider myself rich at all. I know I may be slightly more fortunate than others but I am not rich. Everything my mother and I have we worked hard for it. My mom was a single parent, working two and three jobs just to make sure I had everything I needed growing up. On top of all that my mom is responsible for my expensive taste. She used to buy me all the latest sneakers and clothes. I am a huge basketball fan, always have and always will be one. When I was younger, my two favorite players were Allen Iverson and Tracy McGrady. And both of those guys had their very own signature sneaker. I had to have them both every year they came out. My mom worked hard so she bought me those shoes. So along with the expensive taste she passed on to me, she also passed on her work ethic. My mother always taught me that if you want something in life, nothing comes easy or for free. She said you have to work hard for what you want. So that is what I have done my entire life. Every job I have ever had, I looked to work hard and get promoted. That has always been my goal.

The work hard mentality is something that I like to apply to my entire life and anything that I do in my life. I am a student and I try to work hard in the classroom. I like to give it my all in the books. When I wake up some mornings and do not feel like going to class, I think of my mom and work habits. Working hard is doing things that you do not want to do.

So that brings me back to question, how does the fact that I am rich effect how I walk through the world? It does not effect the way I walk through the world. I'm not cocky or arrogant because I may have more than the next guy, I am humble and grateful. I appreciate my mother for instilling such great characteristics in me and she has raised me right.

I don't think I would ever join the military because it is something I never really wanted to do. I look and I see some people who have joined the military and I just say I'm not cut out for it. To be in the military it takes a lot of motivation, courage, and determination. I fell like most people who join the military have special reasons or motives for it. I do not have that.

I always thought that men could not get drafted into the army if they were an only child, which I was. I thought that it would be cool to not get drafted. But then I thought about the old days in the military and how men would love to serve and fight for his country. It showed bravery. These days things are a little different. A lot of young guys go to the military because the messed up in life and really have no other options. So they figured that they might as well go to the military, where everyone is treated the same.

I remember my uncle tried to get me to join the military after I graduated from high school, just as he had done when he was my age. He said, “Nephew, going to the military is the easiest way to pay for college.” I mean, I suppose he was right but at the same time I never had the desire to do that. But on the other hand, I have to look at the positives of joining the military. One of close friends from high school chose to go to the military after graduation. He was a relativity chubby kid going in, after basic training and things, he came out skinny and in-shape. He said, he was in the best shape of his life, because of the military. I also see he has a nice car and stuff like that. I'm glad things are working out for him, but I'm also glad that I'll be graduating next May.

I believe it all depends on the purpose you are, and the person your willing to become. I am a strong minded, tough spirit and never give up type of guy, and I believe I got those traits from my mom. She is a great, amazing women who installed a lot of other good characteristics in me. I appreciate her for that, and I do believe if going to the military was something I wanted to do, I know for a fact that I would be able to make it and succeed.

I think that it is way more important how a person conducts themselves and how they act rather than their race or what color they are.

I have meet plenty of people who are just cool people to be around. I consider myself a really friendly and kind person, and when your really friendly like that it does not matter what people look like. It is strictly about how the person acts around me, or the first encounter I have with them. In the past, I have had many best friends who were a different race than me. I do not discriminate at all. I give all people a chance to be my friend.

Before I came to State College, I spent two years at a branch campus. At that branch campus I was forced to talk and interact with people of a different race, races that I have no experience with. I lived with Egyptians and Puerto ricans in the dorms. It was really my first time ever meeting people who were from those countries. The thing I always did was never judge people by their race. I only wait and see how people act and the way do things, then I decide if they cool enough to be friends with me. But mostly all of the international students became my friends and I developed friendships with them. They were just cool, goodhearted people and those are the qualities I look for in a friend.

I feel that goodhearted people come in all shapes, colors and sizes. I do not discriminate at all. I have gotten to know and love all races and types of people.

I believe that everybody is entitled to a choose in religion. People can choose atheist, just as they can choose christian or any other religion. But as far as my child marrying an atheist, may be a little harder to accept, even if two people can be together but have different believes. I do believe atheism is a bad thing. I only believe that way because, I think people have to realize that there is some type of higher power. Someone or something created the world as we know it, and you have to try and give credit or worship to that. I mean I also believe that you have to give thanks for your life. For whoever decided to put you on this earth. I mean these are just the basics of most religions. I might be a little ignorant to atheism, and what are the exact practices of that religion. I think I am going to go find out. I feel like everyone should have a religion were they can realize when a miracle happens, they know where or who it came from. A higher power.