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13 years ago @ World In Conversation - What additional questi... · 0 replies · +1 points
If I had a one on one conversation with Basum, I would ask him the same question. I would ask the same question because I really still am curious to find out the answer. I would want him to explain what he meant by exaggeration and what the most exaggerated thing is. I would want to know about other things portrayed in the media as well. The media has a lot to say but if he could be a news reporter for a day about the war what would be most important. What would be the substance of his report and why? Even if he could show some footage in Iraq, what would be the thing he showed the most? I would also ask him if he could tell Americans what he thinks the future of the war would be. I would ask all of these things because these are the thing I am most curious about. These things are what interested me most in the war on Iraq.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - What a man is... · 0 replies · +1 points
The reason why I think it took C so long to realize what the true definition of a man should be is because he no longer had a woman around him. He can no longer have sex when he wants and I bet he would give anything just to hold a woman in his arms than not to have one at all. In jail, I would imagine that prisoners think of ways to better themselves and prepare themselves for the real world again. They have time to think about life and all the things that they wish they could have done better in life. All the things they miss and can’t have and above all those things is a woman. It is alarming that it took such a horrible thing like jail to make you realize how women should really be treated. I am glad that at least C knows the proper way to treat a woman. I am actually really curious to find out how is next relationship goes.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Do you ever feel uncom... · 0 replies · +1 points
In order for me to feel uncomfortable around people speaking in their native tongue depends on the environment. It also depends on what language is being spoken. For example, when I go to my hair salon my hair stylist speaks Spanish all the time because they are Dominican. I try to listen and see if I can understand anything because I am interested in minoring in Spanish. I prefer to be around Spanish speaking people for beneficial reasons. It forces me to learn Spanish. Surrounding myself with other who speak Spanish is important to me. Now when I am at the nail salon and I hear two or more people speaking Chinese then I feel very uncomfortable. I feel as though they might be talking about me and I just don't know it. If I was walking through the HUB and people were speaking a different language I wouldn't care. It all depends on the situation.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Have you ever felt gui... · 0 replies · +1 points
It’s sad to say, but I felt guilty about the way black people acted just because it was different. I would act like white people just because I already stood out by being the only black girl in my class. Even when I faked at times, my true identity would continuously fail me. There would be times my Philly accent would come out and my white friends would call me out right away. They would make fun of the way I said “asked.” When I would walk alone, I would always study the differences in the personalities of people regarding a certain ethnic group. I felt like being black was not a good thing. The ways black people operated in Philly were extremely different from the ways white people in the suburbs acted. In Philly, there was so much trash on the ground. In my white community, it was so clean that the tiniest piece of trash would cause me to feel conscious about my race. When I think about it, at that point in my life, I never revealed the way I felt to anyone. When it was time for me to go to middle school, I felt relieved because there were black people who had the same secret I had. They were going through the same thing as me, being black in a white community and eventually my guilt faded and pride took its place.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - The R Word and the Obl... · 0 replies · +1 points
Today, my brother’s friend came over and she said your brother is so retarded. Immediately, I thought of the video and asked her what she thought of the word. She said that someone who is actually retarded should not be offended because it is the same as using the word ghetto or gay. It was almost like she was saying people who are retarded should be come immune to the word, so when they hear it, it will not be as harsh. She explained that the word retarded is a sensitive word, but people are not going to stop using it because of freedom of speech. I feel that not everyone will stop using it, but being aware is key. Just taking the time out of your day to acknowledge the fact that retarded is offensive and avoid using it can be helpful in ending the use of the word. Most people use the word and do not realize how hurtful the word can be to someone who is actually mentally challenged.
On twitter, there are thousands of mentions of the word retard a day. People call anything retarded from things that annoy them to people that act silly. It really is not a proper way to use the word, yet people do it so frequently. Anyone can see how using variations of “retard” is extremely offensive to individuals with intellectual disabilities, so why doesn’t political correctness come into play? There should be a politically correct barrier for the r-word just like there is for the n-word. Both words can be equally insulting. I just realized that there is no politically correct word for retard because mentally challenged still sounds offensive. I believe people with disabilities have it worst than any group of individuals because they will never actually be treated the same. They are practically in a category of their own. The r word may be the second most derogatory used word beside the word “gay.” I think retard is worse than the word gay, in a sense that people who are openly gay purposely act gay and your gaydar goes off right away, but people who are retarded do not openly act retarded, they have no choice. This is something they have to live with for the rest of their life. I have become aware of the r-word and I plan not to use it.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Is it selfish for peop... · 0 replies · +1 points
The way I see it is if you cannot provide for yourself, you should not have multiple children because it just makes it harder on them. I believe it is extremely selfish to have so many kids if you are poor. At least try to get yourself together and improve the quality of your life. A baby is a huge responsibility and is very costly. Why would you bring a child into the world, if you can’t care for them? I would like to finish college become established and then start a family. If I was Tammy, I would do everything possible to make a better life for my kids and myself. I think her father would be even more proud of her if she was not just following in his footsteps but if she created her own footsteps, steps that lead to a higher social class. I agree with the fact that it seems people in poverty have more kids. It might be because they can get more money for claiming them on their taxes. It doesn’t made sense to me as to why someone would be that selfish and I will never understand it. As a parent, I want my kid to look up to me and be able to receive everything they desire. I want my child to look to up to me as more than just a poor parent, but as a parent who did everything she could for them.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Why do you think Racis... · 0 replies · +1 points
When it comes to humans, there are so many disparities. Did you ever think why animals aren’t racist against other animals of their own kind? Animals learn to live amongst each other with not many differences. Humans have the ability to think for themselves, but are so easily influenced by outside sources, like society and the media. Our eyes are prone to noticing differences. It is because humans are not machines; they are not built to see the same. As soon as something different appears our neurons start coming together to form thought patterns that hint “DIFFERENT” and we feel the need to observe it with skepticism. There are so many separations in this world that makes us different than the other person like social economic status, religion, gender, color, race, etc. People need time to get use to different things or different people for that matter. Unless we have seen every country in the world, than there will always be someone different than what we are use to.
