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14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Voices From the Classroom · 0 replies · +1 points
I was lucky enough to grow up in a open minded family, that never really cared what I did as long as I was happy and it didn't hurt anyone. I am straight, so I guess I wouldn’t know how hard it is to come out, but I know my parents would except me. A lot of people are not raised in this manner however, and it truly is a shame. Many gay kids spend their entire lives trying to change who they are, and many others take their lives rather then living gay.
Many of these people live in en and families, that are not very gay friendly, and if any environment would breed being straight it would be an environment that is gay hating, yet gay people still come from these environments.
Although raising people to not do something usually ends up backfiring, so I could maybe see more people experimenting with the same sex to get back at their parents, but are they gay by choice for this reason.
When it comes to raising a child I do not think a child should be sheltered, little girls should not be scared to play in the mud, or do “boy” things, and likewise for little boys. I have a older sister and I was basically her living baby doll, I was put in dresses and played with barbies, and all kinds of “girly” things, and these things never affected me in a negative way, all of this brought me close to my sister, I did not develop a hatred for her, nor did I continue to wear dresses later in life.
One of the most disturbing articles i have ever read was a bash on a celebrity that i can not recall, for taking pictures for a magazine with her young son while she was painting his nails pink. It was mind blowing to me that this freaked people out. The article and web posting bashed her as a mother, saying she doesn’t know how to raise her child, and she was raising her son to be gay. If the simple act of painting a boys nails made a child gay, every male with an older sister would have turned out gay, but this is not the case. The mother replied by saying her son asked to have his nails painted after watching her paint her own nails. And I think if she said “No, you’re a boy, boys don’t do thing like paint there nails, that is gay.” the kid would be worse off.
Back to the original question, No your environment cannot make you gay, it can however breed self hatred, and ignorance.
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Voices From The Classroom · 0 replies · +1 points
So with the project for Haiti the fact that the money is going straight to real people trying to make a living, and are bringing people along for the ride. So I was very excited when I learned I can actually properly help someone out like a Haitian entrepreneur. But on the whole I really agree on some of the ideas of the lifeboat series so I don’t naturally get charity and total world add. Why should we worry about poverty and ghettos in other countries when we have poverty and ghettos in the US. Now its a tough thing to say, I feel bad and i have guilt that Im putting america over every other country, but isn't that the whole idea behind a country that we are better then other people. But another thing that the lifeboat series brought up is that to be a true spaceship the world has to be under one true president, one true leadership. And so I also believe that If we can improve some countries but invading and free oppressed people then I would give “add” to a country in that way and as we move across the world giving add to as many countries as i can because then we could have a world food bank because we will all be run together.
But since I don't run the government and as a country, we don't share the same views I think we are at least in the right direction because it would be way wrose if we just went through the years with our blinders on and letting the worlds crys come to death ears.
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Voices From The Classroom · 0 replies · +1 points
So when it comes to racial comedy how I judge it is where it comes from, is it coming out of hate, or is it to show how funny some stereotypes are. Because I feel like some jokes can really break down racial walls and on the other hand some jokes can really build racial walls. There are different ways to break down walls when it comes to race don't take me wrong, but they involve interactions with race, and a lot of people live in areas where they cant interact and break down walls for their own, which is a shame. And so they have to learn about race in other ways, and jokes can really get through to some people. Its just how the joke is handled. The biggest thing that goes into if a joke is acceptable or not is if you can say it in front of the race the joke is about, if you cant then the joke probably shouldn't be said. If you have to turn around and look over your shoulder before you feel comfortable saying something then that should be a tell tail sign not to say something.
The day when you cant talk and joke about race will be a dark one. Race should be taken seriously but if you cant talk about it or joke about it then we are moving in the wrong direction, we need to be able to laugh at somethings in life and certain aspects of race.
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Voices From The Classroom · 0 replies · +1 points
When it comes to war and military involvement we also can do no right. War is a business, that without we would have never came out of the great depression. And war is expensive business to enter in. So i can understand why we pick and choose which conflicts to intervene in. Its a shame that we can’t help every country in the middle east that wants to overthrow their dictator do so, but those countries that we can benefit by doing so I believe we should. Now obviously we chose to point the finger at iraq after 911, and we did that knowing well that they had oil and we had a lot to gain by going to war with them, we also had a lot of reasons, and good ones at that to invade. Im not supporting the idea of going to war just to get what we want, but after 911 the country needed to be brought together, and they chose to do that by going to war, and lets be honest, if we didn’t do anything after 911 people would have been asking why we didn’t. It is also a shame that we have developed a racism against middle-eastern’s as a cause of the war as well, but thats what happens when we go to war, we send out propaganda so the country will stay behind it, its just a horrible effect of war.
And when it come to conspiracy theories about 911 I want to say I thought the response to the girls question was harsh. Now I don’t know what it was like to lose someone that day, and i also know it was a sensitive subject to the soldiers, and i know that the thought is repulsive and brings anger, but it was also an honest question, and a rational one and we can’t just not listen to things we don't agree with for the simple fact we don't agree with them. You should always question your government, and the emotion should have been taking out of the response.
Going back to the subject of war, until we are untied as a planet, under ONE leadership, war is an necessary evil for some reasons, and for others a unnecessary evil when money starts to take the reins.
