en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/534187 Comments by jujumama http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/24/how-to-use-your-vibrator-to-embrace-rather-than-replace-men/#IDComment105856852 Good points... so would you teach mansturbation techniques to your teenage daughter... how would you share this insight with the youth? I have never tried a cock ring... My husband and lovers stay erect becasue they know that male ejaculation is not as powerful as male full body orgasm... they love to go there so they practice Iron Crotch i2 Mon, 25 Oct 2010 02:41:00 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/24/how-to-use-your-vibrator-to-embrace-rather-than-replace-men/#IDComment105856852 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/24/how-to-use-your-vibrator-to-embrace-rather-than-replace-men/#IDComment105799973 I agree with you... Sure, please use this through meditation. The ceremony is for those who are addicted and use the vibrator like one would a pack of cigarettes... I enjoy the real thing way more. WAY more. Sun, 24 Oct 2010 19:07:10 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/24/how-to-use-your-vibrator-to-embrace-rather-than-replace-men/#IDComment105799973 http://www.iamanasha.com/elocution/in-love-again/461/#IDComment105771853 This is so beautiful! And the picture of you and him is amazing. I am so proud of you. xoxo Sun, 24 Oct 2010 15:12:18 +0000 http://www.iamanasha.com/elocution/in-love-again/461/#IDComment105771853 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/17/open-relationships-part-iii/#IDComment104787639 Hay Renee... I don't think anyone is going against the idea that we have at the core of our brain the reptilian brain with the mammalian brain on top of that.. but the cerebral cortex, the human brain is above that. So we are influenced by animal behaviors, but our potential as humans is to grow to the point where we go beyond what we think of as animal behavior. Jealousy is "natural" in some sense, and so is anger, sadness and so forth. But when channeled we can use the energies rather tan them using us. These energies are not supposed to have any control over our functioning. When they come up, we use tools to harness them. That is the point of what we mean when we say or relationships ideology is about spiritual growth and development... growing beyond the influence of the animal and replitilan brain. Once we do, we can use the other 88% that most humans are not currently trained to use. ONce we do levitation, shape shifting, pure universal love, cleaning the environment, fixing the poverty and so forth will ensue. That is what Carl and I are here to usher in. We can't do that holding on to any of the notions of humans as animals that has excused this current scenery far too long. Time for a major shift. You ready? You too are a part of this shift helping women to open to feminine energy... we are on the same team. xoxo Tue, 19 Oct 2010 14:17:43 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/17/open-relationships-part-iii/#IDComment104787639 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/13/why-i-quit/#IDComment103895919 LOL! Good plan! SO much more honest and doable. The dating starts when we hit 1000 members to utilize the VERY expensive software that I'd have to have added here. It will happen. giggle It must. xo Wed, 13 Oct 2010 22:51:37 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/13/why-i-quit/#IDComment103895919 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/13/why-i-quit/#IDComment103895785 I've been there... It's such a funny place. Women tell me "I do not have a desire to have sex with anyone else" usually it means, I do not want to screw up this relationship I have with HIM. I am lying to myself about that as well for my lover, and my husband too sometimes... I always tell him or myself (ha ha ha) that I do not really want anyone else except him. What I am saying is that the dick is so powerful that I do not want to ever NOT have it... so I will lie and delude even myself about my natural desire for others. And it feels so real! It is REAL that I WOULD sacrifice any other man for him.. but is that my TRUTH or my STRATEGY? giggle. Wed, 13 Oct 2010 22:50:34 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/13/why-i-quit/#IDComment103895785 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/13/why-i-quit/#IDComment103850616 Awww baby! Thanks for stopping in. THis is our story. We are mirrors here. I don't think my friend tobacco would leave me all together. I think that when I really live into this lesson that we will find a way to co-exist... I can't wait until then, but for now, I am allowing the balance to ensue. I love you! xo Wed, 13 Oct 2010 17:43:41 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/13/why-i-quit/#IDComment103850616 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/08/man-challenges-in-the-queendom/#IDComment102969834 Your muse is sexy! Does she ride you often and do you let her rite? I have attracted something special in you. Thank you. xo Fri, 8 Oct 2010 11:32:36 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/08/man-challenges-in-the-queendom/#IDComment102969834 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/08/man-challenges-in-the-queendom/#IDComment102945934 