Everyone takes pride in their country just like you take pride in your favorite football team. We think our country may be superior to others and that makes the others not like us because we think we are better or they might think they are better. Wanting to be the best creates controversy leading to stereotypes about the other country in order to belittle the opponent. Stereotypes are another result of racism. As long as stereotypes exist racism will follow. They way to eliminate stereotypes is by understanding where they originated from then that will erase the byproduct of inherent differences. Until then, Racism will always exist because we do not take the time to understand different cultures. Instead of seeing black and white or Chinese and Japanese or Rican and Mexican, if we could just see a human race as the only race then racism would not exist amidst people that are divided amongst different regions of the world.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Do You Think Race Can ... · 0 replies · +1 points
Over the years, I have heard ridiculous things like white people not wanting their families to mix with others races because they do not want their race to be wiped out and white people are being worried about being the minority because of immigrants coming to the United States. These things may not be true, but amongst some families they are discussed. Black families were so happy to see a “black president” because in the world we live in blacks are believed to be less educated than whites. White and black people both have something to prove. As long as we are living in a world where we are competing against the other race, race will always be an issue.
Did you ever notice that white people never come to black events on campus. There is not a sign that says “No white people” allowed. Yet black people go to white frats and events white people throw. I truly believe that some races stay within their own group because no one understands you like your own kind. It always makes you feel better to see a familiar face. It’s like a white person in a classroom filled with black people. Since some races are not willing to acknowledge other cultures and try to understand them race will always be an issue.
Growing up in a suburban area, race was always an issue. It was like a law that races should not mix. An interracial couple was frowned upon. I quickly learned that many white grandparents do not believe there should be interracial couples, so they pass that down to their children and grandchildren. Some of these older generations’ opinions are viewed highly and respected so this theory keeps getting past down. As long as we have this ideology, race will always be a problem in today’s society. As long as we continuously discuss slavery in every childhood classroom, race will always be an issue. As long as we keep living in our stubborn ways, race will always be an issue.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Why Do We Need to be P... · 0 replies · +1 points
Sometimes people are not politically correct with the intentions of hurting someone. For example, using the term gay or faggot instead of homosexual could be an aim to hurt a homosexual person. In my opinion, political correctness is used the most because of racism. Political correctness will always exist because it has been past down from generation to generation. We may not know why what would say could be offensive, but it does not matter because by being political correct we are being “safe”. Political Correctness ensures us that we will not hurt anyone if we use the proper universal term, but this is not always the case.
Sometimes even if we are being politically correct it still may offend people. When I take any standardized test I always marked African American because I always thought of it as the “politically correct” way to say black. When I really think about it I do not know anything about Africa. I am American because I was born in the United States, but I would not identify myself as African. My mother is Jamaican and my father identifies himself as French Canadian. He was originally born in Indiana, but moved to Canada as a baby, so he knows nothing about Indiana. Both of his parents are Haitian. He speaks French and Creole. If someone called my mother or father African American they would feel offended because they identify themselves as Haitian or West Indian.
I prefer to be identified as black but not African American. I always wondered why it became politically correct to say African American rather than black? Why is it politically correct to say Caucasian instead of white? Where did these terms come from and who made them universal. Once we find out the origin of where they came from I believe then we can truly understand why we need to use them to be politically correct.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Why Do We Still Have S... · 0 replies · +1 points
I think stereotypes will always exist you just have to be the better person and give everyone the benefit of the doubt. You should never take stereotypes as something literal because like I said they are not true for everyone. It’s interesting to find out what people say when you tell them “What comes to mind when you think of a black person or a Mexican person?” People may think of different thinks but most things that pop into the mind first are the stereotypes that exist if you are neither black nor Mexican.
I like to think of stereotypes like traveling the world through a television. If we have never traveled the world, we rely on what we see on television or what someone tells us. We use this to imagine what that place would be like. Well the same applies with stereotypes. If I have never encountered a gay person, I am going to think of all the stereotypes first that are associated with gay people. It may not be the right thing to do, but that is how society works. If we cannot experience something first hand, we rely of technology or other resources.
To answer the question why don’t we change the stereotypes? Well, it takes a lot to change a stereotype because stereotypes have been repeated for years and years. Google has a feature where you do not have to finish typing what you want to search but it will create a list for you. If we type something like “why do black people” into google , google finishes it with things like “have big lips”, “say aks”, “have nappy hair”, etc. That alone says a lot. Millions of people use google everyday and it is hard to stir away from stereotypes if negative stereotypes are advertised with a culture right away. Overall, it is important to take the time to learn about stereotypes and where they originated first, so then we can overcome them and look past them.