j3lliedtoast
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15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Where do the messages ... · 0 replies · +1 points
Obviously these messages need to stop, and the question is asked “why do they still exist?” I do not have a good answer for why. I hope that it is just as simple as a marketing expert saying that “white sells better,” because, even though that is terrible, there could be worse reasons for why the message is not sent to kids that being any color is good. Being a white guy myself, I cannot speak from experience or know what it is like, but I agree completely that there should be less cartoons of straight up white casts with maybe one or two other colors represented. The Disney channel TV shows are guilty of that one, and even more adult TV shows have the same sorts of issues. Most Sitcoms do not have very diverse casts. There are all of the Tyler Perry sitcoms that have pretty much all black casts, and then pretty much every other sitcom with all white casts. So there is diversity on the whole, but not in each small show. Little kids see these shows, too, since their parents watch them as well. If the whole of television and even toys were to become more diverse, then everyone would accept race for what it really is: just another part of being human.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How can we make major ... · 0 replies · +1 points
My initial response to the question was "i'm not sure" because no case is black and white. Nothing ever is, and I hate when people insist that there is a line somewhere that separates things from another side. Sure there are extreme sides, but there is a middle, no matter what the situation. Racist or not is not a good choice of a question, more "how racist is this?" or "to what extent does past racism influence this situation?"
Another big reason I think people make decisions like this is because they think "what am I supposed to do/think/say?" People do it all the time, I know I do. You want to fit in, you don't want to stick out in a bad way from a group of 700+ people. When Sam showed the first headline, of course everybody thought it was racism, it said she was black and jailed for sending her kids to school. That's what that newspaper/article wanted its readers to think, its how it wanted its readers to react. Only after hearing the whole story can anyone make a real decision, and anything that is said prior to a bit of investigation is moot.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - What is the Difference... · 0 replies · +1 points
All of the above being said, racial slurs should never be part of anything, just because they ARE meant to be offensive.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Body Image Issues- 119... · 0 replies · +1 points
Everyone above is making a good point in that the "media" and what's "popular" change what people think. I am a guy, so you could say it affects me less, but I never did and never will give a crap about what is popular, and there are plenty of people, thousands of girls included, who agree. So knowing the reason for the shape of your eyes and the build of your bones might be interesting, but it does not affect some, I want to say most, people too much, but that might not be true.
Others, again, may feel better about it knowing that they couldn't affect their appearance in such a profound way because they wouldn't even be here if they didn't have the features. Their ancestors wouldn't have survived in their environments. It might just give them the little bit of closer that is necessary to let them not worry about it anymore. And that is a good thing, no longer worrying about certain things about yourself is freeing and it feels better than stressing a lot.
That being said, I know waaaaaaaay too many people who worry far too much about how they look and how best to impress people around them. Personally I am turned off by a girl who only wears uggs and jackets with fuzzy hoods. Don't even mention the amount of make-up some girls wear. And guys can look like total tools too. I know it is all a personal choice to do these things, and more power to you, but trying to look like a guido is kinda... wrong. Especially if you aren't remotely Italian. But that's just one example. No one has to look like a movie star to be attractive. So for some people, because there is this national sense of the right way to look that is pushed on us in everything mass produced, some people think they need to change certain things. Hearing that they can't change these things because it was their ancestor's fault does not comfort these people. I wish I could understand this, but I don't. It's one thing to wish to be thinner, or more muscular, because barring some extremes, that is all up to the individual. But to try to change your whole face is ridiculous, there is no ugly face, no perfect face. That's all opinions. Actually everything is opinions when you think about it...
P.S. Nothing in Cosmo magazine is true. Also, why are these supposed to be 450 words long? It's harder to read and respond. Can they be split up?
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Last Name “W” – ... · 0 replies · +1 points