en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/645696 Comments by sevenbates http://www.facenews.org/phil-prevosts-list-of-bakersfields-best-french-fries/#IDComment43633641 I want more foodie articles. This was great. Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:00:23 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/phil-prevosts-list-of-bakersfields-best-french-fries/#IDComment43633641 http://www.facenews.org/man-beaten-outside-of-bar-inspired-to-make-50-film/#IDComment36530874 I'm not 6'8", just 6'4". Sheesh, gotta keep his pride and make me sound like a monster. That's why I bitch-slapped him the first time. Tue, 29 Sep 2009 20:54:05 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/man-beaten-outside-of-bar-inspired-to-make-50-film/#IDComment36530874 http://www.facenews.org/hey-chingpea-how-do-i-break-up-with-her/#IDComment36530356 Sounds like you're coming up on your mid-20's with no reference for being single as an adult. Think about how little you knew about love and life as a teenager compared to now, and then try to imagine how little you know now, compared to what you'll know in another 6 years. Then look at how much "bigger" a situation you're making this than it has to be. Be up-front and direct. Don't waste words. Or you could be spineless and leave a voicemail. Tue, 29 Sep 2009 20:48:42 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/hey-chingpea-how-do-i-break-up-with-her/#IDComment36530356 http://www.facenews.org/hooker-bust-craigslist-prostitution-in-frazier-park-offered-motherdaughter-smile_massage_smile/#IDComment36472691 But keep the funny signs. Tue, 29 Sep 2009 11:08:32 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/hooker-bust-craigslist-prostitution-in-frazier-park-offered-motherdaughter-smile_massage_smile/#IDComment36472691 http://www.facenews.org/hooker-bust-craigslist-prostitution-in-frazier-park-offered-motherdaughter-smile_massage_smile/#IDComment36472601 No, no, no. Decriminalize it. Regulate it. Tax It. Tue, 29 Sep 2009 11:07:36 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/hooker-bust-craigslist-prostitution-in-frazier-park-offered-motherdaughter-smile_massage_smile/#IDComment36472601 http://www.facenews.org/hey-chingpea-she-doesnt-love-him-but-i-do/#IDComment36472256 "Love triangles like these never end in bliss" I think that's an unfair generality, but then again, I'm a swinger. lol. Chingpea is right to ask questions about the foundations of their relationship, and just where you're straddling the fence. It sounds like everyone needs to be more honest here. You only live once, so live it up. I stole my wife from a good guy, and I don't regret it at all. I'm reminded of the fact that women will buy shoes to keep other women from getting them. In this situation, she might cling to him if you make a move - so I'd suggest you set them both down and tell them how you feel. If you're really a "trio" then it'll be much more natural than pretty much anything anyone else is suggesting. NOTE: The third option of becoming a poly-amorous trio is also open, but remember, you live in Bakersfield. That stuff is considered crazy out here. ;) Tue, 29 Sep 2009 11:03:19 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/hey-chingpea-she-doesnt-love-him-but-i-do/#IDComment36472256 http://www.facenews.org/hey-chingpea-help-me-make-sex-hotter/#IDComment36470806 "I just don’t want to “Google” and find stuff that my stomach wouldn’t be able to handle." Translation: I'm not sure I'm brave enough to explore my boundaries beyond the meat and potatoes I've grown bored with, because I have hangups about dirty stuff. Solution: Ask yourself why any sexual kink would be too much for you to stomach. While there are exceptions to the rule, most folks aren't screwing barnyard animals or starring in home-made bukkake videos. For the most part, people are just exploring the edge of their comfort zones and finding they really like some of it. So, Google the heck out of stuff that makes your head spin. Then Google a little deeper. NOTE: If anyone tells you that hot candle wax stuff is sexy? Slap em in the face. Tue, 29 Sep 2009 10:44:39 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/hey-chingpea-help-me-make-sex-hotter/#IDComment36470806 http://www.facenews.org/hooker-bust-craigslist-prostitution-in-frazier-park-offered-motherdaughter-smile_massage_smile/#IDComment36469957 Love that image. Tue, 29 Sep 2009 10:32:50 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/hooker-bust-craigslist-prostitution-in-frazier-park-offered-motherdaughter-smile_massage_smile/#IDComment36469957 http://www.facenews.org/sandrinis_bakersfield_trivia_gameshow/#IDComment34939002 I did think Bakersfield had only Bingo. I'll have to check that out. Fri, 18 Sep 2009 00:04:25 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/sandrinis_bakersfield_trivia_gameshow/#IDComment34939002 http://www.facenews.org/7-random-destinations-to-get-soda-pop/#IDComment34934949 They moved the Coca-Cola museum to Altanta, Georgia and now they serve every product they make in the world there. Its hundreds of different flavors like apple soda, licorice, pistachio, etc. Thu, 17 Sep 2009 23:27:41 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/7-random-destinations-to-get-soda-pop/#IDComment34934949 http://www.facenews.org/what-does-kern-county-death-from-h1n1-swine-flu-mean-to-you/#IDComment34903559 Speaking as someone who works in an office where 5 employees have come down with H1N1, I couldn't care less. It's the flu; not the super-flu. People die from the flu every day, that's why people have died from H1N1...cuz it's the flu. There are no aspects of the swine flu that are more severe or dangerous than the flu, because it *is* the flu. The only difference between this flu and the flu you've had a dozen times, is that this one can get animals sick too. So, stop french kissing your poodle and shut the hell up. This is not a pandemic. Thu, 17 Sep 2009 16:45:07 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/what-does-kern-county-death-from-h1n1-swine-flu-mean-to-you/#IDComment34903559 http://www.facenews.org/advicedoesheloveme/#IDComment32721471 Thanks Nick. Even Mr Super-Duper himself had a similar phase where everything was just "meh". It took people pointing it out for me to tackle it head on and get back to my jovial self. Mon, 31 Aug 2009 23:12:29 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/advicedoesheloveme/#IDComment32721471 http://www.facenews.org/advicedoesheloveme/#IDComment32695306 Every relationship hits this wall of apathy, and they all hit it about this time. Additionally, at least one person feels like they're getting the short end of the stick - but if you dig deeper - both sides typically feel this way about something. She claims she's tried communicating? With what? Words? It might be prudent to look further into what caused this change in his behavior. A lack of interest like that is usually a sign of an onset of depression. Usually the person affected isn't aware of it fully either. Mon, 31 Aug 2009 17:57:44 +0000 http://www.facenews.org/advicedoesheloveme/#IDComment32695306