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15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How has your opinion c... · 0 replies · +1 points
One of the videos that I thought was really amazing was the video about the man and his family that every single day would cook food for illegal immigrants. While there are so many negative feelings surrounding illegal immigration I thought it was really nice to see someone who was truly caring and compassionate. I could not believe that this man spent every day cooking over thirty meals, especially when he had another job. It was really amazing to see this man work and help these immigrants, particularly because for most of the illegal immigrants this was the only meal they would get each day. It was refreshing to see someone helping the immigrants, especially because the man that was helping them received no monetary compensation.
Even after Sam’s lecture I still was not quite sure what the answer to illegal immigration should be. After learning more about illegal immigration I see both sides to the argument. Illegal immigration is a complicated situation. Businesses use illegal immigrants to work for cheap and the use of immigrant work can be very helpful. But on the other side Americans are worried that their jobs are jeopardy and there is more competition for jobs. I don’t quite know what the answer should be for illegal immigration, but after Sam’s lecture I have learned a lot more.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - What are your thoughts... · 0 replies · +1 points
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - What are your thoughts... · 0 replies · +1 points
Aside from feeling sad I also felt guilty. I felt guilty that I did not know the history and stories of the Native American people and I felt guilty that I have lived comfortably for twenty-one years on land that was stolen years ago from someone else. I found that it is a hard pill to swallow. I know that I personally was not the one who came over and took the land from the Native Americans but sometimes I have a hard time not feeling guilty. I think I feel especially guilty because I try to put myself in the shoes of a Native American and I think I would be extremely angry. To have my land taken away, my people killed and then for the people who killed my family and friends to live on that land without knowing the truth? It is especially sad for me to think about when Native Americans today live under such terrible circumstances. Another thing that saddens me is that I am not quite sure what would make the situation better. I think for one thing, we need to start teaching the story of the Native American people in school and not just the typical happy-go-lucky story about pilgrims and Indians. I think that in order for things to get better people need to know the truth.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - After this class, how ... · 0 replies · +1 points
What I find most frustrating is how some Americans believe that our way is the best way. Who is to say that the way we choose to live our lives is the way that everyone else in the world would want to live? What gives us the authority to say that someone in another country lives his or her life “wrong?” I find this particularly frustrating because often times when we decide that people live “wrong” we know little to nothing about their homes, their lives, anything about them! How are we to say that we know what is best for someone else when we know nothing about them. That just does not make any sense to me. When it comes to people from other cultures and nations, you cannot decide what it best for them if you do not understand them. It is frustrating to me that people feel that because the United States is a powerful country we are entitled to control other people’s lives. I believe that we should help other people and countries when it is needed but we need to understand that not everyone lives as Americans.
But I have found that the same issue bothers me here at home in the United States. I think far too often we pass judgment on others without stopping to think about that person’s situation or life. I think we all need to learn to not be as quick to judge and to step back and see things from a perspective other than our own. It aggravates me when people are judgmental and critical others because I think that far too often they choose one part of a person’s situation that they disapprove of and they ignore the rest of the circumstances.
My final thought on terrorism is that while I understand why it happens, it frustrates me because it only continues the cycle of violence. However, I’m not quite sure I have an answer for how to stop the cycle; I can only hope that in the future things progress and get better.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - What do you think abo... · 0 replies · +1 points
While I myself have never been in an interracial relationship I am completely open to the idea. I actually think that it would be really great and I hope that at some point in my life I will be able to be in a relationship with someone of another race. At this point in my life, the reason I have never been in an interracial relationship is because I have mainly been around white people. I went to an extremely small private school for high school and the area I am from is predominantly white. When I got to college, it was a similar situation. It was not that I went looking for the white people, but in my first dorm most of the girls on my floor were white and they became my friends.
I do not personally have any experience with an interracial relationship but I have seen one or two with my friends. One of my close friends is in an interracial relationship and I have seen that relationship develop for quite some time now. I think that it is great that my friend is dating someone who is not white, but there are problems that have come up in their relationship. I think that my friend would like to be more serious with this guy she has been seeing, but he seems hesitant to get too serious because she is white. I think that he is afraid of what his parents or family might think. I think that it’s too bad that they have this barrier in their relationship, but I understand that not everyone’s parents are going to be completely open to an interracial relationship. While we have come a long way and our society is far more accepting than it used to be, people are still extremely judgmental and that can put a lot of strain on a couple’s relationship.
I wish that more people were open to interracial relationships. I hope in the future it becomes a more common thing to see and people become more accepting of it. One final thought, I firmly believe that interracial babies are the most beautiful children in the whole entire world and I hope in the future there are more and more.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Have you ever felt gui... · 0 replies · +1 points
But while the skin color I was born with was out of my control, I do become frustrated when my skin color has certain impacts on my life. To be honest, I do feel annoyed and guilty to know that my skin color, because I am white, can (in a sense) do more for me than someone who is born with black or brown skin. I do feel guilty that I will probably get, and have probably gotten certain advantages simply because of my skin color. I feel guilty because I do not think that it is fair to judge someone based on his or her skin color.
When watching the Kiri Davis video from class today I was reminded of that yet again. I found it so frustrating and upsetting to watch the young black children explain how the white doll was the “nice doll” and how the black doll was the “bad doll.” Again, this just does not make any sense in my mind! There are plenty of awful white people and I do not like how skin tone is equated with certain characteristics, whether they are good or bad.
