There was never a party where there was only one race in it, there has always been diversity to the point where you cat really tell how diverse is. Since I am Hispanic I am leaned towards going to Hispanic parties. I also enjoy more mainstream parties, which are white parties. Although, I have only been to a few fraternities, I have not experienced as much diversity in those parties, unless there are frat brothers that actually live in the house and know people that they can bring to their house. Overall, I think other people have to adapt to the parties I go, more than I do. I think, because more main stream guys and girls go to those parties, it makes it more difficult for them to adapt than from us, the majority, to make them blend in. But I think overall, there are always those who have the fear of just letting go and adapting, fearing that something crazier. After all there has never been a time where I had to leave because of I couldn't fit in. I had one episode where an African American young girl said racist slurs to my friend and I. My friend was really mad and we had to leave the party for the good of the girl because my friend was not thinking right I guess. I think those stuff make a party to get ruined.
Other than that the steps I take to accommodate to different I start to spot what is different with what I normally do, after that I start slow to accommodate and keep spotting differences, at the end I think I let myself go and enjoy the differences, because that might be the last time I experience something different rather than just bachata for me. Letting myself go, means embracing the others one difference, yet I still feel that some things are still the same but in different ways that you might realize that there are not differences at all. Always try to have a good time, no matter what is going on around, because at the end you go to a party to have fun, not to judge or to be judge by someone else. Remember that sometimes you are going to feel uncomfortable to dance to certain songs or drinking certain drinks, or even talk about certain weird things with people that you don’t usually hang out with. No matter what, the people, or most of the people that go to the party, they go to have a good time and not to be a bunch of weird people. You have to realize that if you go in with an open mind, you might come back with tons of new friend and one of the best experiences ever. Just have fun!

Knowing the person you are about to have sex is one of the most important step you can take in order to become satisfied in the act of sex. Not knowing the person you might have sex with creates a barrier of insecurity and antitrust that you cannot do something you like or something that you might want to experience. Now open mind does open you a few doors but does not let you in to a a maximum pleasure room. Man does not ask the women they are having sex if they are satisfied or not for many reason. We can say that is only a one night stand and that we don't care about the girl and just ourselves. I am not talking about myself but this is the theme that reigns mainly in our male world oriented : Guy meets girls, girls is hot, girl has short skirt and breast coming out and then guy get excited. Talks to the girl and/or offers her a drink and when they are having a "good time" he asks her to have sex and girl say yes and boom. Penis is pleased. Love? Trust? Special moment? None of those apply in this situation. Guy satisfied? Check. Girl satisfied? No one gave a shi... At the end of the day the penis got what it need and that is what mattered. Sad reality for most of my male fellows out there.
Now for girls are different I suppose but mainly it involves that the guy actually stayed there to cuddle and talk about shit in life and things that the guy can careless (unless he is really into the girl). Later on, walk in the park...some other cool girly stuff and off to another night of wild earned sex, so my theory is if you want the girl to be satisfied, you gotta earn your sex...and eat that kitty or vigorous foreplay. Earning sex does not mean paying for it, well maybe if your wife wants a new fridge and you want sex, then definitively that fridge will get you what you long seek for. But there are other ways, for example doing stuff she asked you to do, or do the laundry, groceries, etc. Kind of like being whipped but knowing that you are gonna get that pleasure that night. And no it is not called whipped, if you are getting the good stuff…and of course if no other guys know that you are getting whipped (Guy Code). Earning that sex at the end of the day only means that, women get pleasure by the things before the sex rather than in it maybe. Believe me, you are going to have a great night when your women that got an A on her chemistry test, rather than with the one that just gained ¼ of a pound.
Nevertheless, there is never a way to tell a girl or a guy that are right away satisfied, you gotta chat it up, maybe ask her to make sounds when she likes or something like that, you know…get creative. Make sure is getting the good stuff, because if she, there is a chance that you are too, and even more that you might be in for another round in the next couple hours.