Enjoyable are your words... thanks for stopping in! xo Fri, 8 Oct 2010 06:58:06 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/08/man-challenges-in-the-queendom/#IDComment102945934 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/08/man-challenges-in-the-queendom/#IDComment102943100 Thanks so much for reading. I love your comments, always insightful and bright. xo Fri, 8 Oct 2010 06:21:52 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/10/08/man-challenges-in-the-queendom/#IDComment102943100 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/11/polemic-break-ups-are-senseless/#IDComment101611011 I had been wanting to answer your response for days... just have a chance now... wow! yes! Thu, 30 Sep 2010 06:59:52 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/11/polemic-break-ups-are-senseless/#IDComment101611011 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/11/polemic-break-ups-are-senseless/#IDComment101610973 The break up with David was possible because of the old view. That is my point. Although we are back together now, the point is that the old way of thinking is in place... in his mind, but also because I attracted him, in my expectations somewhere too... you see? Thu, 30 Sep 2010 06:59:14 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/11/polemic-break-ups-are-senseless/#IDComment101610973 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/23/answered-prayer/#IDComment100794822 Because I was praying for answers here... and you ladies are delivering big time, except that Solomon had 700 wives and 300 consorts (unmarried) so that is still confusing to me. How can Christians talk so much about fornication, adultery and so forth yet one of the writers of the Bible was doing something everyone else cannot do or is not supposed to do. Sat, 25 Sep 2010 01:26:36 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/23/answered-prayer/#IDComment100794822 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/24/a-love-supreme-my-relationship-with-love/#IDComment100784488 It made me feel like she didn't believe that night was as intense and special for me as it was for her. It made me feel like I had let her down; as if my love for her came up way short. Like I wasn't worthy or deserving of the experience we shared together. That's just how I felt. I am in no way blaming my feelings on her because she wasn't the cause for how I felt. It was definitely all on me, but in the moment I wasn't able to analyze why I was feeling the way I was feeling. I was only able to experience it. Sat, 25 Sep 2010 00:28:11 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/24/a-love-supreme-my-relationship-with-love/#IDComment100784488 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/24/a-love-supreme-my-relationship-with-love/#IDComment100750124 Remember in the story when I said I felt like I didn't want to be with anyone else? Well, I told her that I was going to break up with my other girlfriends the next day. When her and I talked about it the next day around 3pm I hadn't been too successful doing that. She then essentially said I wasn't authentic with her in both our time together and in what I said about breaking up with my girlfriends. It crushed me. Fri, 24 Sep 2010 19:46:50 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/24/a-love-supreme-my-relationship-with-love/#IDComment100750124 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/23/answered-prayer/#IDComment100622463 Thanks! I'll check the verse. Fri, 24 Sep 2010 01:59:05 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/23/answered-prayer/#IDComment100622463 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/20/open-house-goodies/#IDComment100274389 Please email me your member username. I'll send them right away! YAY! Wed, 22 Sep 2010 00:24:03 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/20/open-house-goodies/#IDComment100274389 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/20/open-house-goodies/#IDComment100274343 It's open for your membership level baby! Wed, 22 Sep 2010 00:23:33 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/20/open-house-goodies/#IDComment100274343 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/14/i-trust-my-husband-to-move-me/#IDComment99065987 That is so kind of you ANita! We love and adore you too! xo Thu, 16 Sep 2010 03:00:15 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/14/i-trust-my-husband-to-move-me/#IDComment99065987 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/14/i-trust-my-husband-to-move-me/#IDComment99065957 I too can't wait to come there for the tantra show! October right? I'm glad you're working some energy stuff with Rakhem... that will help. And what is going on with your side of the open thing? Often I have female clients who are in an open relationship but they NEVER have a man. I ask myself why that is and then I remember how hard it was for me to actually believe that I could have that without my man being upset. I thought he would disown me for life, or think me 'soiled' he said he would not but I never believe him.. it was deep. Tell us what is glowing on? Thu, 16 Sep 2010 02:59:54 +0000 http://jujumamablog.com/2010/09/14/i-trust-my-husband-to-move-me/#IDComment99065957