I found Rafael's realisation pretty funny when I first watched it but now that you've pointed it out, I feel bad that I didn't see it. I hate how media constantly ignores or even mocks instances of men's boundaries and consent being violated and how so many people (including me in this case) fail to notice. I had a very negative reaction to watching him being drugged back in season 1 by that woman and it felt so.. triggering i guess to see the show go "oh he didn't sleep with that woman just because he found out Jane is a virgin. he was just drugged. thank god he's not an asshole lol" and just.. move on.

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