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15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Would you help someone... · 0 replies · +1 points
There are also other ways in which American people have helped immigrants come to America that doesn’t involve crossing the border illegally and sheltering them for the time being. My mom’s Russian friend married a Puerto-Rican man who she met on the internet just to be able to come to study and work in the United States. They got married, and she agreed to pay him a few thousands of dollars that she had been saving up in exchange for a chance to come to the United States. They remained married for the required time, had absolutely no sexual encounters with one another, and divorced right after the time was up. Now, she has graduated from college as the Magna Cum Laude, and is now engaged to a Russian-American man who she met while working at my mom’s law firm in New York. In fact, many foreign attorneys and legal personnel at my mother’s firm in New York have admitted to doing the same thing just to come here to study and work for money to send back to their native countries.
Personally, I would not be willing to offer my hand in marriage to an immigrant for money so that they can come here to obtain a better living. Honestly, many people now-a-days are getting caught because this act has become extremely common among Americans and foreigners. I would suggest going about it the old fashioned way, waiting the necessary years to acquire a green card to ensure that everything is legit.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - What do you think abou... · 0 replies · +1 points
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Has the class on the "... · 0 replies · +1 points
Honestly, the lecture wasn’t what I expected in terms of its content, but it was better than most lectures that we are obligated to sit through, which is something that I am definitely sure most of us will agree with. I expected this lecture to be more informal, and essentially packed with more information that would actually entertain us. The statistics presented were appalling, but the actual content of the lecture wasn’t as captivating and useful as I thought it would be. I was expecting more humor, more interesting information, informal talk about sex and the human body, and advice and suggestions for us all. Although I felt comfortable listening to the information provided, the lecture began to get incredibly boring and I tended to dwell off. I guess he hyped the whole lecture up to something that it really wasn’t and as a result, I expected more than I actually got. I spoke to a few people who were extremely comfortable also, who overly enjoyed the lecture because no other professor would take the time out to openly discuss sex and the human anatomy in a class that isn’t biology or sexually related. I guess I am a bit use to hearing about this stuff from friends and fellow school mates to the point where all of this information is just repetitive. Despite my dislike toward the lecture on the needy penis, I do respect Sam Richards for presenting this information to us when certainly he was not obligated to.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - What do you think abo... · 0 replies · +1 points
It seems as though I am completely for interracial dating/relationships because…… I am the product of one, fortunately! My mother is of Puerto-Rican and Irish descent, and my father is of African-American and Native American descent. As a beautiful result of this relationship, I would have to kindly admit that I love every moment of my life, and I believe that my distinct racial background and trivial features play a pivotal role in my feelings of contentment. When I visit family members, I eat all different types of delicious dishes from all over the world, dance to literally every type of music, and speak with different accents and sometimes languages! Not to say that people who don’t enjoy this privilege aren’t blessed like multi-racial or bi-racial people are, however us mixed individuals were born with extra opportunities to explore multiple worlds in one household at the same time, and indeed this is essentially the beauty of it all! The only complicated factor that plagued me as a child was religion. My dad is Muslim and my mom is Christian. As a young child I was ludicrously confused, which I’m sure anyone would agree isn’t the greatest feeling considering how important religion is. To make a long story short, as a child I didn’t attend church services on a regular basis, instead I attended Christian church on special occasions with my grandparents. On the other hand, I had a childhood that anyone would die for, especially since I had the world’s greatest experience of living the best of both worlds at the same time, or should I say the best of four worlds? Anyhow, I am totally for interracial relationships even though they can potentially cause religious/cultural problems for a strict family. Happy dating everyone, and don’t be afraid to try something new!