I remember a situation that happened to me at a party a few years ago that I found really interesting of how these ideas are shown in society. I was talking to some guy and he asked me, “if you were walking by yourself down a dark alley, who would you be more afraid of…a black guy or a white guy coming in your direction?” Quite frankly, I thought his question was rather stupid. Why should it matter what race the man coming toward me is? If I am alone in a dark alley, I think I have more to worry about than the color of a person’s skin and there is nothing to make me think that one man would be “safer” or “more dangerous” than the other.
Back to the original question. I don’t feel guilty because I am white. There is nothing I can do about the fact that I am white, I was born that way and that is how I will stay. But I do feel frustrated about the way that I am treated because of my white skin. I’d much rather live in a world where we are colorblind to skin so everyone would be judged on what is on the inside, instead of what is on the outside.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How conscious are you ... · 0 replies · +1 points
After the demonstration that Sam did, I did notice that there were groupings of students around the classroom. I noticed that in general Asian students sat with other Asian students, black students sat with other black students, white students sat with other white students and so on and so forth. However, I think that this “grouping” of students has less to do with where students choose to sit and rather whom students choose to be friends with. In the beginning of the semester I sat with a friend of mine as well as a few of her friends and all of us are white. But it was not just a coincidence that we all decided to sit together, it seems as though the white kids/black kids/Indian kids, etc are friends with mostly white kids/black kids/Indian kids, etc. And I can see that this is the case in my own life. Being a white female, I realized that probably close to 80 or 90 percent of my friends are white. The fact that most of my friends are white partially has to do with where I grew up. I went to a very small high school and probably 99 percent of the kids in attendance were white, so it makes sense that my friends from home are white. But here at Penn State I still find that students stick to their “groups.” I would not say that I choose to be friends with other white kids, but somehow it just happens that they are the people I am around. I think that I would become friends with anyone who I spent lots of time with, regardless of race.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How do you feel about ... · 0 replies · +1 points
I think that is the thing that frustrates me the most; how much people living in the United States take things for granted. We are constantly worried about the most pathetic material things; who has the newest shoes? Who has the coolest phone? Who has the best computer? I find that all too often I hear people complaining about “problems;” “my clothes are not the cool clothes”, “her car is cooler than mine”, “my blackberry sucks!” Sometimes I just want to get so angry at these people and yell that some people do not even have a place to sleep at night, some mothers do not even have the ability to feed their children, and that we still have slavery in this world!
I am not sure if I would say that I always feel guilty about the way we live here in the United States, but sometimes I do feel guilty. I am extremely fortunate, but I never did anything more than anyone else to become this fortunate. I guess some would argue that the world will never be equal and that some are always going to be rich and some are always going to be poor. I think this makes sense, and I don’t think there is any point in constantly feeling guilty, especially about things that are out of a person’s control.
However, I do think that we should acknowledge that there are others who are not as fortunate as we are in the United States. I also think that since we are more fortunate we should help those who are not. Like Sam said in class, you aren’t going to be able to save the world. That’s true, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t give up. We can still make a difference, and as those more privileged I think we should try to.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How have the choices y... · 0 replies · +1 points
At the same time, I am well aware that determinism has been a driving force in my life. The first time I became aware of this was ironically enough, when taking the SATs. I remember back in high school being frustrated by standardized tests because I wasn’t getting the scores that I had wanted. My mom tried to comfort me by explaining that standardized tests really don’t test intelligence, that they really only test if your parents have the money to pay for a tutor. And while I found it comforting that my mom did not believe in the use of standardized tests to test intelligence, that exact reason she explained was why I did better on my SATs! My parents were able to pay for a tutor to come once a week and teach me the tricks and tips of standardized tests. Had my parents not been able to afford a tutor I may not have gotten the scores to get me into Penn State and my life could have been completely different.
I was reminded of this again in class when Sam was talking about SAT scores and parental income. Listening to him talk about the statistics really made me reflect on them because I was someone who that applied to. It was a perfect example from my life that determinism does have an affect on people’s lives.
But even after reflected on these ideas, I still believe that a person’s life is split between choice and determinism. I totally agree with Sam that it is different for everyone and you really cannot know what the situation would be for individual people. We are all completely different and it is the combination of determinism as well as choice that drives our lives.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Do You Think Race Can ... · 0 replies · +1 points
It really just seems so silly to me that we would believe that some people are better than others. When you think about it, it really does not make any sense that one group of people is superior to another. I do not understand why people do not just see as well as appreciate that we are all unique and different in our own ways. I think that one of the problems is that everyone is always so concerned about what everyone else has. We are always so worried about how we size up to every other person around us. Who has the most money? Who has the nicest car? Who has the biggest house? We are constantly in competition with each other and quite frankly it is just plain silly. Why does it matter so much who is the “best?” As Sam always says, we are all going to die anyway! So really, I just do not understand why we spend so much time in competition with each other. I think this also applies to race. Why do we constantly separate ourselves on the basis of skin tone, eye types or any other physical characteristic? We are all just humans, or according to the video, monkeys.
I think that in order for race to no longer be an issue in the future we need to stop teaching that we are all so different and teach that we are all just the same. But I do think that there are some obstacles in preventing race from being a problem in the future. One issue is that people are stubborn and are not willing to change their ways. But I do think that as we move from older generations to younger generations people will become more and more tolerant of others and race will become less of an issue. However, I do not know if there will ever be a time when race is completely obsolete. I hope that one-day people can live in a world when race does not matter but I am unsure if I will see that in my lifetime.