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - The Kiss Seen Round th... · 0 replies · +1 points
I really don't know why stuff like this gets so much negative attention, its someone coming home after risking his life, fighting for his country, and he can’t in-brace the person he loves without somebody talking about it, it really is no ones business who you choose to lay down with. The fact that this is news worthy means that we as a community and a society have a long way to go.
We as a society has come a long way with how we view homosexuality, but like race we still have a long way to go. The fact that gay marriage is not legal in every state is crazy to me, I cannot see how someone can have a definition on love, and write laws to “protect” love. By not allowing gays to marry, your making them a second class, it very belittling, especially in a not so excepting world. I think its amazing that a presidential candidate can take a stage in front of the world and say they don't support gay marriage, it is truly amazing that someone can be a true bigot on national television and have a chance to run the country. The day when everyone excepts homosexuality is the day pigs fly, there are always going to be people that do not except it, and for the very least do not approve of it, but there will come a day, and i hope this day comes, where these people can live openly.
Racism and homophobia still exist and are big things. But the thing with race is that you can’t really hide it, at some point you have to except it and take pride in it, and not just race, this should be done by every person regardless of color. But when it comes to gays, the society, for the most part, tell them to hide it and be ashamed of it, and that there is something wrong with them and not to take pride in who they are. Its a very sick system, but were moving in the right direction, five years ago this picture would have been a bigger deal, but the simple fact that this is a deal in the first place means we have a ways to go.
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Voices from the Classroom · 0 replies · +1 points
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Voices from the Classroom · 0 replies · +1 points
Now when I go to the doctor and I need medication or surgery I want my doctor to have a degree and to know what he's talking about. But I wouldn’t belittle a shaman, because that is their culture. Instead of dedicating a certain number of years to a university to learn modern medicine, these people dedicate their entire lives to researching plants and nature. Also all modern medicine comes from chemicals, and a lot of these chemicals are man manipulated and altered and unnatural, all herbs and plants chemical structures are natural, and I would trust a man mixing chemicals together, when that man harvests all materials he uses over a man genetically altering and combining all unnatural chemicals, when all they know about the chemicals they are using are from second hand knowledge.
I see nothing wrong with shamans using drugs and hallucinogenic to go into meditation. I already don't see anything wrong with using drugs for recreation, but this is anything else then recreation, this is something they consider sacred and is an intricate part in their culture and society. Hallucinogenics are a very powerful thing and they respect it for what it is and use it to improve themselves. The brain is a very powerful thing, you can do incredible things when you put your mind to it. It is so powerful that if you believe that you are sick you will actually physically become sick. And what hallucinogenics do is they facilitate this, and allow you to think in ways you normally never would. By no means would i ever want to be high all the time everyday, but I have had the most incredible conversations with people when I am high. It closes out the distractions of the outside world and lets you look within and think on a deeper level, and it truly is a amazing thing. When people think about weed they may think, and other drugs, they think of lazy “hippies” and “stoners” but these people have used these drugs to open there mind learn things about nature that no one could ever dream of learning and become a sacred leader of their communities.
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Voices from the Classroom · 0 replies · +1 points
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Voices From The Classroom · 0 replies · +1 points
Now to answer the question of what I have learned in these pass weeks, and I have learned a lot, and I have Joe to that for that. Nothing had changed in the way I was thinking about college on the day of the candle light visual for Joe, but the did change that night. As everyone came together to morn I started to feel like a part of a family not just a number, and I really started to think that I too was Penn State. As I listened to the speakers of the candle light visual and the monorail service and how they were touched by this great man, I started to think differently about college, that no matter how big we are, we weren't just a number to this man, he truly cared for all of us. And I thought that even though my major will be challenging, its something that I have to work through, and it is something not set in stone. And lastly that I can make the most of my college experience, and my college experience is dependent on what I make of it, and thats something I have Joe Pa for.
14 years ago @ World In Conversation - Alabama's Migrant Work... · 0 replies · +1 points
This story in particular made me think, and it made me think about something I have always believed in. It has been argued, and a personal belief of mine, that illegal immigrants only take jobs that americans would not want. Yet others argue that americans would want these jobs yet illegal immigrants increase the number of workers in a given field, suck as farm hands, and therefore lowers the wage paid to workers in this field to a point where americans would no longer want the job. This argument was brought up in our economics class, and it was also the only major issue that came along with immigrants. So it turns out that immigrants do take jobs from americans, just at a lower wage that a legal american would work for. But this video proves this argument wrong, at least for a farm hand job, Arizona farmers cannot find people to take these jobs at normal wages.
I have seen Colbert’s original video on this subject, highlighted in this video, where he went to work on a farm, and although it was done in an extremely sarcastic way, it proved that these jobs are extremely demanding and a hard living that most americans would not work these jobs for double the normal wages, which would never happen because then food prices would go up and that is entirely different argument.
Now that there are no immigrates to work these farms, and farmers cannot find legal americans to work these jobs, they are passing a bill to put inmates to work in these fields. Colbert also makes a very good point at the end of his video, he says “apparently americans that have chosen a life of crime, don’t have the same work ethic as guatemalans that walk through 500 miles of desert to feed there children.” This brings up a couple things, for one these people are hard workers and they will work backbreaking jobs to support there family, and also that people really do risk there lives and throw everything away for a chance to come to America, a chance to support there family.
With all of this said we should allow illegals to work jobs that others do not want, and work with bill like the one Obama has/is working on that illegals can become legal immigrants more easily because we need them, and our country was build on immigrants, and immigrant labor, so who are we to just call an end to this.