en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/616134 Comments by smile_518 http://mycyc.com/made4reason/argh-advice-please/#IDComment28681273 i had the same problem...but why did you break up with him in the first place? do you really want to go through that again? if you really like him try showing him that you really mean it, do something special. if he rejects you, what can you do? move on. Wed, 29 Jul 2009 04:55:31 +0000 http://mycyc.com/made4reason/argh-advice-please/#IDComment28681273 http://mycyc.com/aityper/well-this-is-my-first-post/#IDComment28494130 Drama, drama, drama! I think that you need to talk with this guy and ask him straight-up if he's willing to make a commitment to you. Tell him the truth, that you're tired of the constant cycle. Or better yet, you should look at why you guys keep breaking up. Is it a specific thing he does, you do, what? A good relationship shouldn't be easy, but if there's a problem, you need to resolve it or end the relationship for good if it causes too much trouble. Mon, 27 Jul 2009 09:43:15 +0000 http://mycyc.com/aityper/well-this-is-my-first-post/#IDComment28494130 http://mycyc.com/strangegirl007/should-i-be-ashamed/#IDComment28493836 What kind of best friend tells you you are rich and spoiled? It doesn't matter how much money you have or how large your house is. Being down to earth and having a good head on your shoulders is all that matters. Mon, 27 Jul 2009 09:37:01 +0000 http://mycyc.com/strangegirl007/should-i-be-ashamed/#IDComment28493836 http://mycyc.com/sexy_seducer/guys-are-so-confusing/#IDComment28493619 Decide who you like more. If it were me, and this probably isn't the thing you want to hear, I would chose neither of them. It seems they are just fighting over you like your a trophy or something. First of all, you deserve better, and second of all, the guys should cherish their friendship before girls. It's a known fact, friends last forever, boys just come and go. Same for guys. Would you really be content choosing one of them knowing that you broke up a friendship? Mon, 27 Jul 2009 09:33:01 +0000 http://mycyc.com/sexy_seducer/guys-are-so-confusing/#IDComment28493619 http://mycyc.com/mandaraquel/what-do-i-do-3/#IDComment28493368 No, desperation has nothing to do with it. I think you have the same problem as me, you have problems saying no to people. PPaige is right. Ask who you are happiest and comfortable with, and then you have to say no to the other guys. Cheating makes any chance for happiness you had to disappear. Good luck, and you should know that being single isn't all that terrible... Mon, 27 Jul 2009 09:27:54 +0000 http://mycyc.com/mandaraquel/what-do-i-do-3/#IDComment28493368 http://mycyc.com/kaytuhlynn/help-11/#IDComment28492737 i know that telling you to get over this guy probably isn't the best advice out there. but this guy has made it pretty clear that you aren't a priority in his life. it's difficult to get over your first love, i know, but this guy seems to be changing his mind over and over and over again. you need to move on and find somebody who is consistent, and makes an effort in your relationship. you shouldn't have to wait around and wait for this guy to want to get back together. you deserve better! Mon, 27 Jul 2009 09:15:05 +0000 http://mycyc.com/kaytuhlynn/help-11/#IDComment28492737 http://mycyc.com/kita_misquiita/boy-troubles-2/#IDComment28492408 talk with your friend and ask what's going on. if she is truly a good friend, she'll know that boys come and go but friends are always there. tell her that you like this guy, (even though kaytuhlynn is right, you should ask yourself, why is this guy is going for your friends?) Mon, 27 Jul 2009 09:08:43 +0000 http://mycyc.com/kita_misquiita/boy-troubles-2/#IDComment28492408