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<title>Art After 5 : Chapters 13-14</title>
<link>http://aa5.sleepyvalentina.com/text/chapters-12-13#IDComment68032479</link>
<description>I don&amp;#039;t understand.  </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 18:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Stories : Counterpoint &lt;br /&gt; Chapter 40 Teaser</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint-chapter-40-teaser#IDComment66562822</link>
<description>And yet, people lined up to agree with you. I&amp;#039;m not sure if that was white knighting or part of a larger issue within the fandom in which personally attacking an author is acceptable if the story doesn&amp;#039;t go the way you&amp;#039;d like. It&amp;#039;s one of many abundant double standards, along with the fact that readers can take liberties in the way they address authors (&amp;quot;not trying to offend, but...&amp;quot;) and if the author responds in kind (&amp;quot;not trying to offend&amp;quot;), she is intentionally being rude. Contrary to the assertions of several readers, I don&amp;#039;t typically mitigate. I do, however, tend to respond to questions using the same tone in which they were asked.   Starla&amp;#039;s response was posted for roughly four hours before you sent your PM blasting me&amp;mdash;four hours on a holiday weekend. I wasn&amp;#039;t ignoring anyone; I simply wasn&amp;#039;t online. Am I not entitled to have a life outside of my hobby?   If you take a close look at this site, you&amp;#039;ll notice there are no ads. Webhosting, software, domain names&amp;mdash;these all cost money. I&amp;#039;m not going to deny that I&amp;#039;ve gained quite a bit from this community, but I also like to think that I&amp;#039;ve given a lot back.     For the record, had your PM criticized my writing, my reaction would have been quite different. You criticized me as a person, something I simply won&amp;#039;t stand for from anyone who doesn&amp;#039;t actually know me.   I appreciate your apology, and whereas I may have over-reacted when I temporarily took down the other site, I don&amp;#039;t think I was wrong to react. When you visit my private website, it&amp;#039;s almost like you&amp;#039;re a guest in my home. I felt like I&amp;#039;d hauled out the good china and polished the silver, only to be told there was a wrinkle a in one of the napkins. But it&amp;#039;s okay, because I&amp;#039;m just words on a screen. No one knows me, so it&amp;#039;s easy to forget I have feelings and responsibilities outside of my writing.   </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 8 Apr 2010 12:56:32 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Stories : Chapter 39</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-39#IDComment65864565</link>
<description>There will be more details here than in AA5. He&amp;#039;s a thinker, so you know his mind is going to be a mess. </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 4 Apr 2010 03:39:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Stories : Chapter 39</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-39#IDComment65864503</link>
<description>I imagine that would be the worst part. I wouldn&amp;#039;t want to do it, I think.   Thank you for reading.  </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 4 Apr 2010 03:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Stories : Chapter 39</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-39#IDComment65864364</link>
<description>Yes, she finds out when Alice mentions that she read it in the obituary. I like Esme, too. I&amp;#039;m currently working on a FGB oneshot from her POV that takes place in 1986. It&amp;#039;s fun to be in her head. </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 4 Apr 2010 03:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Art After 5 : About this site...</title>
<link>http://aa5.sleepyvalentina.com/about-this-site#IDComment65862512</link>
<description>Yeah, I&amp;#039;ll be staying off the forums for the foreseeable future, too. I&amp;#039;m not going to speculate on the intentions of others as doing so would be somewhat hypocritical of me considering the erroneous assumption that my brief comments were formed with malice on my part was what brought us here. If not for my outstanding commitments (of which there are many) I&amp;#039;d take a break, too. Instead, I&amp;#039;m going to continue writing and pretty much ignore everything else.  I hope you have a lovely Easter tomorrow, if you celebrate it. </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 4 Apr 2010 03:17:22 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://aa5.sleepyvalentina.com/about-this-site#IDComment65862512</guid>
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<title>Stories : Chapter 39</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-39#IDComment65556987</link>
<description>Thank you.   </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 2 Apr 2010 14:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-39#IDComment65556987</guid>
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<title>Art After 5 : Why Art After 5 is no longer public (again)</title>
<link>http://aa5.sleepyvalentina.com/?p=57#IDComment65472197</link>
<description>Hearing that my personality took the fun out of reading my writing broke my heart, too. </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 2 Apr 2010 07:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Stories : Have Me</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/have-me#IDComment64705491</link>
<description>This is a FGB piece. As soon as the winning bidder reads it, it will go public.   </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 20:44:14 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/have-me#IDComment64705491</guid>
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<title>Stories : Chapter 37</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-37#IDComment64339274</link>
