Even though you had done something wrong in your life I still believe that you have a purpose. In philosophy, people think that the death penalty should continue to go on because they believe that the t criminal doesn’t have any worth anymore. They feel that the criminal gives up their rights and purpose in life when they commit the crime. I know that you guys have done something wrong in life but I don’t think you all are worthless once this happens. Don’t get me wrong some of you need to be locked away for a very long time and needs to be very much rehabilitated. But some people like you know what you have done were wrong and now needs something purposeful to do while serving your time. Yes, you di have purpose and I think you need to remember that to stay sane.
part2
I can not say that I know exactly how you feel. I mean I cannot imagine sitting in a room and knowing that this will be the last place I will be for the rest of my life. The only thing I suggest is that you stay strong. I mean I know you may hear this a lot but you have to find things to entertain yourself. If you just sit and think about your situation then it will get to you. I know this isn’t too comparable but if I’m bored at home the more I keep repeating the statement the more depressed I become. But I think someone in your situation should always try and entertain themselves.
I think it is very good that you try to find a hobby that will entertain you and may be even help to keep you out of trouble. I also agree that whatever you do does not have to be grand but if it serves a purpose and keeps you happy then nothing else matters. If you find happiness in crocheting then I think you should do it. I think you should find as hobby or an activity that you really, really like and makes you happy.
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I think that everybody’s feelings should be taken into consideration because everybody is human. I think people get to thinking that you guys do not feelings but we need to remember that just because you are in jail does not mean you are hard stone cold people. I also can kind of bet on it that after about five minutes you guys were fine. You probably weren’t even nervous anymore after you started talking to each other. People have to remember that no matter who the person is meeting new people is difficult.
I know I do not like to meet new people or be taken out of my comfort zone. When I join new clubs organizations it takes a while for me to get to know different people. But I like the quote that you out at the end. When people are just cool things will go smoothly. If people just let things flow then a lot of things will be okay. I am glad the people got to know each other in the class and I hope it’s going well.
I would feel the same way if I was in your situation. I mean you think you will be okay with the situation but then when you actually get there it is a different story. You play the encounter over and over in your head but It’s not the same when the time actually comes. You try and tell yourself you will be okay but I think it is just natural to be afraid or have second thoughts about something like that. I understand the teacher’s mechanism of speech words as well. Everybody has things that may push their buttons and everybody deserves to be respected. I also agree with the fact that words are powerful. Words can have an effect on people’s feelings and emotions. People should not judge people and label them as something before they get to know them. Everyone deserves the respect of someone getting to know them before judging you. You guys have to remember that the other group was afraid to meet you guys as well. They had different thoughts that were running through their minds as well.
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I have no idea the kind of person you used to be, but that is the past and all that matters is that you recognize your wrongdoing. Yes, you may have hurt some people in the past but, it is a very big step that you vow to not hurt anyone else like that in the future. I think some people both men and women feel that sowing love is a sign of weakness. I think men think that women will look at them at a fag or something. I am glad that you have looked past this ridiculous phase and I hope you find someone to love you as much as you will love them..
part 3
I think that a man and women should know their roles and know how to be in a healthy relationship. Nowadays most people think a healthy relationship is just one with good sex. But, if you can’t talk to to your spouse then why would you be with them? Why would you be around someone who is not making you a better person. I am really glad that you came to this conclusion and understand this. I think today’s generation should get a wakeup call. They don’t understand the damage that their actions good or bad can have a huge effect on someone else.
part 2
I think this blog post is very necessary. Some of the guys in this generation seem not to know what it means to be a man. Some guys feel that the only thing that is important in a relationship is good sex. I think guys should understand and know how to treat women. If a guy put as much work into a relationship as much as women did I don’t think they would cheat. They wouldn’t look elsewhere for happiness. I think men along with women need to know what it means to be a man or woman and what a healthy relationship is. I think it is not just men who need to know how to treat the other sex but women as well. Some women were treated so bad all their life they don’t know how to be a wife, a mother, or even a friend.
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I also agree with you when you say you can get used to living in fear because people have fears everyday that they continue to live with. I just feel that you should take your story and put it out there. Its not known why your parents did that to you and who cares, but I think you should try and make sure kids in the same situation don’t end up the same way you did. I understand that you live in fear in the place you are and I think you should because only a crazy person would actually feel safe everywhere they went. I think your fear keeps you on your toes, like I said before. Keep you r head up and live life.
part 3
I really can’t fathom why your parents would do such a thing. People are sick and it’s a shame that you had to suffer because of them. i really do think that if you were able to get help then maybe your situation would have been better, but that’s not even something to think about. Another thing that comes to mind is if you were actually your father or mother’s son. I don’t mean to be rude or anything but I jus can’t seem to think how someone can do this to their own child. How could your siblings not help you? I think your father put fear into your family’s mind that caused them to continue to help abuse you.
part2
I think fear is instilled in the hearts of everyone. I also would like to say there is nothing wrong with being afraid of something. Having a fear of something may keep you from doing bad things or even the wrong thing. I am very sorry for what your father did to you and I understand that your fear stopped you from being able to tell someone what was happening to you. I think your father knew that you were afraid of him and used that to his advantage. Another thing that I think your father was afraid of was jail, or being ashamed that’s why he threatened you.
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