Mr.RUDE i have been with him for 26 years. I know he was a good man or I would not have been with him so long,he had problems, but he was a father to many kids and grandkids in r time together, there r things that we have done together that some r going to miss alot. So if u dont have anything good to say .SAY NOTHING!!!!!!!!!! If you cant keep your mouth quiet for him at least do it out of the respect of the family that dose care for him.