Knowing the person you are about to have sex is one of the most important step you can take in order to become satisfied in the act of coitus. Not knowing the person you might have sex with creates a barrier of insecurity and antitrust that you cannot do something you like or something that you might want to experience. Now open mind does open you a few doors but does not let you in to a a maximum pleasure room. Man does not ask the women they are having sex if they are satisfied or not for many reason. We can say that is only a one night stand and that we don't care about the girl and just ourselves. I am not talking about myself but this is the theme that reigns mainly in our male world oriented : Guy meets girls, girls is hot, girl has short skirt and boobs coming out and then guy get excited. Talks to the girl and/or offers her a drink and when they are having a "good time" he asks her to have sex and girl say yes and boom. Penis is pleased. Love? Trust? Special moment? None of those apply in this situation. Guy satisfied? Check. Girl satisfied? No one gave a shi... At the end of the day the penis got what it need and that is what mattered.
Now for girls are different I suppose but mainly it involves that the guy actually stayed there to cuddle and talk about shit in life and things that the guy can careless (unless he is really into the girl). Later on, walk in the park...some other cool girly stuff and off to another night of wild earned sex, so my theory is if you want the girl to be satisfied, you gotta earn your sex...and eat that kitty or vigorous foreplay. Earning sex does not mean paying for it, well maybe if your wife wants a new fridge and you want sex, then definitively that fridge will get you what you long seek for. But there are other ways, for example doing stuff she asked you to do, or do the laundry, groceries, etc. Kind of like being whipped but knowing that you are gonna get that pleasure that night. And no it is not called whipped, if you are getting the good stuff…and of course if no other guys know that you are getting whipped (Guy Code). Earning that sex at the end of the day only means that, women get pleasure by the things before the sex rather than in it maybe. Believe me, you are going to have a great night when your women that got an A on her chemistry test, rather than with the one that just gained ¼ of a pound.
Nevertheless, there is never a way to tell a girl or a guy that are right away satisfied, you gotta chat it up, maybe ask her to make sounds when she likes or something like that, you know…get creative. Make sure is getting the good stuff, because if she, there is a chance that you are too, and even more that you might be in for another round in the next couple hours.

Knowing the person you are about to have sex is one of the most important step you can take in order to become satisfied in the act of coitus. Not knowing the person you might have sex with creates a barrier of insecurity and antitrust that you cannot do something you like or something that you might want to experience. Now open mind does open you a few doors but does not let you in to a a maximum pleasure room. Man does not ask the women they are having sex if they are satisfied or not for many reason. We can say that is only a one night stand and that we don't care about the girl and just ourselves. I am not talking about myself but this is the theme that reigns mainly in our male world oriented : Guy meets girls, girls is hot, girl has short skirt and boobs coming out and then guy get excited. Talks to the girl and/or offers her a drink and when they are having a "good time" he asks her to have sex and girl say yes and boom. Penis is pleased. Love? Trust? Special moment? None of those apply in this situation. Guy satisfied? Check. Girl satisfied? No one gave a sh... At the end of the day the penis got what it need and that is what mattered.
Now for girls are different I suppose but mainly it involves that the guy actually stayed there to cuddle and talk about shit in life and things that the guy can careless (unless he is really into the girl). Later on, walk in the park...some other cool girly stuff and off to another night of wild earned sex, so my theory is if you want the girl to be satisfied, you gotta earn your sex...and eat that kitty or vigorous foreplay. Earning sex does not mean paying for it, well maybe if your wife wants a new fridge and you want sex, then definitively that fridge will get you what you long seek for. But there are other ways, for example doing stuff she asked you to do, or do the laundry, groceries, etc. Kind of like being whipped but knowing that you are gonna get that pleasure that night. And no it is not called whipped, if you are getting the good stuff…and of course if no other guys know that you are getting whipped (Guy Code). Earning that sex at the end of the day only means that, women get pleasure by the things before the sex rather than in it maybe. Believe me, you are going to have a great night when your women that got an A on her chemistry test, rather than with the one that just gained ¼ of a pound.
Nevertheless, there is never a way to tell a girl or a guy that are right away satisfied, you gotta chat it up, maybe ask her to make sounds when she likes or something like that, you know…get creative. Make sure is getting the good stuff, because if she, there is a chance that you are too, and even more that you might be in for another round in the next couple hours.

Knowing the person you are about to have sex is one of the most important step you can take in order to become satisfied in the act of coitus. Not knowing the person you might have sex with creates a barrier of insecurity and antitrust that you cannot do something you like or something that you might want to experience. Now open mind does open you a few doors but does not let you in to a a maximum pleasure room. Man does not ask the women they are having sex if they are satisfied or not for many reason. We can say that is only a one night stand and that we don't care about the girl and just ourselves. I am not talking about myself but this is the theme that reigns mainly in our male world oriented : Guy meets girls, girls is hot, girl has short skirt and boobs coming out and then guy get excited. Talks to the girl and/or offers her a drink and when they are having a "good time" he asks her to have sex and girl say yes and boom. Penis is pleased. Love? Trust? Special moment? None of those apply in this situation. Guy satisfied? Check. Girl satisfied? No one gave a sh... At the end of the day the penis got what it need and that is what mattered.
Now for girls are different I suppose but mainly it involves that the guy actually stayed there to cuddle and talk about shit in life and things that the guy can careless (unless he is really into the girl). Later on, walk in the park...some other cool girly stuff and off to another night of wild earned sex, so my theory is if you want the girl to be satisfied, you gotta earn your sex...and eat that kitty or vigorous foreplay. Earning sex does not mean paying for it, well maybe if your wife wants a new fridge and you want sex, then definitively that fridge will get you what you long seek for. But there are other ways, for example doing stuff she asked you to do, or do the laundry, groceries, etc. Kind of like being whipped but knowing that you are gonna get that pleasure that night. And no it is not called whipped, if you are getting the good stuff…and of course if no other guys know that you are getting whipped (Guy Code). Earning that sex at the end of the day only means that, women get pleasure by the things before the sex rather than in it maybe. Believe me, you are going to have a great night when your women that got an A on her chemistry test, rather than with the one that just gained ¼ of a pound.
Nevertheless, there is never a way to tell a girl or a guy that are right away satisfied, you gotta chat it up, maybe ask her to make sounds when she likes or something like that, you know…get creative. Make sure is getting the good stuff, because if she, there is a chance that you are too, and even more that you might be in for another round in the next couple hours.

