For your first statement I need a Plurk emicon right now!! Maybe I'll just flick you off to my own: http://www.flickr.com/photos/charlierobinson1966/...tepid this argument, it needs to be recognised that I don't need to build a list. ____I fully understand those that do for a specific purpose or reason (marketing an event for example). I do feel though that people using FaceBook and a few other sites got a bit crazed and obsessed at building "numbers" rather than "relationships" for no particular purpose other than being able to say they have "x number" of friends... It's that that I have rejected.____I don't like being just a number on someone's list. So, yep. I'm a real person. Glad you're a friend too xc