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Where do the messages ... · 0 replies · +1 points
Society favors whiteness and European features as we can see from the media. Although these favoritisms and preferences make people feel less of themselves, these stereotypes are already fostered into society and influence people’s mentalities to believe in the majority, therefore it is difficult to alter these opinions to suit everyone so that’s exactly why they still exist today and will most likely exist for a substantial amount of time. Therefore, it is safe to conclude that the media enforces certain favoritisms and means of acceptances which influences us all to believe that certain races are good and perhaps better, or bad and inherently inferior in all aspects.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How do you feel about ... · 0 replies · +1 points
Honestly, I think I will be more inclined to help people from a different race simply due to my past experiences helping people of my own race. I’ve encountered many situations that involved drunk people asking me for money to use to supposedly buy food or clothing for their children with a liquor bottle or cigarettes in their back pockets. Some people of my own race even cursed at me on numerous occasions when I decided not to provide them with any of my money or food. The reasons why I decided not to help these particular people were because their negative intentions were apparent. If they really acted as though they needed it for appropriate uses then I would have provided them with something they could potentially use.
Furthermore, my argument clearly demonstrates the idea that I personally would be interested in helping or providing assistance to any one of which ever racial group if they need it, including less-fortunate whites. Although I would prefer to help people that don’t share the same ethnicity or origins with me due to adverse past experiences, that doesn’t mean that I necessarily won’t help my own race. I would be more than willing to help anyone of any color succeed and possibly advance in this world if they make me feel like they really need it and that it will be put to appropriate uses. Usually, I try to help as much as possible!
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Is it selfish for peop... · 0 replies · +1 points
I once knew of a Dominican immigrant woman who lived in New York City who had about eight or nine children, back to back. I loved her apartment and she seemed unbelievably amicable and easy-going. I also knew that this woman had no “stable” husband nor did she even possess a steady income, in fact she never worked. As a child, seeing this woman living in this situation caused me to question society and equality. I finally asked an elder about the situation simply because everyone who knew of her was well aware of her financial situation and background. Finally, I was told that the reason she decided to have that many children back to back was because it positively affected the amount of funds and aid that the government provided to her and her family. The more mouths she had to feed meant that she was entitled to more food funds to maintain her family, and more cash to support them all. After hearing about her financial dependencies on the government for survival, I quickly questioned our government system for the simple fact that there are people working ludicrously hard every day to earn money to survive, but our hard earned tax dollars are going to welfare recipients who have the right to sit on their asses everyday waiting for the government to directly deposit funds into their accounts so that they can make it through. That’s beside the point, but it is a shame that so many people in America live in poverty just like this. Having as many children as they want can positively affect their governmental funds and this is why most people in poverty tend to have more children. More importantly, these recipients should utilize contraceptives so that they can prevent unwanted pregnancies so that they can focus on providing a better life for themselves, and later on maybe a family.
There are no substantial excuses as to why a person who lives in poverty has ten children and no reliable income to completely support them. Why would a person bring a child into this world knowing that they don’t have the means to support that child, increasing the likeliness of that child’s future to be headed for a sudden downfall? This behavior is selfish and careless.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How do you feel about ... · 0 replies · +1 points
Personally as an American, I truly believe that a good number of us feel that we can live profligately since most of us have enough capital to do so. We expect to make the best of life in any way possible, even if it means that we must spend a relaxing vacation in Fiji for a week that might cost approximately $8-10,000, we do it because we can. Even the poor people of America live better than most people from under developed nations and this is something that we fail to acknowledge. Most people who reside in third-world countries are lucky to have two meals a day if that. Most likely, they will not have expensive opulent jewelry or multiple BMW’s to drive each day of the week. Of course, most people would argue that it isn’t essentially our fault that our country possesses an abundance of wealth opposed to most third world nations. This is in fact true for the largest part. However, a countless number of people in America do not take into account that majority of the items that we have were produced by slaves who live in third-world countries who are usually paid little or nothing for their arduous labor. Not to say that we should refrain from purchasing the ornate materials and objects that we desire, but most importantly, we should donate money to these countries in need of assistance, and perhaps purchase free-trade goods so that we know we aren’t taking advantage of the slave system. The least we can do is show consideration for people who unfortunately don’t have the social and financial opportunities that we have as Americans. Furthermore, Americans are overly spoiled, and perhaps we as a people should value the luxurious lifestyles that we are able to sustain thanks to the successes of our nation as a whole.
