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“Some” individuals dwell on image as a form of self esteem and sell themselves short by selling themselves out. Reality in image is an act displayed and projected to gain self importance to fill some void that wants attention.
The Wedding Ring Effect: After the wedding celebration is over “some of them” realise what happened. They know they belong to a group that has experienced the same realisation. What left to do? Attention re-commences on another level - competition begins – the stakes get higher – risk involved – forbidden fruit? What does that “mean”? Obviously an adrenalin rush of excitement. What is excitement? Ex? An unknown variable – an unknown quantity – now that spells scary to me.
When I was married someone did latch on to my husband. That didn’t hurt me. What hurt me was the deception. And – no! I didn’t have a flashy wedding. We eloped!.
Generally guppies live between 1 to 2 years. The life span depends on the temperature of the tank. If they have a life without diseases they should live more than one year easily. Putting guppies under stress also shortens their lives. Pregnant for ¾ weeks. The babies can be released when they are large enough to not get swallowed by another fish.
Where is the comparison? Apparently guppies love orange - reading from the information link given. I looked into the colour orange it represents sexuality and reproduction.
I think there is a large number of people who have never experienced what they need so they go on what they “think” they “want” – physical excitement.
This is my opinion. I am glad I am not a guppy!
I am trying to wake each day aware and acknowledging that the "moment" is "fresh" and it has no smoke in it.
It would appear easier for me to accept - rather than stating "I have stopped smoking".
Why? why not! - that is a great article Ilker. Hats off again! - second thoughts - keep your hat on.