Knowing the person you are about to have sex is one of the most important step you can take in order to become satisfied in the act of coitus. Not knowing the person you might have sex with creates a barrier of insecurity and antitrust that you cannot do something you like or something that you might want to experience. Now open mind does open you a few doors but does not let you in to a a maximum pleasure room. Man does not ask the women they are having sex if they are satisfied or not for many reason. We can say that is only a one night stand and that we don't care about the girl and just ourselves. I am not talking about myself but this is the theme that reigns mainly in our male world oriented : Guy meets girls, girls is hot, girl has short skirt and boobs coming out and then guy get excited. Talks to the girl and/or offers her a drink and when they are having a "good time" he asks her to have sex and girl say yes and boom. Penis is pleased. Love? Trust? Special moment? None of those apply in this situation. Guy satisfied? Check. Girl satisfied? No one gave a shi... At the end of the day the penis got what it need and that is what mattered.
Now for girls are different I suppose but mainly it involves that the guy actually stayed there to cuddle and talk about shit in life and things that the guy can careless (unless he is really into the girl). Later on, walk in the park...some other cool girly stuff and off to another night of wild earned sex, so my theory is if you want the girl to be satisfied, you gotta earn your sex...and eat that kitty or vigorous foreplay. Earning sex does not mean paying for it, well maybe if your wife wants a new fridge and you want sex, then definitively that fridge will get you what you long seek for. But there are other ways, for example doing stuff she asked you to do, or do the laundry, groceries, etc. Kind of like being whipped but knowing that you are gonna get that pleasure that night. And no it is not called whipped, if you are getting the good stuff…and of course if no other guys know that you are getting whipped (Guy Code). Earning that sex at the end of the day only means that, women get pleasure by the things before the sex rather than in it maybe. Believe me, you are going to have a great night when your women that got an A on her chemistry test, rather than with the one that just gained ¼ of a pound.
Nevertheless, there is never a way to tell a girl or a guy that are right away satisfied, you gotta chat it up, maybe ask her to make sounds when she likes or something like that, you know…get creative. Make sure is getting the good stuff, because if she, there is a chance that you are too, and even more that you might be in for another round in the next couple hours.

I asked the same question in my discussion group last Friday and the same question did strike me. I am from Peru, and as we saw on Tuesday the top search was Gay pron and really struck my idea of what there is in Peru. I know that gay community is frowned upon in Peru and that there is not a big gay community either. Just looking at the everyday life I probably assume that homosexuality does not even exist. Yet I can see that all the top ten spots are gay related porn, and I think is because there is something more personal that each of us believe that we do not convey with other people but ourselves. I think that for most people watching porn is something that is taboo as well. We do not openly discuss it with anybody, maybe with your frat brother to recommend certain things, but overall we keep it to ourselves. But if we all openly discuss this trend of ours or what we like we would find many interesting stuff, such: How big our hypocrisy is. How much do we think we know ourselves. How much we are all alike.
Taboo or not this information, as we saw in class, makes you doubt if restricting something from someone only encourages them to do it or they just don't do it. For examples on places like Tennessee, a place white dominant, we can see lots of black related porn, making theses maybe due to the dominance of one group not letting the other group being seeing and wondering if they are different in other ways or in this case, if they are hotter. Other than that I believe that people most people are not honest in their opinions about who they really like or who they prefer. After all we can all show that what we feel and what we say is not the same. We are not that open at the end. But who’s to blame? I think the fact that this is a taboo topic makes it more restrict to people to even thinking about what their porn preferences are. In fact, I am not even that comfortable to talk about it myself. It is something that will never be known but until someone creates something like the page showed in class, we will never know about those things and what are the “rules” in those sectors are. At last, people are never going to be willing to share any personal information to be displayed with the entire world but if there is an incognito way they might be lenient. Until then, we will be missing data that we do not even know might exist in the world.