We shouldn’t necessarily individually reduce our expenditures because we are entitled to enjoy our money and success, but we should just learn to appreciate and acknowledge the lifestyles that we live and consider the fact that 97% of the world can’t afford to live life the way we can. Surely we can modify our current living standards, but I doubt if many people who have already gotten used to living high-class or elaborate lifestyles will simply change their lifestyles just because 97% of the world can’t do the same. The best solution to this issue is education. We must educate the elite to respect the less fortunate, and possibly help in any way possible.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Is the data on Native ... · 0 replies · +1 points
When people think of Native Americans, they often think of poor and uneducated people who live on reservations filled with poverty. Some people know them for owning some of the world’s most famous casinos in Las Vegas or Arizona, but even so, these generalizations don’t explain why Native American’s socioeconomic status is at such a low level compared to other races. Everyone has the opportunity to better their lives by pursuing any career they choose or deciding to go to school to receive an exceptional education but some people have advantages over others. In the case with Native Americans, the general stereotypes that are automatically imposed on them make it extremely difficult for them to obtain the same jobs as other Americans. This is also truthful because long ago, their land was taken from them and they were thrown on reservations by the government who barely provided them with funds, rights, and opportunities. Therefore, after they were forced off of their land onto reservations, poverty started to arise within the Native American reservation communities. It is safe to state that they started off at these reservations at a disadvantage because now they became the minority. They had little money, horrible schools, and no opportunities to further advance themselves. What type of future would one expect from a group who was and continues to be denigrated, who started off with little or no money, and basically had little or no rights? We must understand that life on the reservation isn’t as sweet as it should be. The government doesn’t provide enough resources and cremations to well accommodate the lives of most Native Americans.
Personally, I feel that many Native Americans have some sort of resentment toward the rest of the world, whites in particular, so they decide to live amongst each other and do what they want in their communities. Of course, some Native’s have decided to go above and beyond but most of them either don’t have the funds to do so, or don’t have the opportunities or resources to do the same because of their harsh history and modern assumptions that put them at a disadvantage. They don’t choose to be poor, their conditions don’t allow for them to advance further.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Is the data on Native ... · 0 replies · +1 points
When people think of Native Americans, they often think of poor and uneducated people who live on reservations filled with poverty. Some people know them for owning some of the world’s most famous casinos in Las Vegas or Arizona, but even so, these generalizations don’t explain why Native American’s socioeconomic status is at such a low level compared to other races. Everyone has the opportunity to better their lives by pursuing any career they choose or deciding to go to school to receive an exceptional education but some people have advantages over others. In the case with Native Americans, the general stereotypes that are automatically imposed on them make it extremely difficult for them to obtain the same jobs as other Americans. This is also truthful because long ago, their land was taken from them and they were thrown on reservations by the government who barely provided them with funds, rights, and opportunities. Therefore, after they were forced off of their land onto reservations, poverty started to arise within the Native American reservation communities. It is safe to state that they started off at these reservations at a disadvantage because now they became the minority. They had little money, horrible schools, and no opportunities to further advance themselves. What type of future would one expect from a group who was and continues to be denigrated, who started off with little or no money, and basically had little or no rights? We must understand that life on the reservation isn’t as sweet as it should be. The government doesn’t provide enough resources and cremations to well accommodate the lives of most Native Americans.
Personally, I feel that many Native Americans have some sort of resentment toward the rest of the world, whites in particular, so they decide to live amongst each other and do what they want in their communities. Of course, some Native’s have decided to go above and beyond but most of them either don’t have the funds to do so, or don’t have the opportunities or resources to do the same because of their harsh history and modern assumptions that put them at a disadvantage. They don’t choose to be poor, their conditions don’t allow for them to advance further.