en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/595548 Comments by Shafin de Zane http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-butterfly-trigger/#IDComment1039086371 Miracles are natural events that happen in the flow, or to you when you are flowing with the river. They are just strange and magical because they don't follow our linear cause and effect understanding. Nothing ended my search for flow, its a never ending quest to understand the fathomless currents of the flow. Everyday I live fully - face challenges and opportunities, and dance with life - I understand a bit more of the river. In Zen it is said that you must try to understand the mystery knowing that you will never understand the mystery, and that is Zen. And that is our quest Jacob, yours and mine. Thu, 16 Feb 2017 19:01:54 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-butterfly-trigger/#IDComment1039086371 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-butterfly-trigger/#IDComment1039076934 Glad you enjoyed. Thu, 16 Feb 2017 15:12:44 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-butterfly-trigger/#IDComment1039076934 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-butterfly-trigger/#IDComment1039076906 Thank you Adnan! Glad you enjoyed. Thu, 16 Feb 2017 15:12:10 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-butterfly-trigger/#IDComment1039076906 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-butterfly-trigger/#IDComment1039076874 Thanks! Sri Lanka is one of my favorite places in the world. Hopefully will be back there soon again. Thu, 16 Feb 2017 15:11:41 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-butterfly-trigger/#IDComment1039076874 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-fly/#IDComment1025688849 Yes! Sun, 10 Jul 2016 16:14:58 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/the-fly/#IDComment1025688849 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/5-gold-keys-for-practical-life-magic/#IDComment914481652 Thank you Erin! No, no more hayday for me, at least for now. Tue, 18 Nov 2014 18:41:12 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/5-gold-keys-for-practical-life-magic/#IDComment914481652 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/5-gold-keys-for-practical-life-magic/#IDComment914480915 Welcome Nisha! Very appreciated. Tue, 18 Nov 2014 18:39:41 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/5-gold-keys-for-practical-life-magic/#IDComment914480915 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/5-gold-keys-for-practical-life-magic/#IDComment911023483 Thanks Danny! Thu, 13 Nov 2014 10:01:36 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/5-gold-keys-for-practical-life-magic/#IDComment911023483 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/awakening-to-the-infinite/#IDComment566106170 I think you are experiencing a download problem. Try clicking on the link above instead of trying to right click on it. Fri, 8 Feb 2013 08:26:25 +0000 http://redefineyourreality.com/blog/awakening-to-the-infinite/#IDComment566106170 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-4.htm#IDComment412082127 Yes thats not a problem. As long as you maintain some regularity, its fine. The pitfall is however, when most people take a break, they think they will pick up right where they stopped in a couple of days, but they never do, because life gets in the way. Just remember that risk. It takes 21 to 28 days to make or break a habit. During this time, when you stop, you run the risk of not getting back. So thats why I ask continuous practice. In any case, as long as you maintain regularity, you are fine. Tue, 31 Jul 2012 02:56:31 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-4.htm#IDComment412082127 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment411564895 Dear Laurie, Sometimes you outgrow your relationships, sometimes two people just grow apart so much that there is nothing left to work on. In most cases though, the problem is simply this: one person no longer feels that that he or she (usually its the man) can make the other person happy (usually the woman), so they give up entirely and stop growing and/or communicating. If they person knew that the can succeed, they would do everything possible; no human being on this planet WANTS to be stuck in a lukewarm / boring relationship. But they stop doing anything about it is because TRYING = FAILURE to them. And humans are terrified of failure, of losing face, or feeling inadequate. What is the solution? The solution is first understanding that 9 out of 10 relationships not only can be saved, but totally turned around. Working in the right direction with the right tools in the right way is the secret. Since most couples are totally clueless about what creates or sustains attraction, what magnifies or destroys romance, what make men and women tick... they simply, needlessly suffer. And secondly, the solution is to study. Not spirituality or personal success, but specifically romantic relationships. Study like a mad person. You will see men and women talk in very different languages, have very different needs, perceive the world in very different ways. The more you understand these things CLEARLY, the more your relationship gets better. Lastly, remember this: EVERYONE wants to be happy and wants they partner to be their BIGGEST FAN. This is one of our deepest driving desires. If they knew how, they'd do whats necessary. There is hope, but first you have to believe its even possible. Then you can slowly begin to do the right things in the right order. And that changes everything. Keep taking the next steps. Read 10 books on relationships and attraction. Go to a relationship coach or therapist. Enroll in a coaching session. Do whatever it takes, no matter what. And even after all this, things may not change, but then by that time, you will have become someone far beyond anything you ever thought possible. And that... is the great secret of life. All obstacles are here for one reason only: they help us go to the next level of evolution. Hope this helps! Mon, 30 Jul 2012 08:25:27 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment411564895 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-4.htm#IDComment157330352 Glad u enjoyed. Have fun with rest of the journey! :) Sun, 29 May 2011 18:44:25 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-4.htm#IDComment157330352 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-4.htm#IDComment157330242 Not really. Two are somewhat related but not quite. Sun, 29 May 2011 18:43:50 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-4.htm#IDComment157330242 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-1.htm#IDComment157301369 Rewriting history is not specifically about attracting a mate but deprogramming all your negative beliefs installed in your childhood. It is designed in a way that YOU can choose which beliefs to work on. Hope this helps. Sun, 29 May 2011 16:18:03 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-1.htm#IDComment157301369 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment154687681 Remember first: masculine men only share problems when they want SPECIFIC solutions from people they trust, simply talking about problems is not, strictly speaking, a masculine man's idea of fun. Of course a man can do that, but then he is indulging in his feminine side. More often he is more solution oriented rather than "lets share our feelings just for the sake of it" oriented. So... listen, focus on the problem, suggest specific ideas, and let him choose the ones he thinks will be most helpful. Talking about problems with your friends, family etc that he has shared with you is NEVER a good idea without his permission. Men dont like to talk about about their weaknesses unless its very solution oriented, and that too with people HE trusts. Understand its not easy for him to talk about problems. So be gentle, patient and remember if he is clamming up once in a while, its not about you, its about him. I share this in lot more detail with the why, what and how in the 5 Mindsets program Q&A section. Hope this helps. Sat, 21 May 2011 17:52:59 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment154687681 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-4.htm#IDComment152905576 Thank you for your kind words! I am touched. As you will notice, the teacher always arrives when the student is ready. Its all about being ready my friend. If it wasn't me, it'd be someone else. But I'm glad to have served as your teacher. Keep taking the next steps with confidence and grace. This road dissolves wide open... Tue, 17 May 2011 06:39:16 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-4.htm#IDComment152905576 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment152897829 I hope so :) Tue, 17 May 2011 06:03:42 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment152897829 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment152897762 Glad it helped :) Tue, 17 May 2011 06:03:24 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment152897762 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment152897720 Thanks Jan. Tue, 17 May 2011 06:03:10 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/relationship-advice/why-couples-fight.htm#IDComment152897720 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-3.htm#IDComment152400876 Glad it helped. Sun, 15 May 2011 19:14:13 +0000 http://www.psychologyofattraction.org/psychology-of-attraction-3.htm#IDComment152400876