though i am a silva gratuate, i am a miserable failure as far as my love life is concerned

i was in love with a guy for 5 years even though he never loved me. we were not talking to each other for last 6 months. no news at all and 3 days back i saw him in my dream in a marriage costume. and i found out from the net that he got married 1 month back.
i cant forget him and dont want to move ahead. what shud i do? i never used silva to bring him back in my life. can i do it now?