She only found our after meetin him dat he did write, & someone did receive d mails, but they never told her. The people we suspect are dead so we can't get any answers. He thought B'dette mother wanted nothin 2 do with him...but he jus wanted 2 c his daughter again.(last seen at the age of 3) He couldn't move on 100% with his life always rememberin her. I guess dats y he never had anymore kids...I hope dis bit of info will enlighten some people. Don't b so quick 2 comment...der is always more 2 a story...b a little considerate..Thank you to all those who showed support to my mother. She really appreciates this. She was glad 2 share her story 2 giv hope 2 people n similar situations.

For those who are really concerned, My mother thought for 51yrs dat her father had died at war.! She found out he was alive when those detectives found her last yr x/mas.
He was last known 2 hav gone 2 war in england. He never wrote (or so we thought)
B'dette's mom changed her first name & she never carried his surname when dey got no response. B'dette mom remarried (changin her surname also) All dis time he was searchin at her last address. No one knew where she went. (she kept 2 herself)
He had no info on where dey live or of their real names now.
He paid a priest, nun, nurse & others throughtout d yrs 2 search & was scammed the money. Dey never looked...he found dis out later. B'dette again after marriage obviously changed surname makin it even more difficult 4 him 2 trace.He knew Noone else n trinidad.
It took 51yrs before he got any info. She 2 sceptical of him at first, but after meetin his family she realized he was really searchin all des yrs...

Trust some trini 2 make a snide comment without knowin wat dey talkin about. ? U really think half a page of d express can tell a lifetime of story? Obviously dey hav 2 downsize it.