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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Getting Through The First Year Death Anniversary Of A Loved One - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/anniversaries/first-year-death-anniversary#IDComment38679226</link>
<description>I&amp;#039;m really sorry for your loss. I can&amp;#039;t imagine how painful it is to lose a child but i can relate to what you&amp;#039;re doing. When my dad died suddenly a few years back because of a heart attack, we were all devastated. It was a surreal experience. I was so close to him that I can&amp;#039;t believe I wont be seeing him or feel his hugs and kisses. But we have learned to cope, and just like you, we kept his memories alive. We don&amp;#039;t want him to be forgotten. We cook his favorite food, sing his favorite music and go to places where he loves to go. We miss him everyday, and doing all those things is really therapeutic.   </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 07:36:40 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : http://www.relazine.com/dating/Why-dont-men-call-back</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/dating/Why-dont-men-call-back#IDComment38678509</link>
<description>Thank you for sharing your thoughts, SN. Great post! I love it!  </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 07:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
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<link>http://www.relazine.com/singles/younger-women-with-older-men-#IDComment35740724</link>
<description>I agree with you nightwish, older guys will take anything they can get, but today&amp;#039;s frisky young girls can be as vicious as a tornado. When they are done with one man, he is left with nothing but ruins of a broken heart and empty pockets.    By the way, I checked out your blog and it was quite an experience. Your wit, unique sarcasm and satirical comments are all very engaging! I love it!   Keep it up. </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 08:04:21 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Keeping Long Distance Love Affair Stronger - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/love/long-distance-love-#IDComment31266803</link>
<description>Thanks for taking time to comment in this article. Yes, in a way relationships (and everything else in life) has its downsides  but i think it&amp;#039;s not that bad. I agree with you that you need confidence and positivity to enjoy it, with this kind of attitude you will be able to see that the &amp;quot;downsides&amp;quot; can make you appreciate the &amp;quot;goodside&amp;quot;. You know what they say &amp;quot;you can&amp;#039;t appreciate the sweet without the bitter.&amp;quot;   </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 01:08:40 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Your Refresher Course On High Maintenance Women - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/conflict/with-high-maintenance-women#IDComment28787200</link>
<description>I cannot agree more! thank you for sharing your idea, Dave. I really appreciate it! Keep in touch!  Ruth </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 02:44:58 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : How To Tell Your Children You Are A Lesbian - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/gay-lesbian/coming-out-of-the-closet1#IDComment28786731</link>
<description>The little girl&amp;#039;s reaction is normal. She doesn&amp;#039;t understand. And the easy way to vent out frustration at this age is to cry. The best thing you and your partner should do is to have a heart to heart talk with the girl. You can take her to a quite and private place that will allow all of you to share openly without prejudice from the outside. Explain to her that you love each other. There are certain truths in life which she has no capacity to understand yet but try to simplify things for her. Emphasize the importance of a happy relationship filled with love, understanding and compassion. Tell your partner to reassure the girl that her love for her will never diminish and that she will have her no matter what. At the end of the day it will all boil down to honesty. When she comes of age, she will appreciate it and will be thankful. </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 02:37:15 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Show Your Man The Secrets To Pleasure A Woman In Bed - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/guide-your-guy-out-of-limbo#IDComment28785774</link>
<description>Hi Max,  I really appreciate you taking time in reading my blog and enjoys it at the same time. It&amp;#039;s people like you that really inspire me in my work.  Keep in touch!  Ruth  </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 02:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Is He The One For You To Love? - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/how-to-get-the-guy-you-want.#IDComment27933077</link>
<description>Hi there susan, thank you so much for taking time to read my blog. I really appreciate it. Our feelings are mutual, you are one of those people who are worth treasuring, you take time, you are sensible and you know what matters in life. I am glad that we are connected. You are one of the reasons why i love doing what i do.  Take care always, suzy!  </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 06:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Getting A Second Chance At Love - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/conflict/how-can-we-recognize-a-bad-relationship,#IDComment27395015</link>
<description>It is.  Love is a two way street.  When your both heading at different directions, having exhausted all your efforts and either one is willing to compromise and meet each other halfway.  Then as much as it pains us, we have to learn to let it go.  The situations we encounter is often the test of how strong our love is for one another.  It could either strengthen your relationship or break you apart. </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 02:43:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Ways To Pleasure Your Man - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/Great-ways-to-Pleasure-Your-Man#IDComment26201900</link>
<description>I quiet agree with you on this.  We have to once in a while be creative to keep up with our man&amp;#039;s interest or they&amp;#039;re likely to stray.     </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 3 Jul 2009 07:55:34 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Be Worthy Of A Second Date - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/dating/how-to-get-a-second-date.#IDComment26201529</link>
