spicytuna
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14 years ago @ KOMO - Seattle, WA - Local family\'s lifest... · 0 replies · 0 points
14 years ago @ KOMO - Seattle, WA - Local family\'s lifest... · 0 replies · -1 points
I do this. I am ABSOLUTELY committed to my primary partner, as he is to me. And he has a couple of other partners he is ALSO committed to, as am I in that they are part of my close group. All others, his and mine, which are more casual - maybe not people we commit to beyond a certain level, but they are treated with the utmost respect. I am not an attention whore (except for online, I tend to stay more or less in the background most of the time, it is where I am comfortable.) I'm not on drugs, I wasn't molested as a kid. Any other criteria? Oh, and do not excuse ignorance in one area by citing your "enlightenment" in another. You can't just say, "Oh, well I'll give ya the gay thing, so **** off with the poly".
This one part of your argument is absolutely valid: "I simply don't like this, it seems very wrong to me." ABSOLUTELY, undeniably, your right to your own opinion. As I have a right to mine, and my own way of life. Like everyone else.
14 years ago @ KOMO - Seattle, WA - Local family\'s lifest... · 4 replies · +1 points
14 years ago @ KOMO - Seattle, WA - Local family\'s lifest... · 2 replies · -1 points
No... actually, if you don't get jealous, it means that you DON'T have "deep-rooted issues".
14 years ago @ KOMO - Seattle, WA - Local family\'s lifest... · 0 replies · +1 points
2) Partners can always get fluid-bonded with partners that they trust, and then just use condoms with more casual partners or otherwise non-fluid-bonded partners.
3) How does a condom keep me from being as close as I could possibly be to a partner, assuming the emotional connection is the most important thing?
STI's are relevant to anyone who is sexually active, including mono people (btw, anyone I know who's had an STI, all got 'em from their "supposedly" mono partners). Just not any MORE so as a result of poly. Stupid breeds disease. Ignorance breeds disease. Poly does not breed disease.
14 years ago @ KOMO - Seattle, WA - Local family\'s lifest... · 2 replies · +1 points
And yeah... you guys need national health care (I'm Canadian), but that's a whole OTHER kettle of very stinky fish.
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