<description>The Stamp Act Trees are explained here-  &lt;a href=&quot;http://sleepyvalentina.com/stamp-act-trees-wtf&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://sleepyvalentina.com/stamp-act-trees-wtf&lt;/a&gt;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://sleepyvalentina.com/stamp-act-trees-wtf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;    And you can read Art After 5 here-  &lt;a href=&quot;http://aa5.sleepyvalentina.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://aa5.sleepyvalentina.com&lt;/a&gt;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://aa5.sleepyvalentina.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;    it requires separate registration and some of the formatting is shit, but it&amp;#039;s there.   </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 13:49:12 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-37#IDComment64339274</guid>
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<title>Stories : Counterpoint &lt;Br /&gt; Chapter 37 Teaser</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint-chapter-37-teaser#IDComment63707956</link>
<description>I&amp;#039;m working on a Carlisle/Esme oneshot for FGB.  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 19:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint-chapter-37-teaser#IDComment63707956</guid>
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<title>Stories : Some Little Girls</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/slg1-1#IDComment63635133</link>
<description>This is a Fandom Give Back piece. As such, the winning bidders get to read it before anyone else. </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 11:23:13 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/slg1-1#IDComment63635133</guid>
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<title>Stories : Tire Swings and Magic</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/tire-swings-magic#IDComment63372410</link>
<description>I&amp;#039;m so glad you liked it. And Edgasm! I know what you read on Saturday mornings (I read that, too.)  </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 21:03:06 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/tire-swings-magic#IDComment63372410</guid>
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<title>Stories : Tire Swings and Magic</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/tire-swings-magic#IDComment63312384</link>
<description>This is a Counterpoint outtake I wrote for The Fandom Gives Back. The winning bidder gets to read it before anyone else does.   </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 12:05:59 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/tire-swings-magic#IDComment63312384</guid>
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<title>Stories : Counterpoint &lt;br /&gt; Chapter 36 Teaser</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/http:/sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint-chapter-36-teaser#IDComment63199370</link>
<description>Do it! Then tell her we&amp;#039;re friends. ;)  </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 17:18:44 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/http:/sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint-chapter-36-teaser#IDComment63199370</guid>
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<title>Stories : Chapter 36</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-36#IDComment63066479</link>
<description>She dressed extremely conservative for work typically. She showed no skin and never wore her hair down.  In Art After 5, I made a big deal out of the two Beths. There was how she saw herself&amp;mdash;overly sexual, this is how she dressed at home&amp;mdash;and the idealized version of who she wanted to be&amp;mdash;valued for who she was on the inside and her intellect. So she dressed for work in what Mollie called &amp;quot;middle aged and frumpy chic.&amp;quot;  Plain, loose clothes that were the opposite of sexy. Her altering that by wearing clothing that was attractive but still inappropriate was a subtle way of showing how far she came, as how she sees herself and who she wants to be merge closer into the same person.   </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 23:12:41 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-36#IDComment63066479</guid>
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<title>Stories : I&#039;m Many Things...</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/?p=758#IDComment62692882</link>
<description>Thank you.   Anyone who takes her screenname from Steel Magnolias is epic win with me.  </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:56:58 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/?p=758#IDComment62692882</guid>
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<title>Stories : I&#039;m Many Things...</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/?p=758#IDComment62692361</link>
<description>The translation itself is old news; it dates back to January.   The rumblings that I made it up for attention and to hide my true aspirations to self-publish or publish via omnific? Those are perpetual. </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/?p=758#IDComment62692361</guid>
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<title>Stories : Chapter 35</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-35#IDComment62305201</link>
<description>Oh, Kate will have her moments. Just wait.  </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 23:41:20 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-35#IDComment62305201</guid>
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<title>Stories : Chapter 35</title>
<link>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-35#IDComment62305103</link>
<description>Patience. The answer&amp;#039;s in the next chapter. :)  </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 23:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://sleepyvalentina.com/counterpoint/chapter-35#IDComment62305103</guid>
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