<description>Great to hear about it. Happy 7th Wedding Anniversary!  Try to come up with creative date ideas by making it unique, more fun and exciting which would make HIM wish he&amp;#039;d want to do this again.  Try going out on dates that involve a lot of action.  Usually with men, activities help create a close bond between you and your guy.  If your in a sentimental mood, try a walk in the park, or a ride in a coach around the city.  That is if your in a tourist area.  Whatever is available.   </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 3 Jul 2009 07:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>nandoism.com : How To Tell If Your Man Is Gay</title>
<link>http://nandoism.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-to-tell-if-your-man-is-gay-p1.html#IDComment25171079</link>
<description>Great blog! can&amp;#039;t stop laughing. Your awesome! </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 03:31:20 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Getting Through The First Year Death Anniversary Of A Loved One - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/anniversaries/first-year-death-anniversary#IDComment25168746</link>
<description>I am really sorry for your loss, Jeanne. It really takes a lot of strength to survive everyday- dealing with grieving and battling cancer. You have my deep admiration, but in spite of all the things that you are going through i am still glad to know that you have a daughter who looks out for you and grieve with you and listens to your plans. All of you have deep love for Tim and that love keeps all of you strong.  This coming Friday, let that love for Tim embrace all of you.  You and your daughter should practice whatever faith you have, pray together and remember the goodness and happiness that Tim brought in to your life. Talk about him and listen to each other, cry if you must, the important thing is that you are able to pour out that things that you miss about him.  This coming Friday I will be praying with you. I wish you and your daughter well.  My deepest condolence, Ruth </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 02:50:29 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Recovering From Infidelity: Having A Healthy Marriage After Cheating - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/affairs/recover-from-emotional-affair#IDComment25166210</link>
<description>i think it&amp;#039;s best that you give me the detail of it is that really bothers you. please email me at ruthpurple@relazine.com. i&amp;#039;ll be waiting for your email. take care. </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 02:07:56 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Recovering From Infidelity: Having A Healthy Marriage After Cheating - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/affairs/recover-from-emotional-affair#IDComment25038114</link>
<description>Hi there, thank you for taking time in dropping by. I really would like to help you because i can feel how affected and confused you are but i need you to elaborate your situation first, please message me if you have a facebook account so i can give you my private email. thanks and take care.  </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 01:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : The Whole New You: After The Affair - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/affairs/After-the-affair#IDComment24270197</link>
<description>Glad to know that you like my article. To be honest  this is just an excerpt of a much more thorough e-book of mine. You Can Get Him Back- Winning Your Man Back From infidelity or click: &lt;a href=&quot;http://tinyurl.com/ycghb.&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://tinyurl.com/ycghb.&lt;/a&gt; I&amp;#039;m sure that you can find this very helpful because I made this e-book for women around the world who was victimized by betrayal or infidelity. :) </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 02:39:38 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Watch Out For Relationship Killer - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/conflict/How-to-solve-relationship-problems#IDComment24269323</link>
<description>Thanks for your comment. Conflicts are really a great way in finding out what you&amp;#039;re relationship is made of. It can either make or break your relationship. And also thanks for sharing your wise wisdom, fighting fair is one great way in handling issues within the relationship. Fighting fair is mainly about respect and proper communication...  Hope to hear from you again.   Take care! </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 02:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Getting Through The First Year Death Anniversary Of A Loved One - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/anniversaries/first-year-death-anniversary#IDComment22943774</link>
<description>Erika,  I trust that your boyfriend will understand if you tell him that you are still mourning. This is something that he should support you with and help you in your grief.  </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 1 Jun 2009 02:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Sexercise Your Way To A Sexier And Healthier You - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/how-to-lose-weight#IDComment21285376</link>
<description>Thanks so much, Carol. I&amp;#039;m glad that you read my blogs and i really appreciate your comment. Your appreciation are the ones that really inspire me to keep doing what i am doing. Thanks, again!  Take care! </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 06:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://www.relazine.com/ : Here Are The Best Things That You Can Do For Your Partner - by Ruth Purple</title>
<link>http://www.relazine.com/commitment/romantic-things-do-to#IDComment20869519</link>
<description>Aaron,  I can see that you are really worried and concerned about her. It&amp;#039;s obvious that you don&amp;#039;t want her to get hurt and it pains you to see her doing her best but still being overdone by other actors. I can see that but the problem is she doesn&amp;#039;t because you end up in a &amp;quot;bitch fest&amp;quot;. I think it&amp;#039;s best that when she is feeling down, listen to her. No sarcastic comments about the industry.  Do what she and her friends are doing- laugh about it. It eases the tension and doesn&amp;#039;t make the problem as heavy as it is. Let your girlfriend feel that you believe in her, in her decision to be an actor. Your girlfriend is aware that rejection is part of the acting industry, big stars has gone through that. What&amp;#039;s important is that at the end of the day she&amp;#039;ll be with somebody that accepts her for who she is no matter what. So talk about the good things after a rough day to keep the atmosphere light...   Thanks for taking time to read my articles. You can posts to my forum if you need further advice. I log in there regularly.  thanks and take care.    </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 6 May 2009 08:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
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