An "aid" is something that we are free to give, no matter what situation and no matter to who, what we call aid is something we give up to to give it to someone else that in some cases needs it. I believe that we are all human beings living on the same planet, and because of convenience and protection we have separated into small groups such as countries or religious groups and because of these we do see ourselves as equal or maybe we some people less. And I also believe that we have created the word "aid" because we are afraid of using the word share. There are great ways in which we help our own people but sometimes we leave the ones "outside" of our own away. But ye the irony, what happens in the US with the Native Americans. We must realize that we all live in a place called planet earth and no matter who we help. Yes we would be talking about who we call our own, but yet who isn't our own that is not stepping in the same earth as we are. Nevertheless, we should never forget who has helped us before, but also never to forget who we helped. With our aid, other people might progress and some will become lazy so we have to watch this. But going back into the helping our own problem, I believe that sure we should look close to home to see who surrounding us need helped, but that doesn't mean that the other help is wrong or bad. We should take care of our own in a way where we can take care of people who need it regardless where they are from or what territory of the world they happened to be born at.
Helping someone in need is still helping no matter who you help to. It will probably make a difference if you create another situation where you cannot even provide for yourself and you are giving away every single thing you have and that might take you to being in help. We always have to look up for ourselves, because in order to give, most of the times we have to have. Never regarding the fact that there are always people less fortunate than us, and that we always have to thankful for the things that we have even if those are so little, because some people just do not have them as oppose to have little. Finally, we must understand that helping is helping no matter what, how or to whom and we must be grateful that we are the ones helping and not the ones getting help at the end.

If I had an internship in my hands for an IT position, I would not give it to my son who's studying to become a chef or viceversa. I think that when we give handouts we also make sure that whomever we gave a handout at those people are qualified ENOUGH to do the job that is required. WE can also say that those people have earned enough trust form the other person to make them qualified enough not have to go through a formal interview, because they already know how and maybe they also already know what they are capable of doing and what they are not capable on doing. Further more, there are always a way people can choose you to fulfill a position, maybe they are going to use you in a different way or they can make you work in a team. But the fact that other people are chosen rather than others is because there is always another factor that influences who people pick to fill the position that they offer them. Aspects such work ethic, will power, leadership, enthusiasm, character, etc that most people are yet to master but that others in reality are more likely to have those than the more "educational" background qualified. Leading to maybe other people looking at those individuals that are referenced to them or that they are known by them that possess those qualities that might at the end shape the job that they required instead of knowing what the fraction of the 2/3 magnitude of gamma rays. Yet we always perceive that well educated is all you need for a job which is not true at all, you need hard work and discipline.
If I was given a handout because of affirmative actions is because I was destined to get that handout, because of my hard work or because of things that I have done to walk into the way of it. I believe that there is always a reason why things happened, sure other people might get more help than me or other people will get less help than me but that I did something wrong. Look at this way, white people are getting more money because of their skin colors, while colored people are getting more opportunities because of their skin color. I think that equal balanced actions against each race is none the lest worth it, because there will always be a way we are different and a way we need to come back together. But accepting others handouts might be the way opportunity that life is giving you back and no matter what race, sex, political view you have, you will always need help to reach the top, and if you accept those handouts, its okay, but always remember to give back as well.

I think taboos that affects in many cases are things that are more personally to us that we are just uncomfortable because we might not agree as a whole with it or it is really controversial. Yet we find excuses not to touch the point of view for other people to see what we really think, because they might not agree with the same or because them stress about the subject. But also because this stuff is personal and its not like you can Tweet about it. I think the more controversial it is, the more we avoid talking about it, but yet so it comes out of being taboo, we should talk about it instead. We should question what everyone opinion is about it and maybe that topic is not really taboo at all, is that we don't talk about it as much as we should. So it can become a less taboo. Also it can be hurtful to some people to talk about it, we might hurt other people’s feelings and that is not good. Therefore we dont talk about it. For example, the 9/11, we might see it as taboo just to talk about it in a public space, because some other people might have been affected for such big tragedy and we do not want to make other people uncomfortable. Yet we desire to see what those people think about it, not because to hurt them, but because their opinion is also interesting.
Also other taboo things are mostly stuff we dont want to hear, Like what people do when they take a dump or when even what political party are they most leaned towards. I do not know what is the matter so much for political parties and being taboo and that if you ask some people and they get angry and start flipping out that you shouldn't ask those kind of questions because those things are "personal". I guess because if you are so into another party people might treat you differently. Or because let say you are gay and also people might treat you differently or you are not what you are expected to be as the way you look.
Yet we wonder if these kind of things are ever really that taboo that if you speak about it, it might be your death sentence. We will never know if we don’t alk about it and the people who are just one sided thinking that might get all hurtful for one’s opinion, and have to think that are other people who will certainly disagree with that stuff. If we don't open up to stuff that we think are taboo, we will never know if it actually is or not.